08/05/2026
Pam & Steven!
18.04.26.
Pam & Steve have favourite people, but by far, they are each other's favourite person.
I've known Pam & the her family for around 15 years now. I know them well, and I Love them. They were always so good to me, and I was / am one of the family, even now. So when Pam came to me early 2025, and asked if I'd marry them, it was an easy Yes. I also hoped I wasn't booked, as my April 26 was filling fast. (Unusual to say the least).
Thankfully I was available, and I locked it in.
Pam is a natural fun wild child. YOU WILL ALWAYS BE LAUGHING HARD whenever she's in a room or around. She has this natural fun, weird but hilarious personality you are drawn to. She's also a Master in Sarcastic dialogue, (not too much in the mean girls way, just fun) but you don't take her on, she will shut you down, and we ALL love her for it. Steve has gotten used to it, but he is a match for Pam, which makes sense. They were made for each other.
They are both of the same mind about supporting those they love and are dead set serious about putting each other first.
Its an absolute treat to witness.
At one of our meetings, Pam let us know she had collected 6 dresses to choose from, as one of her limited superpowers is making certain decisions...lol. But her choice in the end had her looking absolutely Gorgeous. And Steve's eyes said it all. He was besotted as she walked up to him.
Shanelle from , Pam's cousin and with her hubby Patrick, who are also dear friends of mine & whom I married to, caught all the memories and they are amazing pictures.
I am so thankful I got asked to be part of their day.
You know though when you're not doing to badly when one of the cousin-in-laws who you're also close to, says you won't be marrying her & her partner because "you know too much"! That was pretty hilarious...lol. But thats always my aim, whether Ive known you forever or not, I've done my job if I get to know who you both are, and can create your ceremony around that. Thats always a good takeaway!
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