19/07/2022
ON THE ISSUE OF TRUST IN MARRIAGE
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Husband and wife suffered in the hands of Lagos landlord. 10pm Gen goes off. Not more than 1 car for each family so he questions why husband and wife without children has 2 cars. They both work far places.
Infact, in the heat of dealing with an inconsiderate landlord, Wifey suggested they begin to develop the land they got earlier and move out before their 2 year rent elapses.
Husband says good idea, but this project will consume alot of money o, a bag of cement is over 4k right now. Rod nkor, chippings get al
Wife says don't worry, I have some money saved in bonds. I started saving from my export business in the university. I have about 10-12 million we can use in running this project.
BUT ....
We will sign agreement on shared ownership and bequeathing to our children because you know the land was bought in your name but the building will be for our children
Boom 🔥🔥🔥
Kasala Burst
HUSBAND : If you cannot trust me, this marriage is O.V.E.R
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Was the wife wrong for asking her husband to sign an agreement for the 10M she's about to release ...
Remember, she didn't ask to be paid back, she's asking ownership to be transferred to the children as soon as they come .. which of course will be under shared custody until the children are of legal age.
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Couple currently separated.
Wife has given in and willing to build their home because husband says he will not touch any money from her. Let marriage continue
Husband: If she can ask him to sign a document it means if tide turns and he cannot fend for himself, wife will show him Shege. She has shown her true character. She only married him cos everywhere seemed comfortable.
Wife says she has been contributing her quota to upkeep. She works and does business and has more cash flow so she takes care of herself and her extended family worries. She never bothers him. Matter of fact when she sends money home, her siblings call him to thank him.
Husband Says if you like return, if you like don't return. It is in your hands. You are the millionaire in the marriage.
Wife's Father says No more marriage. This man already habours resentment towards you. Even if he doesn't take money from you, do you think you will have peace in any house he builds? Stay put in my house, we will return his dowry before he kills you silently one day
Church/ Pastor : God Hates divorce.
They are both workers in church and went through church counseling, which by the way didn't offer current conflict resolution or practical money solutions other than God Hates Divorce
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What is your Take Here?
How will you proceed, going forward?
What Money Advice do you have for couples?
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Yours-in-Matrimony,
Sira-Mene Teeh.
