
11/02/2025
It’s Wedding Tip Tuesday 🍸
Todays tip is more of a guide..
How To Legally Change Your Last Name After Getting Married !
**This is from my experience as a CT bride so please fact check if you are out of state!!**
Step 1: Social Security Card
The first thing you want to do is go online and make an appointment with your local SSA. I got an appointment pretty quickly.
The day of it took about 30 mins for me, 25 waiting to be called literally 5 to change my name.
What To Bring: -Old SS Card, ID, Marriage License
Cost: $0
Step 2: License and Registration
make an appointment online for your local registry. Print out a name change form and a registration affidavit. Fill this both out and also bring your ID, Old Registration, Proof Of Insurance and marriage license.
Cost: $30 total for new license and registration
Step 3: Bank Accounts
Simply go to your bank with your marriage license, ID and debit cards and they will reprint your new cards and your new name. They handles everything for me and only took a few minutes
Cost: $0
Step 4: Loans
For your Mortgage and Car Loan (or any other loans you have) simply call the company and they will let you know what type of paperwork you need to fill out. You’ll have to send in a copy of your marriage license as well.
Step 5: Passport
This may differ for you depending on how old your passport is. For me mine was 5 years old so I can to fill out a passport renewal and send it in by mail. Before sending it in I also had to get a new passport photo and send in my marriage license with it.
Cost: (Including Expedited because I’m going on a cruise soon 🤪) $190 the most expensive part so far of the name change but it maybe less for you.
Step 6: Emails, Accounts, Etc
This last part you can do over time. Maybe get a new email, maybe make new accounts for online stores you shop on (Shein, Victoria Secret, Zara, Etc, Etc
I also want to clarify that when I say Marriage License it needs to be a certified copy from townhall not a photocopy. Each of the steps above that require the license will not accept photocopies, and yes, they will give it back to you either that day or via mail depending on the step.