11/11/2021
I haven’t yet had a chance to share about Kyle’s memorial this past Sunday because I couldn’t put into words my experience and feelings.
I still don’t have the right words to say, but are there ever the “right” words in death?
I spent a little over a week pulling together the celebration of life to share Kyle’s legacy with those that loved her most, her family, her friends, her teachers, her coaches, her classmates, her oncologists.
I spent an entire week conversating with a grieving mother about how to create an event of 350 people that grew by day for her child, her beautiful baby girl, her daughter who was only a senior in high school.
A day that her daughter put so much of her own touch on prior to her passing, from creating her own playlist to be played, the food to be served, the color pink she wanted everyone to wear and spread throughout, an eco friendly event with a QR code vs. printed programs.
She started her own foundation that she wanted to help people in the community with social issues that meant the most to her, from the LGBT community to woman’s rights, music, medicine, education, ect.
After all she had the IQ of a genius, she beat the odds at birth born at 26 weeks, weighing less than 2 lbs., doctors not sure if her brain would ever develop to full potential.
She was a miracle from the beginning, her parents unicorn! ✨
I planned this sweet girls wedding 7 months ago in 48 hours and her celebration of life in a week.
In between I helped create many celebratory events created in the comfort of her home with her family, from a ho**ah night, movie nights, a spa day and a farewell sleepover with her best friends where I had to say my final goodbye.
Let me tell you, this was all so deep and beyond anything I’ve ever experienced in my lifetime and I’ve experienced death after death of those closest to me.
But what I took away from these last 7 months that I got to know Kyle and her loving family was the purest love of family, the unwavering love of parents, the unconditional love that a child has for their parents.
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