30/05/2024
โจ ๐๐ฎ๐ช๐ฝ ๐ฝ๐ฑ๐ธ๐ผ๐ฎ ๐น๐ธ๐ผ๐ฝ ๐ฆ๐ฎ๐ญ๐ญ๐ฒ๐ท๐ฐ ๐๐ต๐พ๐ฎ๐ผ!
Weโve all heard of the baby blues, but did you know that post Wedding blues is a very real thing? When your Wedding is over and all the dust has settled, it can creep up on us very unexpectedly and understandably so! Take note of these 5 useful tips for banishing those post Wedding blues!
โจAsk your guests to add their favourite memory of your Wedding day when theyโre signing your guestbook, so that you have snippets of your day to read back over which may include details that you had missed during the day while you were floating on your marry cloud.
โจ Make sure you have plans after your big day! No honeymoon? No problem! Make sure you forward plan at least one date day/night per month, eg- movie night, gig, dinner date, cooking together, ghost hunt, theatre, games night, whatever you like to do together, book it in ahead of time and give yourselves something to keep looking forward to!
โจTalk about how youโre feeling to friends and family members whoโve had weddings before. They may be able to tell you what helped them move past these feelings. Itโs always good to know your feelings are normal and totally valid.
โจTake up a weekly hobby together. Set yourselves a new challenge! Ever fancied learning a new language? Pottery? Salsa dancing? Cookery? What better time to find a new skill than with your newlywed partner in crime.
โจPrioritise self care. Take your meds and or vitamins. Have that bubble bath. Whatever keeps your head happy, do it. Whether itโs a walk, a gym session, an early night or a whole bar of chocolate with a good book. If it makes you happy then itโs definitely a positive!
โจRemind yourself that no more Wedding planning means you will free up a LOT of time to do other things and in turn will relieve a lot of stress. Itโs not always a negative thing having less to do. Reward yourself for planning the kick ass wedding of your dreams with plenty of rest and reminiscing by looking back at photos, reading your guest book and of course, more time for just the two of you ๐ค