Wed-in-Bliss

Wed-in-Bliss πŸ’•βœ¨ Helping the DIY Bride to go from feeling OVERWHELMED, CONFUSED and FEARFUL to EMPOWERED, INSPIRED
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➑️ Introducing something completely different into an already saturated market, our virtual wedding planning workshop on 'How To Plan Your Wedding' is a fun and easy, step-by-step guide for the DIY bride going it alone without a wedding planner!

πŸ’₯WARNINGπŸ’₯
πŸ₯‚ It comes with a side of prosecco and an abundance of french fancies! 🍰

πŸ’• We officially launched on Valentines Day of 2020, right before we w

ere sent into lockdown amidst the Coronavirus pandemic, but in just a few short months, we had toured with the National Wedding Show, began to sell our workshops throughout the UK, partnered with the UK's No.1 Bridal Subscription, 'Blushing Bride Box' and have been featured in blogs such as 'The National Wedding Show' and soon, 'Confetti'. πŸ˜ƒ

➑️ To learn more, please visit: www.wed-in-bliss.com

[SAVE THIS POST]​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​Preparing for your wedding day can feel daunting at times when we have little knowledg...
27/01/2024

[SAVE THIS POST]​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​Preparing for your wedding day can feel daunting at times when we have little knowledge of how it will all naturally play out since this is all still so new and fresh for us.​​​​​​​​​

However, any opportunity to gain a deeper understanding of our big day is something to jump at! It doesn’t have to be overwhelming, just start with one thing at a time and go from there πŸ™Œ

Want to go deeper and get the strategies to take your wedding planning wellness into the next chapter of growth?

Click the [Link in Bio] to find out how our health and wellness membership 'The Bridal Retreat' could work for you on the run-up to your big day.

✨ Care to share in the comments if this post hit the nail on the head for you?! πŸ‘‡πŸ»

SAVE + SHARE β˜οΈβ€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹ It’s so important to keep your mind [OPEN] as a newly engaged couple.​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​- Always...
23/01/2024

SAVE + SHARE β˜οΈβ€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹ It’s so important to keep your mind [OPEN] as a newly engaged couple.​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​- Always be willing to have the difficult conversations

- Go deeper into your own motivations as to why you react the way you do to events that happen in your life.

- Create opportunities to learn more about your partner

Use these personal prompts to dig deeper into how you can communicate even better as a couple.

πŸ‘‰ Make time for each other: carve out dedicated time to talk and listen to each other without distractions. This can be a regular date night or a scheduled check-in to discuss your day.

πŸ‘‰ Practice active listening: when your partner is speaking, give them your full attention and try to understand their perspective without interrupting or judging.

πŸ‘‰ Be open and honest: share your thoughts and feelings with your partner in a clear and respectful manner. Don't shy away from difficult conversations.

πŸ‘‰ Use "I" statements: avoid placing blame or making assumptions by using "I" statements. EG. instead of saying "You never listen to me," say "I feel unheard when I don't get a chance to express my thoughts." This prevents defensiveness and encourages understanding.

🚨 REMEMBER: Work every day to be the best version of yourself, allowing your partner to uplevel and do the same.

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πŸŽ₯ It's the FINAL DAY of VISION week for our LIVE series of the 'Wedding Prep Playbook'. We're going out with a BANG today as I bring to you an Ultimate Checklist you won't want to miss.

Want to get your hands on all of the freebies in the series?? Grab those by signing up at my [ L in B ] πŸ™Œ
⏰ 10 am (UK time) πŸŽ‰
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20/01/2024

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1️⃣ Keep a paper trail with any bookings made​⠀​​​​​​​​
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2️⃣ Review the budget every time you secure a new supplier​​​​​​​​​

3️⃣ Use a wedding-only email address to avoid mixing any further communication into your personal emails post-wedding​
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4️⃣ Be sure to research ALL suppliers using testimonials and ratings made OFF their website​​​​​​​​
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5️⃣ Create a solid Plan B in case anything goes array! ​​​​​​​​​
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✨ Want more insight, tips, tools, and a solid plan to move forward with ease? ⠀⠀⠀⠀​​​​​​​​
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Book yourself a space on our service,'π™π™π™š π˜½π™§π™žπ™™π™–π™‘ 𝙃𝙀π™ͺ𝙧', a 60-minute deep-dive into your planning process, giving you all of the tools to move forward with ease.
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It's a great opportunity to get my eyes on your big day and to personally guide you through the whole process, with you and your wedding in mind!​​​​​​​​
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🎯 Comment 'BHOUR' below for more details! ⬇️ πŸŽ‰

Time to uncover those statistics - Let's map out your spending plan βœ…β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹In past workshops, I've broken do...
18/01/2024

Time to uncover those statistics - Let's map out your spending plan βœ…β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹In past workshops, I've broken down the costs to spend on your wedding in order to create your monthly savings plan between now and one month before.

🎯 To get access to those numbers you can drop 'Blueprint' below and I'll pop that exercise over for you.

ANYWAYS!

Once you know your monthly savings plan, the next step is adding a portion of that overall budget to your 'Venue & Catering' and the rest will be poured into your other vendors.

1️⃣ How much do Brits spend on their weddings in the UK then?

10, 20, 40K? ➑️ Swipe the carousel to see the breakdown.

2️⃣ How much should you be spending on your wedding?

This comes down to your unique goals, but most commonly a really healthy budget with more financial ease will have you sitting between the Β£15-20K mark.

To do this you want to...

1. Build your realistic, personlised budget plan (watch the workshop replay!)

2. Decide where you want your money to flow to (i.e. use my 'Non-Negotiables' task)

3. Match up your budget with any gifted funds from family or friends to boost the ballpark figures.

3️⃣ How do I pick the right suppliers to get the most out of my money?

That comes down to your vision + budgeting model + your narrowed-down list of suppliers & how you might want to approach them fairly in regard to cost negotiations. Some vendors offer discounted rates when purchased on the spot at wedding fayres and some may offer extended payment plans.

Loving these conversations, come and join us inside BBE for ultra-turbo support πŸ’°

[L in B] 🌟

Here is your reminder that you’re already living a reality you once dreamed about πŸ˜β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹Today I sat readin...
16/01/2024

Here is your reminder that you’re already living a reality you once dreamed about πŸ˜β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹Today I sat reading through a journal, one that I didn't use much last year but did during my wedding planning process back in 2018.
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I found an entry from Aug β€˜16. It said:
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β€œWhat does Nikki’s dream wedding look like?”
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😍 A day of celebration that we’ll remember for the rest of our lives

😍 When I walk down the aisle, I feel that overwhelming rush of butterflies in my stomach

😍 I’ll marry my best friend

😍 The venue will be a breathtaking castle in all its glory on a winters frosty morning

😍 Every aspect of the wedding will tell our story, share our personalities, interests & hobbies.

😍 We’ll be well-organised and the day, smoothly executed, with careful attention to detail.

😍 We’ll eat delicious food that warms the soul next to a huge, lit fireplace surrounded by family and friends

😍 Our guests will be looked after to the highest standard and will talk about our wedding for years to come!
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As I sit here, reminiscing on the Bliss Brides I've supported across the last two years, I can’t help but feel a little emotional right now because not only did all of the above come true
..I get to share my wisdom and support my brides in planning their dream weddings πŸ₯Ί
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This blew my mind!! How incredible.
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So today I blew off those cobwebs like a naughty β€˜supposed to be on a self-growth mission’ girl and made a new journal entry.
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β€œWhat does Nikki look like when she’s supporting 100 brides in 2024?”
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And although that question sounds absolutely crazy, when the answer poured out, it’s actually SO do-able and SO exciting with my trusty team beside me 😍

STOP πŸ›‘ OBSTACLES AHEAD βœ‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹As you breeze through your planning process, suddenly you encounter u...
13/01/2024

STOP πŸ›‘ OBSTACLES AHEAD βœ‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹As you breeze through your planning process, suddenly you encounter unexpected roadblocks. Objections, pushbacks, and challenges from your bridal party hit you like an unforeseen road closure.

But fear not, we have a dependable compass that will navigate us through and around these barriers standing in our way.

Calm breath, handle, and on we go πŸ’—

Giving you the [INSIDE SCOOP] for those all-important invitation reminders to include for your guests to be fully and tr...
09/01/2024

Giving you the [INSIDE SCOOP] for those all-important invitation reminders to include for your guests to be fully and truly in πŸ‘ the πŸ‘ know πŸ‘ ​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​
🎯 Scroll & Save, dropping a 'πŸ”₯' emoji in the comments below if you'll be utilising this for your invites later! πŸ‘‡

Hey! There's a lot of new faces in here so I figured I'd re-introduce myself πŸ‘‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹, CEO of  +  (2024 busin...
07/01/2024

Hey! There's a lot of new faces in here so I figured I'd re-introduce myself πŸ‘‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹, CEO of + (2024 business baby πŸš€)β €β €β €β €β €β €β €

I've spent over a decade in and around the wedding industry, whether that be managing a team as a wedding planner, performing as an artist, or planning my own fairytale wedding back in 2018.

In an effort to really prioritise and only make decisions that align with my authentic code (πŸ‘‡πŸ») this year, I'm excited to step into this new era + it looks like this:

1. Freedom
2. Creativity
3. Connection
4. Service

Passionate, spiritual, and ambitious, I thrive in supporting others to help them see their potential + succeed.

Wed-in-Bliss was born when I realised that the industry was lacking a more personalised approach for the DIY bride looking to plan her own wedding, still having access to expert support along the way but at a fraction of the cost of a wedding planner!

If you're on a mission this year, I'd love to support you + you can find out how that might look by clicking my [L in B]

✨ Things to know about me:

- I'm on a growth journey: mindset + wellness are important to me.
- We started a large house renovation in 2021...ask me if I'd do it again 🀭 🀣
- I love to Bake + in 2024, I'll be making more time for it
- Wine + Champagne enthusiast
- I'm always a positive, glass-half-full kinda woman

Now, I'd love to get to know you all better - tell me something about yourself in the comment section πŸ‘‡πŸ» πŸ₯³

Nikki xoxoβ €β €β €β €

[SAVE THIS POST] Swipe for 7 Common Wedding Mistakes to Avoid πŸ”₯ Then Read the Caption for More πŸ˜ˆβ€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹...
04/01/2024

[SAVE THIS POST] Swipe for 7 Common Wedding Mistakes to Avoid πŸ”₯ Then Read the Caption for More πŸ˜ˆβ€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹
Things that go without saying, but I'm still saying them!

πŸ‘‰ Announcing your engagement too early

πŸ‘‰ Rushing to book your vendors

πŸ‘‰ Not thinking your timings through

πŸ‘‰ Choosing vendors solely on price

πŸ‘‰ Worrying about other people's opinions

πŸ‘‰ Trying to do it all yourself

As always, let me know if you have questions. 🀍

But I'm curious - Which on this list spiked your attention?! Brain share! πŸ§ πŸ€—

In + Out List for 2024 ⬇️​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​So many valuable lessons learned this year, and so much growth to take throug...
01/01/2024

In + Out List for 2024 ⬇️​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​So many valuable lessons learned this year, and so much growth to take through into 2024.

In these last 4 weeks alone I've had to sit in the uncomfortable and make some really challenging choices. I had to experience stillness, vulnerability, and downright difficult moments to really uncover my path in life.

Nothing is ever done TO us, it's always done FOR us.

So, here's to finally prioritising what matters to me this year.

πŸ‘‰πŸ» IN:

- Doing all the things that calm my nervous system rather than spike it.
- Expanding my social circle with like-minded, driven individuals.
- Focusing on very few things in Wed-in-Bliss, streamlining down to the core of it all, and executing with excellence.
- As and when it allows/ feels right, expanding our team to make those projects feel lighter.
- Regular date days/nights. We're also implementing a monthly family meeting to hold ourselves accountable for our finances, goals, health, and happiness.
- Continuing to grow in knowledge + discipline around what's best for my health.
- To launch a brand new business - no longer ignoring the tapping on my shoulder, so if you're looking to launch an online business this year, follow: πŸ₯‚βœ¨
- Living by and making decisions based on whether they align with my authentic code:

1. Freedom
2. Creativity
3. Connection
4. Service

πŸ‘‰πŸ» OUT:

- Business burn-outs! It's time to give those up so there will be less over-committing with my daily to-do list, no more strict structures to allow things to become more free-flowing, and more outsourcing to share the load.
- Putting working out on the bottom of my priority list. Ready to get strong, take supplements, and live a healthy happy life.

Welcome to... ​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​πŸ₯ πŸ₯ πŸ₯ THE GRAND FINALE of πŸ’« 'The Wedding Prep Playbook' Instagram Live Series πŸ’«Whether y...
21/11/2023

Welcome to... ​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​πŸ₯ πŸ₯ πŸ₯

THE GRAND FINALE of

πŸ’« 'The Wedding Prep Playbook' Instagram Live Series πŸ’«

Whether you've been an avid daily attendee OR you've only caught one of the tutorials, this masterclass will tie everything up in a super neat bow before we head into the New Year πŸ₯‚

So come along and join us for an EPIC hour of getting everything in place for a solid 2024 πŸš€

➑️ Click the link in my bio to secure your free seat - and I’ll see you on Wed, Nov 29th!

AGENDA:

01. CRAFTING A BUDGET THAT SPARKLES IN 2024

Discover the key ingredients for creating a budget that's bulletproof, allowing you to plan your dream day on the budget that you have (let's not head into married life having broken that bank πŸ’Έ )

02. NAILING DOWN YOUR DREAM TEAM GOALS FOR THE NEW YEAR

Perfect wedding squad...ASSEMBLE! πŸš€
It's time to stop - breathe - and evaluate what/ who's left to book or sort in the new year so that you feel confident knowing what to do when you pick things back up after the festive feels πŸŽ„

03. GET MY FORMULA FOR CREATING THE PERFECT TIMELINES + PLANNING SCHEDULES

Unlock my awesome step-by-step formula that transforms your wedding day into a slick, and smooth-running machine. Gain exclusive access to behind-the-scenes tips, tricks and hacks for immediate use in your wedding preparations πŸ“‹ 🀫

πŸ“† November 29th, 2023 | 7 PM

🎯 Click the link in my bio to secure your free seat.

Join me every Monday-Saturday in November for a series of LIVE + FREE Wedding Prep training to supercharge your way into...
30/10/2023

Join me every Monday-Saturday in November for a series of LIVE + FREE Wedding Prep training to supercharge your way into 2024!​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​Every session is:

β€’ Hosted here on our Instagram
β€’ Happening LIVE at 10 am GMT
β€’ Totally Free!
β€’ No more than 30 mins
β€’ I'll be joined LIVE by industry guest experts (More TBA πŸ₯³)
β€’ Only available for a limited time (be there live!)
β€’ Power packed (c'mon, you've met me πŸ˜‰)

Click the link in my bio to save your seat and receive fun, FREE goodies that follow along with our series!

Can't wait to see you there.

DM me if you have any questions!

I remember it so well πŸ‘€β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹πŸ™ˆ The sleepless nightsπŸ™ˆ The notepads FULL of tasks that had a spiderweb effect ...
26/10/2023

I remember it so well πŸ‘€β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹πŸ™ˆ The sleepless nights
πŸ™ˆ The notepads FULL of tasks that had a spiderweb effect of sub-tasks rolling off them
πŸ™ˆ The not-knowing what part comes next
πŸ™ˆ WHO to book and WHEN to book them in a timeline that made sense.
πŸ™ˆ The never-ending list of questions coming in from every direction
πŸ™ˆ The at-times unhelpful comments from family and friends that weigh you down and keep you stagnant

I remember it all so well - I can only hope this DOESN'T resonate with you today BUT if it does and you can relate, then I hope my advice supports you in this moment πŸ™
..and if you need that extra little leg-up with your planning, then hit my [L in B] to understand how our brand new workshop can meet you where you're at ❀️

Let's talk seating plans! πŸ₯³β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹My algorithm has been punching me in the face lately with the most awe-insp...
25/10/2023

Let's talk seating plans! πŸ₯³β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹My algorithm has been punching me in the face lately with the most awe-inspiring table plans, and they're getting, even more, quirkier and more exciting by the season, so let's talk about some fun alternatives to the traditional...

🧩 Puzzle Pieces: Use jigsaw puzzle pieces as es**rt cards, with each piece connecting to a specific table. Guests must find their corresponding piece to discover their table assignment.

✈️ Travel Destinations: Assign each table a different travel destination. Display vintage suitcases or globes with tags showing the table names to enhance the travel theme.

πŸ—£ Favorite Quotes: Use meaningful quotes as table names or incorporate them into the es**rt cards to inspire and touch your guests.

🎢 Musical Notes: Name tables after your favorite songs or albums and have vinyl records or musical notes as part of the table centerpieces.

🎲 Board Games: Assign tables based on popular board games, with a game board at each table for guests to play during the reception.

πŸ” Nature Elements: Opt for tables named after different elements of nature, like trees, flowers, or animals, with corresponding elements incorporated into the table dΓ©cor.

❀️ Love Languages: Assign tables based on the five love languages (words of affirmation, acts of service, receiving gifts, quality time, and physical touch) and encourage guests to discover their love language.

πŸ“Έ Photograph Timeline: Create a timeline of your relationship with photographs at the entrance. Each table represents a significant moment or year in your relationship.

🎯 How do you plan on displaying yours? πŸ‘‡
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[SAVE THIS POST]​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​Preparing for your wedding day can feel daunting at times when we have little knowledg...
22/10/2023

[SAVE THIS POST]​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​Preparing for your wedding day can feel daunting at times when we have little knowledge of how it will all naturally play out since this is all still so new and fresh for us.​​​​​​​​​
However, any opportunity to gain a deeper understanding of our big day is something to jump at! It doesn’t have to be overwhelming, just start with one thing at a time and go from there πŸ™Œ

Want to go deeper and get the strategies to take your wedding planning preparation into the next chapter of growth?

🎯 Hit the L in B to find out how our awesome new workshop can support couples in those lovely early stages of their planning, kick-starting this journey with all of the know-how and inside tips needed to come out the door swinging πŸ”₯

Wedding Ceremony Tips that No-Body Talks About πŸ€«β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹Keep these four things in mind when planning your wedd...
21/10/2023

Wedding Ceremony Tips that No-Body Talks About πŸ€«β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹Keep these four things in mind when planning your wedding ceremony ⬇️

1. Don't forget to grab your bouquet before you exit down the aisle ready for your post-ceremony photos πŸ’ πŸ“Έ

2. Linger your first kiss to get that gorgeous Kodak moment! πŸ’‹

3. Bridal Party rehearsals for walking down the aisle are a must to help with either walking to a beat and/or to help you and your bridal party feel more confident if there are any nerves around feeling the center of attention.

4. Take a deep breath to bring yourself into the moment before you walk down the aisle, and try to always stay as present as possible to cherish each part of your wedding.

🎯 Which of these will you make sure to add to your to-do list?!
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'The Secrecy Effect' in your wedding 🀫 ⁠​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​⁠​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​Planning your wedding is an exciting process....
04/10/2023

'The Secrecy Effect' in your wedding 🀫 ⁠​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​⁠​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​Planning your wedding is an exciting process. I don’t blame you for wanting to call everyone on your guest list to share that you found the most talented Cake Designer 🧁 ​​​​​​​​
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Many brides love to share every step with friends and family but it can also be exciting to keep a few elements of your big day a surprise for your guests. ​​​​​​​​
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Here are a few of the most popular secrets to save for your wedding day.​​​​​​​​
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1. The Dress πŸ‘—β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹
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πŸ‘‰ The fewer people you show your dress to, the more excited your guests will be to see you walk down the aisleβ€”not to mention your future spouse, too. ​​​​​​​​
Pro tip: keep every photo of your dress in a secret folder on your phone to avoid any accidental mishaps - I almost whatsapped a pic to my husband in the dressing room!! πŸ™ˆβ€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹
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2. The First Dance πŸ’ƒ πŸ•Ίβ€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹
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πŸ‘‰ Keeping the song choice (and any practiced dance moves) a surprise can also create a lasting first impression. ​​​​​​​​
It's a very personal choice, and not all of your guests will β€œget it.” But that doesn't matter - it's what counts for you two. ​​​​​​​​
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3. The Unexpected πŸ˜‰β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹
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πŸ‘‰ Having lots of people for a lengthy amount of time throughout the day, you'll want to think 'per hour' or in stages of the day. When working with my Bliss Brides, we break up the day and think about each part as separate pieces, if you can add something to spice it up or to personalise it then your guests will feel wowed throughout, and who doesn't want that?!​​​​​​​​

🎯 What parts of your wedding are you keeping away from prying eyes?! πŸ‘€ ⁠

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πŸ“£ Save these unexpected wedding costs πŸ™ŒπŸ½β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹Use these inside tips as ammo to get even savvier wit...
28/09/2023

πŸ“£ Save these unexpected wedding costs πŸ™ŒπŸ½β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹Use these inside tips as ammo to get even savvier with your wedding budget to create more space for flexibility, grow the money pots in areas you didn't think you needed to, and reduce any possible inflammation with your partner on the run-up to the day.

Ready to begin? πŸ‘

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Here is your reminder that you’re already living a reality you once dreamed about πŸ˜β€‹Today I sat reading through a journa...
28/09/2023

Here is your reminder that you’re already living a reality you once dreamed about 😍
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Today I sat reading through a journal, one that I haven’t used much this year but did during my own wedding planning process back in 2018.
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I found an entry from Aug β€˜16. It said:
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β€œWhat does Nikki’s dream wedding look like?”
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😍 A day of celebration that we’ll remember for the rest of our lives

😍 When I walk down the aisle, I feel that overwhelming rush of butterflies in my stomach

😍 I’ll marry my best friend

😍 The venue will be a breathtaking castle in all its glory on a winters frosty morning

😍 Every aspect of the wedding will tell our story, share our personalities, interests & hobbies.

😍 We’ll be well-organised and the day, smoothly executed, with careful attention to detail.

😍 We’ll eat delicious food that warms the soul next to a huge, lit fireplace surrounded by family and friends

😍 Our guests will be looked after to the highest standard and will talk about our wedding for years to come!
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As I sit here, enrolling a new Bliss Bride into my signature planning package, I can’t help but feel a little emotional right now because not only did all of the above come true (except it was only frosty first thing and then it turned to rain πŸ˜‚)
..I now get to share my wisdom and support ANOTHER bride to plan her dream wedding, obtaining all of her dreams for herself. πŸ₯Ί
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This blew my mind!! How incredible.
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People always say to me β€œYou’re so happy every day, how do you do it?”
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It’s because I found my purpose in life, I got clear on what I wanted and what made me happy, and I went after it πŸ’ͺ
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So today I blew off those cobwebs like a naughty β€˜supposed to be on a self-growth mission’ girl and made a new journal entry.
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β€œWhat does Nikki look like when she’s supporting 100 brides in 2024 look like?”
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And although that question sounds absolutely crazy, when the answer poured out, it’s actually SO do-able and SO exciting 😍
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β€œThe people who are crazy enough to believe they can change the world are the ones that do' - and this is where it all begins.

🎯 In the early stages of planning? Stay tuned for something VERY exciting! Drop a '❀️' below if that's you

𝟱 π—ͺ𝗔𝗬𝗦 𝗧𝗒 𝗦𝗧𝗒𝗣 π—¦π—Ÿπ—œπ—£π—£π—œπ—‘π—š 𝗧𝗛π—₯π—’π—¨π—šπ—› π—§π—›π—˜ 𝗖π—₯π—”π—–π—žπ—¦ π—ͺπ—œπ—§π—› 𝗬𝗒𝗨π—₯ π—ͺπ—˜π——π——π—œπ—‘π—š π—£π—Ÿπ—”π—‘π—‘π—œπ—‘π—š ⚑️ πŸ’β€‹β €β €β €β €β €β €β €β €β €β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β €β €β €β €β €β €β €β €β €β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹...
27/09/2023

𝟱 π—ͺ𝗔𝗬𝗦 𝗧𝗒 𝗦𝗧𝗒𝗣 π—¦π—Ÿπ—œπ—£π—£π—œπ—‘π—š 𝗧𝗛π—₯π—’π—¨π—šπ—› π—§π—›π—˜ 𝗖π—₯π—”π—–π—žπ—¦ π—ͺπ—œπ—§π—› 𝗬𝗒𝗨π—₯ π—ͺπ—˜π——π——π—œπ—‘π—š π—£π—Ÿπ—”π—‘π—‘π—œπ—‘π—š ⚑️ πŸ’β€‹β €β €β €β €β €β €β €β €β €β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β €β €β €β €β €β €β €β €β €β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹1️⃣ Keep a paper trail with any bookings made​⠀​​​​​​​​
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2️⃣ Review the budget every time you secure a new supplier​⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀​​​​​​​​
3️⃣ Use a wedding-only email address to avoid mixing any further communication into your personal emails post-wedding​⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀​​​​​​​​
4️⃣ Be sure to research ALL suppliers using testimonials and ratings made OFF their website​​​​​​​​
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5️⃣ Create a solid Plan B in case anything goes array! ​⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀​​​​​​​​
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✨ Want more insight on how I teach my brides to build their own personal plan B for the big day? ​⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀⠀​​​​​​​​
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Comment '𝗕 π—£π—Ÿπ—”π—‘' below and I'll drop you a message to share more info! ⬇️ πŸŽ‰
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To unravel the pins from within your Pinterest boards, seeing them come to life right before you, you'll need to stop yo...
26/09/2023

To unravel the pins from within your Pinterest boards, seeing them come to life right before you, you'll need to stop your scroll and read the caption below ✨ [SAVE THIS]​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​​If you want to uplevel your wedding planning process, and build your dream team of suppliers that are all within your budget, crazy talented, and passionate about YOUR wedding, start by researching and locking in these core suppliers.

+ Remember: High-cost suppliers that deliver a GREAT experience with their service (and have the testimonials to back it up) are usually booked way in advance.

If you're looking for that high-vibe experience for your wedding then let’s get to it.

*NOTE: Clarity is your most powerful tool. If your vision is solid and set up for success then you'll know exactly what you're looking for and can communicate that to your potential vendors.

Time to uncover those statistics - Let's map out your spending plan βœ…β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹In our recently released 'Camp A/...
25/09/2023

Time to uncover those statistics - Let's map out your spending plan βœ…β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹In our recently released 'Camp A/B' freebie guides (see link in bio) I break down the costs to spend on your wedding in order to create your monthly savings plan between now and one month before.

Once you know your monthly savings plan, the next step is adding a portion of that overall budget to your 'Venue & Catering' and the rest will be poured into your other vendors.

1️⃣ How much do Brits spend on their weddings in the UK then?

10, 20, 40K? πŸ‘‰πŸ» Swipe the carousel to see the breakdown.

2️⃣ How much should you be spending on your wedding?

This comes down to your unique goals, but most commonly a really healthy budget with more financial ease will have you sitting between the Β£15-20K mark.

To do this you want to...

1. Build your realistic, personalised budget plan

2. Decide where you want your money to flow to (i.e. use my 'Non-Negotiables' task)

3. Match up your budget with any gifted funds from family or friends to boost the ballpark figures.

3️⃣ How do I pick the right suppliers to get the most out of my money?

That comes down to your vision + budgeting model + your narrowed-down list of suppliers & how you might want to approach them fairly in regard to cost negotiations.

Some vendors offer discounted rates when purchased on the spot at wedding fayres and some may offer extended payment plans.

🎯 I'd love to know if you've mapped out your realistic budget plan in the comments? πŸ€”πŸ’°

πŸ’Œ A LOVE LETTER TO ALL WEDDING SUPPLIERS πŸ’Œβ€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹Thank you πŸ™β€‹β€‹βœ¨ You probably found yourself magnetised toward...
25/09/2023

πŸ’Œ A LOVE LETTER TO ALL WEDDING SUPPLIERS πŸ’Œβ€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹Thank you πŸ™β€‹

β€‹βœ¨ You probably found yourself magnetised towards the wedding industry from the first moment you saw the bright eyes of a bride light up when she saw herself shine because of that amazing makeup look you gave to her. You made her feel like a million dollars ❀️

✨ It's probably the way the groom finally felt at ease when you took those first few difficult shots and then you made him laugh and relax - the reel from there looked breathtaking, natural, and 'in the moment' πŸ“Έβ€‹

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✨ Maybe it was the first time your couple walked into the room for a 'first look' at the venue that you'd styled and it was just so beautiful that they were speechless... yep, you did that πŸ€©β€‹

✨ What about the moment that you pronounced them married at the altar? I bet that gave you joy! πŸ’’β€‹

✨ Maybe it was the signature cocktail that you shook up for the happy couple and named it 'Bloody Mary Me' and it made them laugh uncontrollably - that must have felt great! πŸΈβ€‹

✨ What about that time your first couple gave you raving reviews for your professionalism, attention to detail, and flavour combinations for a cake that made guests and newlyweds alike talk about for months after the big day? You did that! πŸ°β€‹

➑️ To our suppliers, THANK YOU for making our weddings the reason that it became the day of our dreams πŸ™β€‹

πŸ‘‰ You are the reason for our happy tears, our high standards, and our hard efforts ❀️​

Why do you love your suppliers? ⬇️
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7 Ways To Trim Thousands Off Your Budget so that you can make sure you're always coming in under your maximum spend allo...
21/09/2023

7 Ways To Trim Thousands Off Your Budget so that you can make sure you're always coming in under your maximum spend allowance (SAVE THIS POST!) ⬇️ πŸ’°β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹β€‹When budgeting for the wedding there are three main types of buyers. ​​​​​​​​
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I'm definitely an emotional buyer and was when we were planning our wedding. If I want something, it won't take me long to decide on it because I don't need persuading - I'm a salesperson's dream πŸ˜‚ Others though can take more time to commit. ​​​​​​​​
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Here are the three main types of buyers:​​​​​​​​
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1️⃣ Logical = Looks into the finer details of the product/service. Takes time to make a decision on whether to buy but it's usually because they need MORE. More examples, more benefits, more information.​​​​​​​​
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2️⃣ Emotional = Pulled through based on a spiritual desire and a feeling of being inspired by that product/ service's end result. They have no problem visualising and can relate to the pain points, they are motivated by the outcome or the time that can be saved by taking them up on the offer. ​​​​​​​​
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Shopping for the dress is a big example of this. The heightened emotions of the experience can pull you into a 'YES' before you know it. ​​​​​​​​
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3️⃣ Delayer = Struggles to commit even if they can see the benefits. They are driven by deadlines and expiring discounts.​​​​​​​​
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Above all, however, you spend your money, we can always be open to saving more, so take some time to swipe + save this post for future ref.

πŸ“Œ I'm intrigued...what's your buyer style?
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