Steps to Love Wedding Dances

11/11/2025

11/03/2025

Worried about freezing up on the dance floor?
You’re not alone. Most couples are nervous about being the center of attention.

That’s why our lessons are designed to help you feel calm, confident, and genuinely connected.
We focus on what feels good - so your first dance feels like second nature when it counts.

DM us “READY” and we’ll help you prep the fun, not the fear.

10/03/2025

When it’s a mutual love affair between you and your couple 🥰🥰

09/29/2025

Bay Area couples—if your wedding’s this summer or fall, now’s the time to book your first dance lessons.

Availability is limited, especially for weekend sessions.
Let’s get your date locked in.

09/23/2025

Here’s what one of my couples had to say after their lessons:

“We were so nervous, but Steps to Love made it the most fun part of our wedding prep.”

That’s the goal—more joy, less stress, and a first dance that actually reflects your relationship.

Let’s make this moment one you’ll love forever (and want to post about too).
DM me for Bay Area availability.

09/15/2025

Want to surprise your guests?
Start slow… then flip the script halfway through.

Think: slow dance into salsa, or a sweet moment into a dance battle.
(Yes, we choreograph it all.)

This kind of moment always brings the house down—and you’ll be the couple they talk about after the wedding.

Message me “SURPRISE” if you’re ready to plan something epic.

08/27/2025

The Steps to Love team just got stronger.
More grounded. More magical.
The countdown is on… any final guesses? 👀

08/22/2025

We’re thrilled about this new chapter at STL. 🙌🏼
The official announcement drops next Thursday, August 28th—make sure you’re here for it. 📢

07/15/2025

Apparently, wedding dance coach💍 with a background as a professional ballerina 🩰 and making people cry happy tears 🥹 is now an official job title—because Bold Journey featured my story and let me share why I started Steps to Love.

At Steps to Love, we specialize in wedding dance lessons for couples who want their first dance choreography to feel personal, connected, and totally doable—even if you swear you have two left feet.

We don’t do stiff routines or awkward swaying. We help you look and feel like yourselves on the dance floor—relaxed, confident, and maybe even a little sexy.

If your first dance plan is currently a shrug and a prayer, read the feature (link in bio) and book your free consultation for wedding dance coaching.

06/29/2025

As a proud member of the LGBTQ+ community, it is extremely important to Steps to Love®️ Wedding Dances founder Erin Parsley, that all people of any gender and sexual identity, feel welcomed, embraced and celebrated.

Her instruction is body-positive, trauma-informed, and honors every couple’s unique expression of love. She stands for creating a safe space to heal, learn, grow and express yourselves 100% authentically.

Whether you are working with Erin to prepare your first dance for your wedding, or coaching with her to create your best relationship pre and post marriage, you can expect to be in an inclusive, judgement free zone, where you are affirmed in your unique love story!

Erin is honored to be serving in her third year on the Board of Directors for WIPA (Wedding Industry Professionals Association SF, in this term as Secretary.

06/27/2025

Want to surprise your guests?
Start slow… then flip the script halfway through.

Think: slow dance into salsa, or a sweet moment into a dance battle.
(Yes, I choreograph it all.)

This kind of moment always brings the house down—and you’ll be the couple they talk about after the wedding.

Message me “SURPRISE” if you’re ready to plan something epic.

06/23/2025

Your wedding dance isn’t just for the big day.

It becomes part of your story—your inside joke, your living room flashmob, your forever “us” moment.

Just ask Cheyenne and Lokesh:

“We still break into our first dance around the house to see if we remember all the moves. And every time we hear our song in public, we just start dancing!”

That’s the kind of joy I want for you.

Over 200 couples have danced with us—and for the past 4 years, your love notes have earned us The Knot’s Best of Weddings Hall of Fame.

But honestly? It’s messages like these that mean the most.

✨ Your dance should feel like you.
✨ Not like a scene from someone else’s wedding.
✨ And definitely not something to stress about.

Ready to create a first dance you’ll actually want to keep dancing?

I’ve got you.

📝 Read more real couple stories here: erinparsleyweddingdances.com/love-letters
📍Based in San Francisco Bay Area
💃 Custom choreography, no experience needed