SOL KNCT

13/04/2020

BADAMI BACHELOR WEEKEND

PALM SPRING, CA | MAY 2017
Jamil & Anthony didn't want your typical "bachelor" party, they wanted something intimate, relaxing and beautiful to reflect the love and union they were about so celebrate in front of their worlds... but first, a moment with their nearest and dearest.

SOL KNCT was so happy to coordinate, plan and be a part of this beautiful celebration and union.

13/04/2020

Returning to my SOL

Even with all this revelation and returns and reminders, fear still kept knocking. Banging like to po-lice.

Ego was like: alright, now.
We have surrendered to what’s going on but this s**t is still heavy and I still don’t know how to navigate this!!

Finding my sol again means finding the patience to quiet that part that's urgent and welcomes fear, lack, doubt, not-enough-ness and pity to the table to rush the learning, discovering and listening process.

Finding my sol means learning to be in the still, and trusting it will speak when the time is right.

I lean in to prayer and ancestral energy to speak and soothe me and reaffirm me so that judgement of what I have or have not done is an echo of an old conversation.
I allow myself to curl up in the sun and breathe deeply because maybe if I remind my sol this temple needs it’s connection to remember we are a team in breath and sight and love and ex*****on.

I give thanks for all I take for granted.
I cry in sadness and joy at how I’m loved and by whom I've been loved because they reflected me in those moments so that I was able to be what I needed to be - and I love who I'm constantly becoming.
I fall in again…
I fall in again…
I fall in sol with myself again - because it’s beyond love it’s purpose.

Ok, Check…
Let’s go, let’s go, let’s go

10/04/2020

SWEETS & STORIES: INTIMACY, WORKSHOP⁣
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MID-CITY, LOS ANGELES, CA | MAY 2019⁣
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A transformative and healing space curated by Khatija Dadabhoy, MA. Sweets and Stories is a space where she weaves her love for healthy baking and gathering people together to share their stories. Each series asks its workshop participants to share stories related to a particular topic relevant to the human experience. ⁣
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SOL KNCT was overjoyed to participate and help co-create the aesthetic and energy of the space to bring forth this beautiful heart-opening workshop⁣

- go to solknct.com for more pics & info

10/04/2020

Finding where to SURRENDER⁣

You are going to hear me talk about this word A LOT. It is something I now live by.⁣
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This world teaches us to live to control the outcome, the unlearning is in the surrender ⁣
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How did I surrender? That’s a good question.⁣
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I gave up trying to “control” my emotions and just allow them to express, make their visits and relay their messages so that I can plan and execute accordingly.⁣
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I took stock of what I am actually afraid of in the new reality of pandemics and quarantine isolation - by the by, it wasn’t of dying or getting sick - wanna know what I am afraid of: never expressing my purpose; aka making sick and quarantine of my own gifts/purpose worried about a future I can’t control.⁣
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That s**t is hard and the ex*****on of that is ongoing.⁣
Then it happens - a release I can actually feel.⁣
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It arrived in meditation. Thought, intuition, spirit and faith/knowing met my breath, and filled my lungs in a way that I felt weighted air rise off my shoulders…⁣
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it came on the back of reminders and mantras...⁣
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This can not last forever, universe keeps proving that over and over⁣
I have proof that I’m always greater on the other side of the flames⁣
Stepping into fear and the unknown with unshakeable trust in universe has gifted me with so much more than I could have ever imagined⁣
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This time is no different⁣
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I am alive, healthy, blessed, safe, spirit protected⁣
There will be a moment on the other side of this that’s filled with joy⁣
I still want to give⁣
I still have a healthy son and world⁣
I still believe I can make a difference for someone, even if it’s only one⁣
I still love⁣
My voice matters⁣
I am a survivor⁣
I have a survivor's mind - what doesn’t kill me will indeed make me stronger⁣
I keep writing and manifesting the story regardless of phenomena⁣
Rona or not, my intention is waiting.⁣
And so it is.⁣
Ok, Check… Let’s go, next step⁣
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08/04/2020

INNER GLOW CIRCLE RETREAT
VENICE, CA | JAN 2019
Inner Glow Circle is a leading training company invested in educating women to be the next leading life coaches and entrepreneurs. As a web based company, they are using their platform and expertise to empower entrepreneurs the world over.

SOL KNCT had the privilege or organizing, facilitating and being a guest speaker at their Winter 2019 Retreat.

It was a beautiful experience to watch the magic of working for yourself, yet never by yourself, in this supportive, caring, smart and empowering group of women!

08/04/2020

Where’s my POWER now
Meditation_ 3/9/20
“Curves”
Yes I have them but those aren’t the ones I’m talking about lol. I’m talking about the redirections in life that sn**ch you all unexpected like. The good and the bad.

I started SOLKNCT.com as an accountability placeholder to my purpose. That energy birthed not only that intention but so many ideas... too many. That excited fruitful energy generated my other career to explode with business - taking my focus away from SOL KNCT. The pressure I put on myself to MAKE SOL KNCT into something, like right now, is real. It’s palpable. So this focus shift was very bittersweet.

Then the curve - wisdom on the words of a beautiful woman I know - who in a short time, because of her depth of care, unabashed open heart and conversation; I consider a friend. I attended an event called ‘Set the Tone” and Eniafe Isis was one of the curators/facilitators of the Education portion of this amazing event. She spoke of All Her Words ( | allherwords.com) a purpose born, that has since become a beautiful space for women to see their wounds reflected in others, as victories and nourishment on their own journeys. When speaking of her journey in coming to understand All Her Words, she allows her platform to tell her what it wants and needs to be and grow towards. She spoke of the fact that “She” had her own voice and needs and it was her job to listen and reflect. Stunning.

Since I’d always believed and seen my business as an inanimate thing as opposed to a heart beat, my wig has since been sn**ched. I love a perspective shift.

The melancholy lessened and the anxiety for now gave way to patience and grow - SK has its own voice. I’ve moved to taking judgement off of my not-yet-organized over abundance of ideas with surrender, continuing to hone my own discernment, process, focus and allowing SK to breathe and guide me. And to trust all that universe has introduced that keeps me in learning and revealing.
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From feast to famine, the lesson is still the same. I wrote this days before this world changed. I deemed this to be where my POWER is now, in the surrender, yet, why is it harder to understand now? The terms are the same - you’ve navigated hard, extreme challenges before - and here we are evolving.
Ok. Check,... let’s go, next step

07/04/2020

JOSH & GRETCHEN'S WEDDING
LOS ANGELES, CA | JUNE 2018

A beautiful union between two beautiful souls. Theirs was a love returned, they met and dated in college, parted ways to live, learn and become, just to meet again, love again, be the doorway of life and walk together through the rest of this one.

SOL KNCT loved ushering this beautiful moment 💗
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Catering

07/04/2020

NEW BIZ & THE STRUGGLE

If I’m being honest, I’ve had to ask myself what lesson is being taught

If I’m being honest, I’ve had to reset and leave room for emotions through this time
With the world
With my heart
With my family
With my career
with SOL KNCT

A month after I launch my website and put intention, effort and investment into this intuitive purpose finally found and named; here we are: world under quarantine - all streams of income halted

I have been in meditation about it ALL and the lessons are revealing themselves

It’s not only the lessons I need and search for, but also the reminders of the intention I set.
I spill words to so many different pages and videos to hear my thoughts - so many I forget my own wisdom

I looked back on my fountain and found some forgotten wisdoms

I want to share how I am moved and moving through as well as returning to this; and also introduce you to SOL KNCT properly - as much as I know of them in this moment. As I return to the whys of this love language, I will be sharing the highlights of SOL KNCTs journey (events|retreats|workshops).

One day, one breath at a time I learn them as I learn myself.

I appreciate, feel your warm attention and appreciate you taking a moment to say

Hello.
With love,
Tamara, SOL KNCT

07/04/2020

SOL KNCT is here to brings spirits together in present moments
In this current reality we are quarantined with our love language
Being unable to give it one way has allowed us to pivot and start from the beginning with all of you

Who is SOL KNCT?
Who am I?
Well, isn’t this a perfect time to get acquainted
While we have this time
I’m going to be saying hello
I hope you enjoy this window in
Stick around. Say hello. Let’s get to know each other, let’s
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