07/04/2023
Hey you! The person planning a wedding and feeling so overwhelmed right now.
No one gave you a handbook or guide for this. It’s absolutely natural to feel daunted about the next steps.
Please know - it’s ok if the plan changes from your original vision. It’s ok to baulk tradition. There are modern ways you can honour tradition.
It’s 100% ok to do whatever you both want to do, whatever that looks like. It’s ok if you don’t want to invite Aunty Carol.
It’s ok if you both choose to have a kid free wedding.
You don’t HAVE to wear a white dress or a suit (or even a dress, or suit, at all!).
It’s ok to ‘run away’ and elope if that’s what you want.
After watching thousands of couples get married we can say - No one ever regrets going with their gut and doing what they want for themselves and their partner for one of the best days in their lives.
If you are feeling so anxious at the thought of planning your day, book an experienced team and lean on them, ask their objective opinions, or have someone take the heavy load of planning so you can enjoy the ride even more (like us 😉).
Wedding planning should be fun, and it can be!
Like everything in life, shut out the noise your don’t wish to hear (like your well meaning BFF that got married 6 months ago or a parent with their old fashioned ideas). Sit down together right at the start and chat about what you both really want, and don’t waiver from that, and your day will be perfection. ❤️
