28/09/2022
It's been a pretty busy summer with weddings, becoming a grandparent looming and a whole bunch of things going on, including Covid last week. Luckily it was a very mild case that only lasted a couple of days. I realized yesterday that I haven't really written anything in quite a while, and I intend to take the next few days to correct that.
Most everyone in the bridal party has designated roles. But there's always one person that you have to decide how to get down the aisle. The mother of the bride. Your bride's dad's role is extremely defined. But mom? That's another question. The old tradition is for the best man to walk mom in after the groom's parents, then leave, and come back with the Maid of Honor and that's OK. The bride's mother can also be walked in by a family member or can walk in by herself but here's an idea I really like. I think it reinforces that two families are becoming one. Quick disclaimer: the families have to get along and, let's face it, that doesn't always happen. But here we go.
I'm not going to claim that a lot of what I write is original. I'm the first to admit that I steal ideas from couples all of the time, so I'll give Alex & Micheala credit for this. Here is how their walk proceeded.
Alex walked his mother down the aisle, gave her a quick kiss at the altar and escorted her to her seat. Then he took his position at the altar.
The Best Man and Maid of Honor walked down the aisle.
The attendants walked after that.
Typical, so far. Then here's what I think is cool. Alex's father walked Micheala's mother down the aisle just ahead of Micheala and her dad. They said a couple of words to each other at the altar then took their seats.
Obviously, Micheala and her dad stole the day. And the old cowboy that said he wasn't going to cry did. But the one thing that I loved was Alex's dad and Micheala's mom walking together. It was the perfect symbolism of joining two families as one.
Will this work for your wedding? Maybe, maybe not. But it's certainly worth considering.