28/06/2023
How to create a sustainable and intentional wedding by our lovely bride .earthensoul
“The guest of honour at my wedding? Nature.
The moment I got engaged I started dreaming up the perfect wedding. But rather than lavish balloon arches and picture perfect makeup, my mind was filled with wild harvested fynbos and second hand cushions.
Late Summer, my maid of honour and I watch the sunset gild the ocean from her home in Rooi Els, pink gin in hand, as I passionately put forward the ultimate wedding plan.
It was to be a co-created affair, the energy of everybody involved was as important to me as the actual duties that needed to be done.
Brides seldom realise that the day is not exclusively about them but rather about each and every person involved from start to finish.
And so it was decided:
* The cake would be sourced from a small home industry, a real ouma in die kombuis scenario.
* My mom would decorate it herself with autumn oak leaves and hawthorn berries.
* My plant fibre dress would come from Once Worn Bridal - a boutique that shared my ethical values.
* The bouquets and table decor would be fynbos from my parents garden.
* The bridesmaids would pick their own dresses that they’d wear again.
* All decor would be home made or sourced from charity shops.
* Petals rather than plastic confetti.
* No Nature would be harmed in the making of our wedding.
Intentionality was key for me.
My groom knew our priest personally for over 20 years, our venue was a historical monument dated from 1795, my wedding ring was melted down from my grandmother’s and crafted by my groom’s cousin, my bridesmaid made my jewellery, we all did our own makeup and our guests were an intimate gathering of friends and family.
And you know what? People felt it. Our wedding wasn’t about the wedding. Our wedding was about real soul love, ritual, community and the earth.
When planning your wedding start with your core values and let the rest flow naturally from there. “
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