Sexy J.

02/01/2025

From the fear of trying something new to the bittersweet realization that it didn’t turn out as planned, last year reminded us to be proud that we still had the courage to try.

2024 taught us so much. We stepped into the unknown, faced our fears, embraced new hobbies, discovered truths about ourselves, said goodbye to people we once thought we couldn’t live without, and welcomed new connections into our lives.

As we move forward, it’s okay to carry a little grief for the dreams that didn’t come true, but don’t forget to give yourself grace and strength to keep trying. You tried. That effort, no matter how small it seemed, was enough. Whether it was reaching out, offering kindness, helping someone in need, or simply getting through the day, you did enough.

Take a moment now to acknowledge your efforts—every brave step, every little act of perseverance. You did well last year.

This 2025, may you grow beautifully, with hope in your heart and strength in your spirit. 🌷

05/11/2024

One thing I've figured out? There's no cheat code for success. You can't just "fake it 'til you make it"— because anything fake is bound to flop! Success isn't Amazon Prime; you can't get it overnight. It takes time, sweat, and a lot of showing up. So, if you're serious about being awesome, dive in, learn the ropes, and practice. Respect and recognition? They're like dessert — they'll arrive when the main course is done. For now, bloom where you're planted, and treat every day like growth opportunity 🤍.

17/09/2024

Over the past few years, I've been struggling to impose my desires on people who simply don't share same dreams or goals. I've come to the crushing realization that trying to force others to want what I want is not only exhausting but also deeply disheartening. It feels like I'm endlessly chasing a mirage, only to find that no matter how hard I push, I'm left feeling empty and alone. The weight of this constant struggle has worn me down, leaving me with a profound sense of hopelessness and sadness as I grapple with the futility of trying to make others see things my way. The pain of seeing my hopes and dreams clash with reality is overwhelming, and the relentless struggle has left me feeling hopeless and lost, struggling to find meaning in this unending cycle of disappointment 🥀

20/08/2024

A big flex is being lowkey.
Nobody knows what’s going on in my life, where I'm at, who I'm with, or what my next move is unless make it known.
Privacy is peace. 🤍

13/07/2024

There will come a time in your life that you can no longer run and hide from things that scare you. From there, you will have to choose between trying and giving up, but love, if you get there always choose trying. Always see the opportunity in every fear. You will grow from that experience, you will see what you are capable of, and you will later thank yourself that whether you lose or win, you have known and met a version of you who is braver than the person you were.😌

30/06/2024

I no longer concern myself with fitting in. Nor do I strive to please everyone with a universally liked coffee. I no longer justify my side to those who've already scripted their narratives. Instead, I embrace what unfolds naturally.
All I seek now is calm, gentleness, and softness.
My peace of mind will always outweigh lesser concerns. 🤍

28/06/2024

Sometimes I just want to go back to being a kid again. No pressure, no stress; just be happy.

27/06/2024

Some of us struggles to make ends meet.
Minimum wage, high standards on employment, waiting, or just barely breathing.

We don't own the world— yet we can live abundantly without being obssessed with the idea of being rich on fortunes.

Just rich in love.✨

12/06/2024

Update:

Graduate na si Sexy J 🎓🥳!

11/05/2024

"Help me turn the tassel!" 🥹🎓
Join me in crossing the finish line!
Your contribution to my graduation fund will help cover essentials like my toga, ring, graduation fee, yearbook, tuition fee balance, and more. Every bit counts toward making my big day possible. Let's celebrate this milestone together! 🎓
Thank you in advance🫶🏻!

Gcash No. 09364273509

30/03/2024

Cherish those who stand by you today, for not everyone stays forever. Let's embrace the ones who love us now and take good care of them, for their presence is a precious gift we shouldn't take for granted. 💖

20/02/2024

Sometimes things don't go the way you wanted them to be.
People are not doing what you expected them to do.
Life is not giving you its best side when you need it the most.
Some plans don't work out and you feel like you are paused for awhile.

I know waiting for answers are hard.
But believe me it will all make sense one day

19/02/2024

A few years ago I had passed through something that changed me.

We all passed through something that we weren't the same after.
We all got shocked from something that made us doubt everything and everyone.
We all passed through something that broke us in a way.

And here we are living.
You wouldn't die when anyone leaves.
You wouldn't die from pain.

You only get stronger and you love yourself more.
Nothing is permanent except you.

09/02/2024

Kalmado at payapa malayo sa problema.⛰

07/02/2024

When the world feels overwhelming, it's okay to be not okay, for it encourages us to prioritize our mental and emotional well-being, knowing that healing takes time.

22/12/2023

You are not faster or slower than you should be.
You're where you should be at that moment.
Sometimes you work hard and you wait for the results but at a moment it will work out.
God knows when you're ready for something to happen or someone you meet.

Trust the process.
Have faith.
You're on time. Your time is just different than anyone else. 🤍

07/12/2023

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ღ Indeed… 🙏🏻 ~