11/06/2024
| Malay Weddings : Flowers are a big part of the weddings, but have you ever wondered about the symbolism of the traditional sets? 😅 These are completely optional in the modern day, but for those who want to keep the culture alive, let us break it down! :
Sirih Dara:
Sirih Dara is a floral arrangement made from sirih (betel leaves). The arrangement is stacked into a tower-like dome and placed at the wedding dais to represent the chastity of the bride. It is a gift from the bride to the groom’s family.
Sirih Junjung:
Sirih Junjung too, is made from sirih (betel leaves) and represents the chastity of the groom. It is a gift from the groom to the bride’s family but typically, it is made taller than the Sirih Dara. Normally, this is made using fresh florals, though it is not a must.
Bunga Rampai:
Bunga Rampai comprises of rose petals and other fragrant flowers, usually jasmine and ylang ylang, mixed with rose water. The mixture is then placed in small pandan leaves, containers, or sachets topped with a rose bud or sometimes baby’s breath. Usually, the bride’s side will gift their prepared Bunga Rampai to the groom’s side and vice versa, right after the solemnisation ceremony (Akad Nikah). It is a symbol of hope that the sweetness of marriage will prevail. Nowadays, people replace the fresh elements of Bunga Rampai with the readily-available dry potpourri.
Bunga Pahar:
Bunga Pahar are hard-boiled eggs tied to a stick and decorated with flowers. These are displayed on a tray and placed on the Dais during Nikah. Quite similar to Chinese culture, the egg symbolises fertility, and towards the end of the reception, these are given to guests with well wishes for the couple to bear children soon in their marriage.
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