17/02/2021
IN THEIR OWN WORDS | This is a story that not even the greatest novelist could write. Surely only God could match two people so entirely different. Family, upbringing, race, culture, background, language, traditions, country, continent! This is a love story that no one thought could happen. This is a love story, against all odds.
Romance, the woman who would become the love of my life, had recently escaped an abusive 3-year relationship through which she received her greatest blessing, an amazing bundle of joy named Aiden, I had never been on a date. She hated me at first. My name is Alex, the same name as her ex, which even hearing the name produced frustration and bad memories in her. It took a while but through a lot of time spent time together, laughing, serving, singing, praying and studying the bible, we became best friends.
Our adventures included park playdates and African foods. We took multiple trips to the emergency room, we took care of two kids together for a single mother while she gave birth to her third, we stayed up all night cooking for events, we drove through snowstorms, got in one car accident and narrowly avoided another, and took countless trips to daycare and back.
Being with Romance has been the greatest adventure of my life. I saw her graduate from college as an exchange student from the Ivory Coast with baby Aiden literally strapped to her back. Witnessing this mother sacrifice for her child made me more attracted to her. She is the strongest woman I have ever met. Through all of this, even there being over a foot of height difference, and despite many people in today’s world not believing we belong together, our love bloomed, all three of us. We were engaged on January 16th, in 2021