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Exquisite Love Philippe Lewis is a sex & intimacy coach and his company is called Exquisite Love What is an Exquisite Lover? Are you ready to become an Exquisite Lover?

An Exquisite Lover is a someone who engages with others first with curiosity and creativity. With listening and with expression, the Exquisite Lover dances with their full humanity. With intellectual, emotional, physical and erotic intelligence, the Exquisite Lover experiences who they really are and what they are made of -- their strengths, their limitations, their skills, their experience. With

focused attention, the Exquisite Lover discovers their state, their pace, their desires, their boundaries, and brings them exactly what they have been seeking -- with their consent -- in the form of connection, growth, depth, and exploration

An Exquisite Lover is always learning and growing. An Exquisite Lover is always in service to a greater purpose. An Exquisite Lover always seeks feedback and cleans up mistakes. An Exquisite Lover is, above all else, a person who wants to make a positive difference in the world, both with men and women. Contact me!

Coming up in less than 3 weeks (ask me for a discount!):1. Incredible inner child work!     +2. In paradise!     + 3. Di...
08/01/2026

Coming up in less than 3 weeks (ask me for a discount!):

1. Incredible inner child work!
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2. In paradise!
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3. Dirt cheap plane tickets!

Weโ€™ve all seen and felt our inner child run the show, in ourselves and partners.

What if there was a way to make friends with our inner child, and powerfully support his/her healing?

What if the inner child in you could finally be at peace?

Join us!

Tens of ISTA Grads and many more in our transformational communities have joined us to do this super special trauma-informed inner-child work which will allow you to explore your younger-self ๐Ÿง’๐Ÿ‘ถ๐Ÿผ in a safe and supportive environment with Dr. Stacy Ellis and a group of beautifully loving assistants. โค๏ธ

Cheers,
Philippe

๐Ÿ‘ฌ๐Ÿปโค๏ธ ๐Ÿ‘ฌ๐Ÿปโค๏ธ ๐Ÿ‘ฌ๐Ÿปโค๏ธ ๐Ÿ‘ฌ๐Ÿปโค๏ธ ๐Ÿ‘ฌ๐Ÿปโค๏ธ ๐Ÿ‘ฌ๐Ÿปโค๏ธ ๐Ÿ‘ฌ๐Ÿปโค๏ธ

LIBERATION: Childhood Experience
FOR THE FIRST TIME: WE ARE COMING TO HAWAII ๐ŸŒบ

๐ŸŒด Big Island of Hawaii ๐ŸŒบ February 3-8 2026 ๐ŸŒŠ

EARLY BIRD TICKETS SOLD OUT!
(check with us if you have special financial circumstances โค๏ธ)

https://liberationworkshops.com/liberation-childhood-experience/hawaii-2026/

โœจ What is Liberation?

It is time to release the past so you can be liberated in the present! This is the work we all return to once we reach that last crusty layer of patterns that do not seem to resolve no matter how much effort we have put into our self work.

You have the opportunity to grow up again on your terms.

This work is not s*xy, but it is vital. It lives under the s*xiness. It is the fundamental foreground, that base layer of who we are. You cannot perform your way to wholeness. You cannot skip the early childhood wounding piece if you want to attract a partner from wholeness. We have got to do this work if we do not want to repeat the patterns of our childhood. We have to do this work to be able to parent to the uniqueness of our children.

This is different from any other inner child work. I have yet to have someone tell me they have done THIS work. We are doing embodied somatic experiences WITH our inner child. We take our inner child into the work and allow that part of ourselves to participate with our adult self.

There is something extremely powerful about doing this in a trauma informed container with other people. The permission field is super high and safe. We collaborate together to create new reference points, new understanding of who we are. Thus work touches parts of us that no other work can.

You canโ€™t bypass the part of you that still wonders if theyโ€™re too muchโ€”or not enough. Inner child work isnโ€™t optional. Itโ€™s the missing piece under all your strategies, healing, and self-awareness.

This is not about โ€œhealing your inner child.โ€ This is about partnering with them. Letting them dance. Letting them scream. Letting them lead you home.

The self that learned to perform is not the self that will set you free. The child before the pattern.

You donโ€™t need to become someone new. You need to return to the one you were, before the world taught you to hide.

The version of you that still whispers, โ€œAm I lovable?โ€ deserves more than silence. They deserve your full attention. They deserve to be met.

Youโ€™re not behind. Youโ€™re not broken. Youโ€™re just carrying a childhood you have not fully processed.

What if the bravest thing isnโ€™t pushing throughโ€ฆโ€ฆbut turning back to the child who is waiting for someone to come? This is your arrival.

We cannot skip steps to wholeness. The inner child is the most crucial aspect to awakening. If our inner child is not integrated our entire being will not feel safe enough to continue expanding our consciousness.

The majority of us are making choices based on avoiding triggers instead of from a place of love and freedom. In this workshop we address the areas where most people have suffering is in their self-worth, relating to others, and finding meaning in life. To address these tender issues, we need to go back to the beginning where the programming started.

It goes beyond inner child; this workshop embodies outer child work.

In this workshop we address the areas where most people have suffering is in their self-worth, relating to others, and finding meaning in life. To address these tender issues, we need to go back to the beginning where the programming started.

๐Ÿ‘ฌ๐Ÿปโค๏ธ WHAT IS THE BENEFIT?

What Happens When You Do This Work:

โญ You stop reacting from old wounds, and start responding from your center.

Your nervous system settles, you can finally breathe before you speak, and choose before you spiral.

โญ Your relationships shift, because you do.

Youโ€™re not stuck in the same fight anymore. You hear people differently, you let yourself be seen, and you connect more deeply because of it.

โญ You begin to feel at home in your own skin.

That quiet confidence? Itโ€™s not performative, itโ€™s embodied. You know who you are, and you like that person.

โญ Being an adult starts to feel good.

Thereโ€™s more joy, more lightness. You actually laugh more. You play again. Life doesnโ€™t feel so heavy.

โญ Anxiety no longer runs the show.Because youโ€™ve learned to listen to your body, you know how to support yourself, and stress becomes a signal, not a sentence.

๐Ÿ‘ฌ๐Ÿปโค๏ธ WHO IS THIS FOR?

โœ”๏ธ Beginners โ€“ If youโ€™re just starting your healing journey and want to understand whatโ€™s been standing in the way of self-love, safety, and inner trust.

โœ”๏ธ Seasoned Seekers โ€“ If youโ€™ve done a lot of work alreadyโ€”but your deepest patterns still return. This is where you get to the root.

โœ”๏ธ Couples โ€“ If you long to love each other better, understand your triggers, and stop looping the same arguments. This work shows you why and gives you a way forward.

โœ”๏ธ Parents โ€“ If youโ€™re committed to breaking generational cycles and want to show up for your children with more presence, softness, and self-awareness.

๐Ÿ‘ฌ๐Ÿปโค๏ธ WHAT IS THE FORMAT?

This workshop is a five night, six day immersion with two months of FREE aftercare. The workshop is trauma informed and facilitated by a doctorate level psychologist. This workshop provides both therapeutic and transformational experiences.

Tools: You will learn tools that are practiced daily and throughout the aftercare program to support your nervous system and optimal integration. One of the most impactful parts of this work is teaching you how to deprogram your nervous system of the imprints from childhood that cause unwanted stories, patterns, defenses, and triggers. Yes! I teach you how to neutralize these so you can create new imprints and upgrade your human software.

Exercises: A structured group activity to promote connection to the qualities of our inner child. Hands-on activities, role-playing, scenarios games designed to engage individuals in actively exploring past experiences through creative expression.

Lessons: The lessons in this workshop are comprehensive and very applicable to life challenges. Lessons are designed to ensure participants deeply understand and engage with the material in a meaningful way.

Immersive Experiences: These are practices with deeper intention and time allocation these experiences, our body centered, introspective, challenged personal narratives, prompt, self reflection, utilize creative expression explore, subconscious patterns, confront deeply held beliefs, and facilitate emotional engagement.

๐Ÿš€ Included In Workshop:

- Six days and five nights accommodations
- Catered meals 3x per day +snacks
- Binder with workshop content
- Virtual reality goggles
- Other surprise gifts

๐ŸŽ Includes FREE Aftercare Program:
- Aftercare Program (2 months)
- Website with continuing education
- Bonus lessons and zoom check in X 2
- 2 Months of zoom with group
- All group support in WhatsApp

Please feel free to ask questions about workshop experience: [email protected]

๐Ÿ‘ฌ๐Ÿปโค๏ธ WHAT ARE PEOPLE SAYING? TESTIMONIALS ๐Ÿ‘‡๐Ÿ‘‡๐Ÿ‘‡

What are the recent Liberation: Childhood Experience graduates saying about their experience at the training?

Click the links below to watch short testimonials

https://youtube.com/shorts/K4pAYqL3FRc?si=5C32QsPqy1_nMVzA

https://youtu.be/v2cO4dw6NSw?si=kNo8fi77uwhNur5q

https://youtube.com/shorts/88ypjWHXAxo?si=aQ5qf5HaqtevesQZ

https://youtube.com/shorts/roe0-yW4fak?si=fem7Ctm_OSQjveBp

๐Ÿ‘ฌ๐Ÿปโค๏ธ JOIN US!

See all the details here:

https://liberationworkshops.com/liberation-childhood-experience/hawaii-2026/

Hi everyone,Coming up Thursday I'll be teaching the next class in the Secure Network series, this time about using attac...
06/01/2026

Hi everyone,

Coming up Thursday I'll be teaching the next class in the Secure Network series, this time about using attachment styles in everyday life as a tool for empathy and sense making rather than a tool for diagnosis.

Attachment styles are patterns of behavior that each have a different "come from", a reason to exist as a way to support someone in feeling safer in their environment, however somewhat misguided (by insecurity) this may be.

Join us for an exploration of these attachment styles and best practices to engage with them in the most secure way possible (despite insecurities you might have too).

Cheer,
Philippe

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Jan 8 - ๐™๐™๐™š ๐™Ž๐™š๐™˜๐™ช๐™ง๐™š ๐™‰๐™š๐™ฉ๐™ฌ๐™ค๐™ง๐™  ๐Ÿ’ Attachment Styles in Every Day Life with Philippe Lewis
https://plra.io/m/jan8-philippe

Youโ€™ve done the tests, youโ€™ve learned about attachment styles, and now you want to know how to engage with people of each attachment style in the most secure (and effective) way possibleโ€”knowing full well that people are not their attachment style.

So whatโ€™s the best way to use attachment styles as a โ€œguideโ€ to understanding people, and behaving in a way that will meet them well when their attachment insecurities are present?

Come and find out some of the patterns present in each style, their โ€œcome fromโ€, as well as some examples of their internal experience of reality to help you better relate to everyone in your life, secure or insecure!

About Philippe:

Philippe is a passionate relationship educator and founder of Exquisite โฆ Love. With a mission to empower men and women in making informed and positive choices for themselves and their partners, Philippe guides individuals on transformative journeys to become sovereign beings through the art of connection, trust, consent, intimacy, and love. Drawing from the profound insights of attachment theory, he helps people explore the depths of human connection and understand the dynamics that shape their relationships.

Philippe's impact in the realm of personal growth and self-discovery extends far and wide. As a co-founder of The Journey to Secure, he fosters a supportive community of like-minded individuals on a shared path of growth and an earned attachment style. Additionally, his role as a coordinator with the International School of Temple Arts, showcases his dedication to fostering open-mindedness and personal exploration.

Over the years, Philippe has been instrumental in founding vibrant communities that tackle essential topics. The Open Relationship Community, the Attachment Community, and the Consent Community provide safe spaces for individuals to engage in emerging discussions, redefining societal norms, and promoting healthier relationship dynamics.

Philippe is also well known for the creation of a vast array of conscious play spaces and playground such as Club Exotica, Love Underground, The Erotic Playground, and the FireLight micro-festival, as well as embodiment spaces such as The Somatic Playground where participants can find and learn about how to relate with each other at all levels.

While Philippe's professional accomplishments are inspiring, he cherishes a role that brings him immense joy and growth - that of a proud and loving father to a 13-year-old teen. This cherished relationship teaches him the invaluable lessons of surrendering to love and embracing life more fully with each passing day.

Philippe's life's work revolves around illuminating the path to enriched human connections and fostering a more compassionate and understanding society, one relationship at a time. His dedication to personal growth, coupled with his commitment to empowering others, sets him apart as a true visionary in the field of relationship education.

Join my Announcements WhatsApp group: www.bit.ly/4fMV38H
See my Offerings page: www.exquisite.love/this
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โœจ Upcoming Classes โ€” Join Us for One (or All Three!)

Feb 5 ๐ŸŒŸ Dolphin
Transformative Communication: An Attachment-Centred Framework for Personal & Relational Breakthroughs
https://plra.io/m/feb5-dolphin

โœจ Step Into The Secure Network

A real community of practice for people healing from insecure attachment โ€” where learning, support, and relational growth happen together.

If youโ€™ve spent years trying to heal yourself aloneโ€ฆ
If youโ€™ve done the books, the therapy, the YouTube videosโ€ฆ
If youโ€™ve found yourself repeating the same patterns even when you โ€œknow betterโ€โ€ฆ

You already know:
Attachment wounds donโ€™t heal in isolation. They heal in connection.

This community exists to give you that connection โ€” with structure, guidance, and a relational field that actually supports secure transformation.

โœจ Membership Options

๐ŸŒฑ Single Workshop Pass โ€” $27
For those who simply want to attend a monthly workshop without joining the community.
A great entry point โ€” join us, learn with us, explore your edges.

๐ŸŒฟ Monthly Membership โ€” $20/month
Full access to everything: workshops, integration calls, community space, resources, replays.
https://exquisite.love/store/secure-network-membership-monthly

๐ŸŒฟ Launch Special Annual โ€” $79 (regular $199)
A full year of support for less than the cost of a single coaching session.
https://exquisite.love/store/secure-network-membership-annual

๐ŸŒฟ Lifetime Membership โ€” $99 (Founding 150 Only)
A one-time contribution to stay part of the Secure Network forever.
https://exquisite.love/store/secure-network-membership-lifetime

โœจ The Founding Member Circle

A rare, never-to-be-repeated opportunity for the first 150 people who want to help shape the future of this community. (20 spots are already sold!)
Instead of crowns, here are the relational icons weโ€™ll anchor this tier in โ€” signifying collaboration, co-creation, and human connection:

๐Ÿค Co-Creators of the Community
Youโ€™re part of the original group that helps us build this space in a way that truly serves people.
๐Ÿ•Š๏ธ Quarterly Founders Meetings
Private, collaborative calls where you help steer themes, offerings, and improvements.
๐Ÿ’ž Founders-Only Opportunities
Unique pricing, private gatherings, relational practice intensives, and special events reserved for the inner circle.
๐Ÿ“˜ Permanent Founders Recognition
Your name lives inside the community as part of the original lineage โ€” the people who said yes early and helped build a secure relational ecosystem from the ground up.
๐ŸŒฑ Lifetime Access
A single contribution that keeps you in the community forever. No renewals. No subscriptions. Ever.

This tier disappears the moment all 150 places are taken.

โœจ What You Receive Every Month

โค๏ธ First Thursday โ€“ Live Workshop
High-calibre teaching from rotating experts in attachment, communication, conflict repair, nervous system work, boundaries, intimacy, and relational skill-building.

โค๏ธ Third Thursday โ€“ Integration & Community Circle
Guided reflection + dialogue + shared practice + live coaching to make the learning part of your actual life.

*Weโ€™re planning lots more for the community in the months and years to come.

This is the space to practice secure relating in real time โ€” with guidance, structure, warmth, and accountability.

โœจ Youโ€™re Invited

Come experience what becomes possible when healing becomes relational, consistent, and supported โ€” not another solo journey where youโ€™re left to figure it out yourself.

Weโ€™d love to have you with us.

โ€œ๐‘ฐ'๐’—๐’† ๐’๐’†๐’—๐’†๐’“ ๐’‡๐’†๐’๐’• ๐’•๐’‰๐’Š๐’” ๐’”๐’‚๐’‡๐’† ๐’Š๐’ ๐’Ž๐’š ๐’†๐’๐’•๐’Š๐’“๐’† ๐’๐’Š๐’‡๐’†โ€ โ€”past participantAll right, we're finally launching the 4th annual ๐‘ช๐’๐’Ž๐’Š๐’๐’ˆ ...
23/12/2025

โ€œ๐‘ฐ'๐’—๐’† ๐’๐’†๐’—๐’†๐’“ ๐’‡๐’†๐’๐’• ๐’•๐’‰๐’Š๐’” ๐’”๐’‚๐’‡๐’† ๐’Š๐’ ๐’Ž๐’š ๐’†๐’๐’•๐’Š๐’“๐’† ๐’๐’Š๐’‡๐’†โ€ โ€”past participant

All right, we're finally launching the 4th annual ๐‘ช๐’๐’Ž๐’Š๐’๐’ˆ ๐‘ฏ๐’๐’Ž๐’† ๐’•๐’ ๐‘ณ๐’๐’—๐’†: ๐‘จ 7-๐’…๐’‚๐’š ๐‘ฑ๐’๐’–๐’“๐’๐’†๐’š ๐’•๐’ ๐‘บ๐’†๐’„๐’–๐’“๐’† ๐‘จ๐’•๐’•๐’‚๐’„๐’‰๐’Ž๐’†๐’๐’• April 9-15 in Pฤhoa on the Big Island of Hawaii!!!

๐‘ณ๐’Š๐’Ž๐’Š๐’•๐’†๐’… ๐’”๐’‘๐’๐’•๐’” ๐‘บ๐’–๐’‘๐’†๐’“ ๐‘ฌ๐’‚๐’“๐’๐’š ๐‘ฉ๐’Š๐’“๐’… ๐’–๐’๐’•๐’Š๐’ ๐‘ฑ๐’‚๐’ 1๐’”๐’•

This is a special space to allow your ๐’๐’†๐’“๐’—๐’๐’–๐’” ๐’”๐’š๐’”๐’•๐’†๐’Ž to ๐’๐’‚๐’๐’…, ๐’ˆ๐’“๐’๐’–๐’๐’…, and take steps towards ๐’•๐’“๐’–๐’”๐’•๐’Š๐’๐’ˆ ๐’๐’Š๐’‡๐’† and the people you love around you. Whether you've been ๐’‰๐’–๐’“๐’• or ๐’ƒ๐’†๐’•๐’“๐’‚๐’š๐’†๐’… recently or in the past, how your ๐’๐’†๐’“๐’—๐’๐’–๐’” ๐’”๐’š๐’”๐’•๐’†๐’Ž and ๐’‘๐’†๐’“๐’”๐’๐’๐’‚๐’๐’Š๐’•๐’š adapted can be met with what they need to ๐’‰๐’†๐’‚๐’ and ๐’ˆ๐’“๐’๐’˜ into a ๐’”๐’†๐’„๐’–๐’“๐’†, ๐’•๐’“๐’–๐’”๐’•๐’Š๐’๐’ˆ human.

Join ๐‘ญ๐’“๐’‚๐’๐’„๐’†๐’”๐’„๐’‚ ๐‘ฎ๐’†๐’๐’•๐’Š๐’๐’๐’†, ๐‘ซ๐’๐’๐’‘๐’‰๐’Š๐’ ๐‘ฒ๐’‚๐’”๐’‘๐’†๐’“, myself, and an amazing team of assistants for the next chapter of your journey towards ๐’†๐’‚๐’“๐’๐’†๐’… ๐’”๐’†๐’„๐’–๐’“๐’† ๐’‚๐’•๐’•๐’‚๐’„๐’‰๐’Ž๐’†๐’๐’•!

DM one of us if youโ€™re curious!

๐ŸŒŸ Details: https://www.cominghometo.love ๐ŸŒŸ
๐ŸŒŸ Partiful Event: https://partiful.com/e/gwenqEADj0Jop1PGABBV
๐ŸŒŸ Schedule a short call: https://calendly.com/exquisitelove/coming-home-to-love-intake-30min-via-zoom
๐ŸŒŸ Register here: https://form.123formbuilder.com/6907486/coming-home-to-love-2026

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Heal your core wounds and create the ease, safety, and satisfaction youโ€™ve always wanted in your closest relationships.

Youโ€™ve done the work. Youโ€™ve read the books. Youโ€™ve tried to make it work.

But if youโ€™re stillโ€ฆ

๐Ÿ” Attracting unavailable partners
๐ŸŒ€ Feeling like they canโ€™t meet youโ€”or that conflicts keep getting stuck on repeat
๐Ÿ’” Sabotaging love through over-giving, shutting down, or chasing connection
๐Ÿ’ญ Wondering why itโ€™s still so hard to feel safe in love, no matter how much you grow...

This retreat was made for you.

Coming Home to Love is a 7-day immersive experience designed to help you finally understand your attachment patterns, unwind your deepest relational wounds, and experience what it actually feels like to be safe, seen, and sovereign in love.

Whether youโ€™re single, partnered, or in transitionโ€ฆ
Whether youโ€™ve been in therapy for years or are just beginning your healing journeyโ€ฆ

This retreat meets you where you are and gentlyโ€”but powerfullyโ€”guides you back to the truth:

โœจ You are already worthy of the love you long for and, with the right tools and support, you can become the source of the stable and lasting love youโ€™ve been longing for.

What Youโ€™ll Experience:

๐Ÿ’  Daily group sessions, somatic healing, and sacred rituals
๐Ÿ’  Guided embodiment, nervous system work, and trauma integration support
๐Ÿ’  Powerful, unique methodologies including the 7-stage trauma timeline + parts work + secure reparenting and moreโ€ฆ
๐Ÿ’  Tools for authentic communication, boundaries, and relational repair
๐Ÿ’  Plant allies (such as Cacao, Blue Lotus, Kanna) to support gentle expansion
๐Ÿ’  Restorative time in nature, community, and deep emotional safety
๐Ÿ’  Real skills for transforming your relationshipsโ€”without losing yourself

What Youโ€™ll Walk Away With:

๐ŸŒฟ A deep, embodied sense of wholeness and safety in your nervous system
๐Ÿ’“ The ability to express needs and set boundaries with grace
๐Ÿ”ฅ Emotional resilience and confidence in conflict
๐Ÿ’ž A clearer vision of the love you truly wantโ€”and how to create it
๐ŸŒˆ A supportive community walking the path of earned secure love
๐Ÿ“– A workbook, daily practices, and 3 months of post-retreat support to maximize the impact and sustainability of the breakthroughs you will experience in the retreat.

๐Ÿ› Held at a beautiful retreat center near Pฤhoa on the Big Island of Hawaii complete with farm-to-table meals, cozy shared or private rooms or glamping tents, beaches, hot tub, and space to reconnect with yourself and others in new ways.

๐Ÿ’ฅ Only 32 spaces available
๐ŸŽฏ Early bird pricing ends Jan 1st
๐ŸŒ€ Payment plans + limited scholarships available
๐Ÿ‘‰ Register now: https://form.123formbuilder.com/6907486/coming-home-to-love-2026
๐Ÿ’ฌ Not quite sure? Letโ€™s talk first: https://calendly.com/exquisitelove/coming-home-to-love-intake-30min-via-zoom

โœจ ๐‘ฑ๐‘ถ๐‘ฐ๐‘ต ๐‘ผ๐‘บ ๐‘ฐ๐‘ต๐‘ป๐‘ถ ๐‘ป๐‘ฏ๐‘ฌ ๐‘ต๐‘ฌ๐‘พ ๐’€๐‘ฌ๐‘จ๐‘น ๐‘จ๐‘ป ๐‘ป๐‘ฏ๐‘ฌ ๐‘ฒ๐‘ฐ๐‘ต๐‘ฒ ๐‘บ๐‘ป๐‘ถ๐‘น๐‘ฌ ๐‘ญ๐‘ถ๐‘น ๐‘ป๐‘ฏ๐‘ฌ ๐‘บ๐‘ถ๐‘ด๐‘จ๐‘ป๐‘ฐ๐‘ช ๐‘ท๐‘ณ๐‘จ๐’€๐‘ฎ๐‘น๐‘ถ๐‘ผ๐‘ต๐‘ซ!!! โœจ www.thesomaticplayground.comAs we end with...
19/12/2025

โœจ ๐‘ฑ๐‘ถ๐‘ฐ๐‘ต ๐‘ผ๐‘บ ๐‘ฐ๐‘ต๐‘ป๐‘ถ ๐‘ป๐‘ฏ๐‘ฌ ๐‘ต๐‘ฌ๐‘พ ๐’€๐‘ฌ๐‘จ๐‘น ๐‘จ๐‘ป ๐‘ป๐‘ฏ๐‘ฌ ๐‘ฒ๐‘ฐ๐‘ต๐‘ฒ ๐‘บ๐‘ป๐‘ถ๐‘น๐‘ฌ ๐‘ญ๐‘ถ๐‘น ๐‘ป๐‘ฏ๐‘ฌ ๐‘บ๐‘ถ๐‘ด๐‘จ๐‘ป๐‘ฐ๐‘ช ๐‘ท๐‘ณ๐‘จ๐’€๐‘ฎ๐‘น๐‘ถ๐‘ผ๐‘ต๐‘ซ!!! โœจ
www.thesomaticplayground.com

As we end with last 2 classes of the year (donโ€™t miss Adam Chaksfield on Dec 22th and myself on Dec 29th), we welcome the new year with a new venue and a whole new slew of amazing embodied teachers!

We canโ€™t wait to move at the rhythm of trust and safety with YOU!

And we have a new location called The Kink Store on 6th st in San Francisco! So come on over and jump in to develop your emotional, somatic, and primal intelligence with a group of fun, sweet, and connected humans!

Check out the upcoming classes for the next months!

โœจ THE CLASSES โœจ

Classes are typically $30 presale / $40 at the door

Dec 22 ๐ŸŒŸ Adam Chacksfield - Erotic Shadow Play [Alchemy House OAK]
https://plra.io/m/dec22-adam

Dec 29 ๐ŸŒŸ Philippe Lewis - Trusting in Maybe: Exploring Our Growth Edge [Alchemy House OAK]
https://plra.io/m/dec29-philippe

Jan 5 ๐Ÿชข Be - One Rope Play [Kink Store SF]
TICKETS: https://plra.io/m/jan5-be

Jan 12 ๐Ÿชข Jim Donovan - Erotic Shadow Play: Accessing the Raw Power Beneath Your Shadow [Kink Store SF]
TICKETS: https://plra.io/m/jan12-jim

Jan 19 ๐Ÿชข Francesca Gentille - Dark Opal Ta***ic Puja [Kink Store SF]
TICKETS: https://plra.io/m/jan19-francesca

Jan 26 ๐Ÿชข Jason Rich - Sensual Wrestling: Discovering More Yum Within
TICKETS: https://plra.io/m/jan26-jason

Feb 2 ๐Ÿชข Eve Soboleva - The Bodyโ€“Soul Alchemy: Transforming Shadow into Power [Kink Store SF]
TICKETS: https://plra.io/m/feb2-eve

Feb 9 ๐Ÿชข Glory Moonfire - The Tease: Un******ng in Rope [Kink Store SF]
TICKETS: https://plra.io/m/feb9-glory

Feb 16 ๐Ÿชข Heather Atles - Connection Lab [Kink Store SF]
TICKETS: https://plra.io/m/feb16-heather

Feb 23 ๐Ÿชข Sascha Nicole - Wild Temple Touch: Elemental Somatics for Connection & Play [Kink Store SF]
TICKETS: https://plra.io/m/feb23-sascha

Mar 2 ๐Ÿชข Claire Rumore - Dancing the Erotic Blueprints: A Sensual, Embodied Exploration [Kink Store SF]
TICKETS: https://plra.io/m/mar2-claire

Mar 9 ๐Ÿชข River & Chuck - Creating Your S*xual Menu: Discover and Describe your Biggest Turn-ons [Kink Store SF]
TICKETS: https://plra.io/m/mar9-riverchuck

Mar 16 ๐Ÿชข Philippe Lewis - Attuned Spanking for Beginners [Kink Store SF]
TICKETS: https://plra.io/m/mar16-philippe

Mar 23 ๐Ÿชข Michael McDonald - Shadow Play [Kink Store SF]
TICKETS: https://plra.io/m/mar23-michael

Mar 30 ๐Ÿชข Coco - KinkaTypes: Explore Your Many Wild Sides! [Kink Store SF]
TICKETS: https://plra.io/m/mar30-coco

โœจ JOIN THE WHATSAPP GROUP โœจ
https://chat.whatsapp.com/LQGbNKA2B7w0x2jQdlmNyX

โœจ APPLY TO TEACH AT THE SOMATIC PLAYGROUND โœจ
https://forms.gle/Z8smJaJwvwAoW97o8

๐‘ญ๐’Š๐’“๐’†๐‘ณ๐’Š๐’ˆ๐’‰๐’• ๐Ÿ”ฅ ๐‘น๐’†๐’•๐’–๐’“๐’๐’” โ€” ๐‘ป๐’‰๐’Š๐’“๐’… ๐’€๐’†๐’‚๐’“, ๐‘บ๐’‚๐’Ž๐’† ๐‘ญ๐’Š๐’“๐’†, ๐‘ต๐’†๐’˜ ๐‘บ๐’‚๐’๐’„๐’•๐’–๐’‚๐’“๐’šPre-Sale Ticket Price with RSVP now available until January 1s...
11/12/2025

๐‘ญ๐’Š๐’“๐’†๐‘ณ๐’Š๐’ˆ๐’‰๐’• ๐Ÿ”ฅ ๐‘น๐’†๐’•๐’–๐’“๐’๐’” โ€” ๐‘ป๐’‰๐’Š๐’“๐’… ๐’€๐’†๐’‚๐’“, ๐‘บ๐’‚๐’Ž๐’† ๐‘ญ๐’Š๐’“๐’†, ๐‘ต๐’†๐’˜ ๐‘บ๐’‚๐’๐’„๐’•๐’–๐’‚๐’“๐’š

Pre-Sale Ticket Price with RSVP now available until January 1st!

FireLight๐Ÿ”ฅ is an eco-s*xy play-possible micro-festival for adults exploring eros as life-force through dance, ritual, movement, music, workshops, and conscious erotic playโ€”held within a values-based, consent-centered community.

โœจ Captivating performances
โœจ Transformational workshops
โœจ Embodied rituals and ceremonies
โœจ Delicious meals with community
โœจ Nightly s*xy playgrounds
โœจ Intimate & curated (300 max)
โœจ RSVP required
โœจ Camping, cabins & RV options

FireLight is moving to the Sierra Foothills near Yosemite

๐ŸŒ„ 92 acres of rolling hills & woodlands
๐Ÿ’ƒ Dance halls with sprung wood floors
๐Ÿ”ฅ Open-air stages & ceremony spaces
๐Ÿ’ฆ Lake, creek & natural swimming holes
๐ŸŒ™ Meadows for gathering under the stars

Cedar Springs Retreat Center is a sanctuary built for movement, connection, celebration, and renewalโ€”and we canโ€™t wait to weave FireLight magic into this land.

A new chapter begins.
The fire burns brighter.
Do you feel the warmth drawing you in?

Limited Pre-Sale Tickets available until Jan 1!

๐Ÿ”ฅ May 29 โ€“ June 1
๐Ÿ”— www.firelight.love

Dear amazing humans! Coming up Monday night is a class on a topic that is dear to me from my friend Hema.8 years ago, ru...
05/12/2025

Dear amazing humans! Coming up Monday night is a class on a topic that is dear to me from my friend Hema.

8 years ago, running and rushing around live in an attempt to run away from trauma, I had a car accident. In that moment I realized that the Universe had other plans for me: slow me down so I could heal and grow. After 3 large broken bones, 2 surgeries, and physical therapy, I was able to walk 3 months later with a huge lesson in letting my body drive and allowing myself to feel.

Join me for a wonderful opportunity to be with yourself and others from a place where pace becomes a sweet and grounded dance into connection!

Cheers,
Philippe

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Dec 8 ๐ŸŒŸ Hema Ganapathy - Slow the F@ #$ Down
TICKETS: https://plra.io/m/dec8-hema

This workshop aims to guide participants on an inward journey towards embracing the art of slowing down, reconnecting with themselves, and finding peace amidst the chaos. It will include a combination of results of scientific research, guided meditations, interactive discussions, experiential activities, and reflective exercises. Participants will leave with practical tools, renewed inspiration, and a deeper understanding of how to cultivate a slower, more intentional way of living that nourishes the mind, body, and spirit.

In a world that constantly asks us to go faster, slowing down can feel radical โ€“ and deeply healing. This workshop blends modern science with ancient yogic and ta***ic wisdom to help you re-train your body and mind to move at a sustainable pace.

Youโ€™ll learn:
โ€ขโ  โ The science of slowing down, how stress hormones, nervous system regulation and brain wave states influence our sense of time
โ€ขโ  โ Yogic practices: breath work, gentle postures and mindfulness techniques that signal the body to shift from โ€œfight or flightโ€ into โ€œrest and digestโ€
โ€ขโ  โ Ta***ic approaches: embodied awareness, subtle energy practices, and rituals that help you experience presence and pleasure in each moment
โ€ขโ  โ Practical tools: simple shifts you can integrate into daily life to create spaciousness, focus and ease โ€“ whether you have five minutes or an hour

Through a balance of guided practice, reflection and group connection, youโ€™ll discover how intentional slowing down can restore energy, deepen relationships and reconnect you to joy.

This workshop is for anyone feeling the pull toward a gentler, more conscious way of living. Come ready to breathe, move and rediscover the beauty of the unhurried moment.

Bio:

Hema, The Holistic Mystic is a Holistic Empowerment Mentor and helps clients release what's blocking them from achieving their full potential so that they can freely live a juicy life of purpose, passion and abundance. Hema works with clients on a variety of topics including abundance mindset, intimacy and relationship coaching as well as healing generational trauma

http://hemaholisticmystic.com

Hi everyone!Coming up on Thursday at 11am PST on Zoom will be a beautiful class to support you and your loved ones in na...
01/12/2025

Hi everyone!

Coming up on Thursday at 11am PST on Zoom will be a beautiful class to support you and your loved ones in navigating the challenges of the holidays with family and community via the wisdom of attachment theory, nervous system regulation, and ritual .

(Zoom link will be sent to all who purchased a ticket to the class)

See you there!

Cheers,
Philippe

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Dec 4 ๐ŸŒŸ Francesca ๐ŸŒŸ Securely Succulent Holidays: Secure, Sacred & Shamanic Holy Day Practices to Thrive the Season
https://plra.io/m/dec4-francesca

One way to understand Shamanism is as the conscious ability to gently shift our emotional and energetic states at will. During this gathering, weโ€™ll explore practices that help us stay grounded, radiant, and connected โ€” so we can move through the Holy Day season with more ease, joy, and heart.

๐ŸŒน Gracefully guided by Clinical S*xologist, Professor, and Initiated Shaman Francesca Gentille, this journey will be held with wisdom, care, and a deep respect for both the sacred and the playful.

๐Ÿ’ซ What Youโ€™ll Receive:
Gentle grounding practices to help you stay calm, centered, and rooted when life feels busy or overwhelming.
Sacred rituals to bring more meaning, presence, and magic into your celebrations.
Emotional resilience tools so you can feel safe, supported, and steady through the ups and downs of the season.
Visioning practices to align with your heartโ€™s desires and set the tone for the year ahead.
Connection practices to deepen compassion, warmth, and authentic relating with loved ones.
Energy protection techniques to keep your spirit nourished and your boundaries strong.
Shamanic tools for everyday life that you can carry with you long after the holidays are over.
A supportive circle where you can share, connect, and remember you are not alone.
๐ŸŒŸ Come join us for this nourishing journey โ€” a chance to reclaim the season as sacred, soulful, and truly yours.

About Francesca:

(Zoom link will be sent in your purchase email)

Francesca Gentille is an internationally recognized Clinical S*xologist, Professor, and Initiated Shaman with over three decades of experience guiding individuals and groups into deeper intimacy, authentic expression, and spiritual resilience. Known for her warmth, humor, and wisdom, she weaves ancient traditions with modern practices to create spaces of healing, connection, and joy.

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โœจ Upcoming Classes โ€” Join Us for One (or All Three!)

Jan 8 ๐ŸŒŸ Philippe
Attachment Styles in Everyday Life: How to Identify Attachment Styles for Graceful, Compassionate Relating
https://plra.io/m/jan8-philippe

Feb 5 ๐ŸŒŸ Dolphin
Transformative Communication: An Attachment-Centred Framework for Personal & Relational Breakthroughs
https://plra.io/m/feb5-dolphin

โœจ Step Into The Secure Network

A real community of practice for people healing from insecure attachment โ€” where learning, support, and relational growth happen together.

If youโ€™ve spent years trying to heal yourself aloneโ€ฆ
If youโ€™ve done the books, the therapy, the YouTube videosโ€ฆ
If youโ€™ve found yourself repeating the same patterns even when you โ€œknow betterโ€โ€ฆ

You already know:
Attachment wounds donโ€™t heal in isolation. They heal in connection.

This community exists to give you that connection โ€” with structure, guidance, and a relational field that actually supports secure transformation.

โœจ Membership Options

๐ŸŒฑ Single Workshop Pass โ€” $27
For those who simply want to attend a monthly workshop without joining the community.
A great entry point โ€” join us, learn with us, explore your edges.

๐ŸŒฟ Monthly Membership โ€” $20/month
Full access to everything: workshops, integration calls, community space, resources, replays.
https://exquisite.love/store/secure-network-membership-monthly

๐ŸŒฟ Launch Special Annual โ€” $79 (regular $199)
A full year of support for less than the cost of a single coaching session.
https://exquisite.love/store/secure-network-membership-annual

๐ŸŒฟ Lifetime Membership โ€” $99 (Founding 150 Only)
A one-time contribution to stay part of the Secure Network forever.
https://exquisite.love/store/secure-network-membership-lifetime

โœจ The Founding Member Circle

A rare, never-to-be-repeated opportunity for the first 150 people who want to help shape the future of this community. (20 spots are already sold!)
Instead of crowns, here are the relational icons weโ€™ll anchor this tier in โ€” signifying collaboration, co-creation, and human connection:

๐Ÿค Co-Creators of the Community
Youโ€™re part of the original group that helps us build this space in a way that truly serves people.
๐Ÿ•Š๏ธ Quarterly Founders Meetings
Private, collaborative calls where you help steer themes, offerings, and improvements.
๐Ÿ’ž Founders-Only Opportunities
Unique pricing, private gatherings, relational practice intensives, and special events reserved for the inner circle.
๐Ÿ“˜ Permanent Founders Recognition
Your name lives inside the community as part of the original lineage โ€” the people who said yes early and helped build a secure relational ecosystem from the ground up.
๐ŸŒฑ Lifetime Access
A single contribution that keeps you in the community forever. No renewals. No subscriptions. Ever.

This tier disappears the moment all 150 places are taken.

โœจ What You Receive Every Month

โค๏ธ First Thursday โ€“ Live Workshop
High-calibre teaching from rotating experts in attachment, communication, conflict repair, nervous system work, boundaries, intimacy, and relational skill-building.

โค๏ธ Third Thursday โ€“ Integration & Community Circle
Guided reflection + dialogue + shared practice + live coaching to make the learning part of your actual life.

*Weโ€™re planning lots more for the community in the months and years to come.

This is the space to practice secure relating in real time โ€” with guidance, structure, warmth, and accountability.

โœจ Youโ€™re Invited

Come experience what becomes possible when healing becomes relational, consistent, and supported โ€” not another solo journey where youโ€™re left to figure it out yourself.

Weโ€™d love to have you with us.

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Reclaiming Sovereignty

For 20 years, Philippe Lewis has dedicated himself to supporting people in their growth towards sovereignty and creating events and learning environments that invite participants to step into their full sensuality, and claim greater power and sovereignty around their erotic desires and boundaries.

Philippe started by co-producing Mystic Temple of Bliss in Oakland, a sensual event that aimed to serve as a crossroads for the Bay Area EDM, underground performer, and ta**ra community. These events brought together hundreds of participants in an exploration of intimacy, relationships, and s*xuality.

When Philippe united with his life partner and future-wife Paget, part of their relationship involved innovating the concept of โ€œ2nd-base partiesโ€ โ€”erotic events focused on non-s*xual touch and play, making them accessible to a wider audience.

Starting in 2009, Philippe began co-creating Club Exotica, large private s*xual gatherings and public 2nd-base parties at some of the hottest and biggest clubs in San Francisco, including the legendary Supperclub, The Upper Floor at The Armory, and 1015 Folsom. He also began co-producing events with SF underground erotic party promoters Masquerotica.