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27/06/2024

WHY we should not REACT TO EVERYTHING❗❗❗

●Learn That I Don’t Have To React To 'Everything' That Bothers Me.

●Learn that I don’t have to hurt those who hurt me.

●Learn maybe the 'ultimate' sign of maturity is walking away instead of getting even.

●Learn that the energy it takes to react to every bad thing that happens to me drains me & stops me from seeing the other good side of things in life.

● Learn that I’m not going to be everyone’s cup of tea and I won’t be able to get everyone to treat me the way I want to be treated 'and that’s okay.'

●Learn that to try so hard to ‘win’ Everyone is just a 'waste' of time and energy and it fills me with 'nothing' but emptiness.

●Learn that by not reacting doesn’t mean I’m okay with things, it just means I’m choosing to 'rise' above them.

●Choose to take the 'lesson' it has served and learn from it I’m choosing to be 'the bigger' person.

●Choose your 'peace of mind' because that’s what u truly' need. You don’t need more drama. You don’t need people making u feel like
You are not good enough.
You don’t need fights & arguments and 'fake' connections. slowly learning that sometimes 'not' saying anything at all says everything.'

●Learn that reacting to things that upset me gives someone else power over 'my' emotions.

●Learn that I can’t control what others do but i can control how i respond, how i handle it, how i perceive it and 'how much of it' i want to take personally. slowly learning that most of the time, these situations say nothing about me and a lot about the other person.

●Learn that even if you react, it won’t change anything, it won’t make people suddenly love and respect you, it won’t magically change their minds.

*Sometimes it’s better to just let things be, let people go, 'don’t' fight for closure, 'don’t' ask for explanations, 'don’t' chase answers and 'don’t' expect people to understand me*

Enough word for the wise😀

26/06/2024

Toxic individuals can be incredibly adept at hiding their true intentions. They often present a facade that appears friendly, supportive, and caring. However, beneath this veneer lies manipulation, deceit, and emotional abuse. Their actions can leave you feeling drained, vulnerable, and questioning your self-worth. This behavior is not always limited to friends or acquaintances; it can also manifest within your own family, where it can be even more damaging due to the inherent trust and closeness of family bonds.

Family dynamics can be particularly challenging because of the expectations that come with them. We are often taught to believe that family is a safe haven, a source of unconditional love and support. While this is true for many, it’s important to recognize that family members can also be toxic. Their familiarity and longstanding presence in your life can make it difficult to identify their harmful behavior. The realization that a family member is toxic can be painful, but acknowledging this truth is the first step towards protecting yourself.

Toxic family members might manipulate your emotions, exploit your vulnerabilities, and use guilt or obligation to control you. They may criticize you under the guise of concern or offer help with strings attached. These behaviors can erode your self-esteem and make you doubt your perceptions. It’s essential to trust your feelings and recognize when someone’s behavior is consistently harmful, regardless of their relationship to you.

Setting boundaries is a powerful tool in managing toxic relationships. Boundaries are not about shutting people out entirely; they are about creating a safe space for yourself where you can thrive. When you set clear boundaries, you protect your mental and emotional health, making it clear what behaviors you will and will not tolerate. This might mean limiting contact, avoiding certain topics of conversation, or even taking a break from the relationship altogether. Remember, it is perfectly okay to prioritize your well-being, even if it means creating distance from family members.

Surrounding yourself with supportive and genuine people is essential. These are the individuals who respect your boundaries, uplift you, and contribute positively to your life. They provide a healthy counterbalance to the negative influence of toxic individuals. Cultivating these positive relationships can help reinforce your self-esteem and remind you of your worth.

Being discerning about who you allow into your inner circle is a form of self-care. It involves assessing relationships based on how they make you feel and the impact they have on your life. It’s about choosing to invest your time and energy in people who respect you and contribute to your happiness and growth.

It’s also important to recognize that distancing yourself from toxic individuals is not an act of selfishness, but one of self-preservation. Your mental and emotional health should always be a priority. By removing toxic influences, you create space for positive, nurturing relationships that allow you to flourish.

Ultimately, being cautious of the company you keep involves a combination of self-awareness, boundary-setting, and surrounding yourself with supportive individuals. Trust yourself to recognize when someone’s behavior is harmful, and don’t hesitate to take the necessary steps to protect your well-being. By doing so, you empower yourself to lead a healthier, happier life, free from the draining effects of toxic relationships. Remember, you deserve to be surrounded by people who appreciate and respect you for who you are.

25/06/2024

Never forget usukaphi nomntu in your little misunderstandings ...Secondly never forget the good things a person did for u no matter what ...Ubomi Bude 💥🙌🏼

21/06/2024

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21/06/2024

You are not responsible for someone else’s feelings●

You are not responsible for someone else’s opinion of you●

You are not responsible for someone else’s assumptions of you●

You are not responsible for someone else’s actions●

■You are responsible for you _trend carefully!!!

19/06/2024

16/06/2024

Please don't ever believe your story is done. Always believe that BETTER is coming to your life. God will UPGRADE your life in ways you won't believe.

13/06/2024

Blessed Thursday Everyone. .....

12/06/2024

Ezintweni zonke bulelani 🌸Its important to appreciate abantu esihambha nabo endleleni ngoba in this life kudingeka genuine people 🌸🙌🏼people who are available all seasons of life ...In this life as well learn to be grateful more & complain less👌🏼

10/06/2024

Some people are not going to like u & that’s okay. Some people are not going to accept you & that’s fine. Everyone is not supposed to be for you. Sometimes, we’re trying to change people’s minds that are never going to be for us. You keep honoring God, being your best, and God will cause the people you need to be for you & He’ll take care of your critics✋🏾 When it’s the right time, just like He closed the mouths of hungry lions, He’ll close the mouths of those trying to discredit you. That’s not your battle. That battle is the Lord ●Remember you are crowned👑 with Favor💥👊🏽

07/06/2024

But the Lord is faithful, and He will strengthen you [setting you on a firm foundation] and will protect and guard you from the evil one.
2 Thessalonians 3:3 .......
Good morning to you all, have a Prayerful & Wonderful Friday. Happy Preparation Day🙌🙌

02/06/2024

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To our registered Queens thank u for your amazing co_operation on this matter✋🏾

30/05/2024

Know your people. And I don't mean those who are always around you - I mean your real people.

Know who TRULY has your back and will stand by you through thick and thin.
Know who is in your life because of who you are and not what you have.
Know who mentions your name in a room full of opportunities.
Know who people wouldn't feel comfortable gossiping about you in their presence.
Know who will remember the song in your heart and sing it back to you when you forget the lyrics.

And here's the most important thing: when you know those people, do not jeopardise the relationship. And if you do, because sometimes as humans we err and hurt people we love and who love us, go back and fix things with those people. To your people, you apologise. You do the work. You lose pride over the ones you love, rather than lose the ones you love over pride. And know who those are. Know your people.

29/05/2024

Blessed Wednesday Everyone

25/05/2024

Blessed Sabbath Everyone

21/05/2024

Blessed Tuesday Everyone

17/05/2024

If you want to see the goodness of God look at your own life🙌🏼At times God allows us to go through certain situations so that our painful experiences can be a great testimony one day.. giving someone hope & strength🙌🏼😀Uyababiyela abakhe uThixo ungaze umthandabuze ,The amount of your challenges zixela indlela uThixo akuthembhe ngayo ,kwaye naye uye akulungise ..akulungiselele nabantu to support u... Ungaze umphoxe uThixo secimbha usatana ukugqibile show the devil kugqibela uThixo 😊ebomini bakho...
With God all things are possible 💥🙌

13/05/2024

Knowing your worth is about moving on everytime you find yourself in the toxic environment. Peace is the main thing you should be chasing after...🌸👌🏼

12/05/2024

Mother's Day is a special day to celebrate & show gratitude to the most important Queens... heartfelt quotes & messages that can express my love and appreciation for Our Queens ♥️♥️

"God could not be everywhere, and therefore He created a **Mother**

Happy Mother's Day NCM .Queens
Happy Mother's day to all of us🌸
your unwavering love & support mean the world to me♥️💐

Love & hugs to all the Queens that are part of this group chat🫂❤️

10/05/2024

Happy Preparation Day Everyone

08/05/2024

Verse: Psalm 50:15

'Call upon Me in the day of trouble; I will deliver you, and you will honour Me.'

-When we are facing any kind of trouble, the right thing to do is to pray.
-Prayer has the power to bring relief as we turn to God for His help.
-The promise is that He will deliver you.
-It honours God when we turn to Him and trust Him for our situations.

Prayer: Lord, how awesome it is to know that We can call on You.You are our God & our Heavenly Father and You are our deliverer. Hear our prayer today as we place our hope and our confidence in You. Amen.

Have a Terrific Wednesday 🌸 😀

05/05/2024

Sometimes the enemy celebrates too soon. He doesn’t realize you’re down, but you’re not out. You had a setback, but really, it’s setting you up. He thought that disappointment would cause you to be sour, give up on your dreams. He thought that bad break would cause you to stay sitting in the ashes, discouraged, bitter. He didn’t know that when you got knocked down, you would get back up again. He didn’t know that instead of complaining, you would start praising. He may be celebrating now, but don’t worry, your time is coming. Right now, God is arranging things in your favor😊👌🏼

03/05/2024

Verse: Romans 12:2

'Do not conform to the pattern of this world,but be transformed by the renewing of your mind.'

-Our minds and our 'thought-life' greatly influence our lives.
-What the world presents us with can leave us feeling negative and discouraged.
-Our minds need to be constantly renewed to believe in God and His goodness.
-He will see you through whatever you are facing, and He brings hope into our lives.

Prayer: Lord, We pray that We will not be overwhelmed by things that are going on around us. May our mind be renewed so that we will believe in Your loving-kindness and Your faithfulness in our lives. Amen.

Happy Preparation Day 🤠

25/04/2024

Why worry when you can Pray trust Jesus..He will lead a way🙌🏼🙏🏽🌸

21/04/2024

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18/04/2024

Once u detect jealousy in anyone’s life...
Stay far from them...
If they cannot celebrate with you stay far ibangu mntase pha kude uThixo uye wena abaveze 🖐🏽
be very very careful...
Jealousy is demon personified...
A jealous demon may appear as a supportive angel 😇 😌🧐🤞Be watchful & stay Prayerful
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