Ron Gallagher - Your Celebrant

Ron Gallagher - Your Celebrant Marriage celebrant services, in Melbourne & throughout Victoria. From elopement style ceremonies to lavish affairs we cater for ALL couples Then look no furher.

Making the process straight-forward and simple; for couples who want a ceremony with a blend of fun and elegance. If you are looking for an Award Winning Celebrant that understands how to make it all come together with the minimum of fuss. Who wants the very best for you and your fiance. Who will create for you a beautiful and unique ceremony that speaks directly to you and your guests. Contact Ro

n for a no-obligation appointment to discuss your requirements and how he can of service. www.yourcelebrant.com.au

About Your Celebrant…Couples need, though they don’t always know it, a celebrant that has their best interests at heart....
16/12/2024

About Your Celebrant…

Couples need, though they don’t always know it, a celebrant that has their best interests at heart. That is where I come in. My focus is to give couples the wedding ceremony of their dreams. The one the Bride has always wished for and the one the Groom hopes will be everything he and his beloved want it to be. Simple though that may sound, it is a time-consuming process and one that deserves the services of a dedicated professional.

Your wedding day is too important to be left to chance or in the hands of a well-meaning amateur. Award winning service does not mean having to pay exorbitant fees. It means finding someone who cares about quality and you as a couple.

What you want vs What you say vs What you get…I was re-reading an article from Before & After (Design magazine) and it g...
16/12/2024

What you want vs What you say vs What you get…

I was re-reading an article from Before & After (Design magazine) and it got me thinking about the client – service provider relationship and the articles relevance to the wedding business. The article was entitled- “Don’t do what I say, do what I want”.

The most obvious commonalities is the fact that many couples give a brief as to what they are after in regards to their ceremony and that is often as vague as “Short – No Fuss”, when what they really mean, upon further investigation is “Not Boring”.
The inexperienced and / or lazy celebrant hears only the description and not their meaning. The danger in this, for the couple, is that the celebrant then delivers a short-perfunctory, hopefully legal, but dull ceremony.

The more experienced and or creative celebrant reads between the lines and opens up a dialogue, listens attentively to the couple and works with them to establish more precisely what they mean, what they truly want and then shows them the means of achieving that in a way that suits their personalities, delivers on their requirements and goes beyond the ordinary by use of creative processes of writing, consultation, collaboration and presentation.
Doing so in a manner that delivers not only what the clients asked for, but what they actually wanted. The rub comes in doing so respectfully and always with the best interest of the couple in mind.

Too often I hear from couples that have been told “This is how it must be done” when in reality it is purely the opinion of the celebrant and their lack of imagination or ability to think outside the box; that is really the root of the problem.

Couples owe it to themselves, family and their friends to search-out those that will not only deliver what they have been asked for, but deliver what is wanted at a deeper level. When this is done three things happen –

1/ The couple get what they “Want” not just what they asked for (articulated).

2/ The celebrant becomes more creative, not less and over time raises the overall standard of ceremony they deliver and therefore creates an expectation amongst the wedding going public of excellence.

3/ A cycle of expectation and delivery is created that allows the reputation of the celebrant to be raised, furthermore creating demand for his services.

But it all starts with one simple realisation – “Don’t do what I say – do what I want!”
When the service provider (whatever service they are providing) fully understands the difference then you can start to trust that they are going to deliver all you asked for and more !
I welcome your views on the above.

How do people know you care about them ?I was in bed the other night and the thought came to mind… How do people know yo...
16/12/2024

How do people know you care about them ?

I was in bed the other night and the thought came to mind… How do people know you care about them? Then earlier today I was in a men’s store looking to buy a couple of tops. Trouble was the three staff, of the otherwise empty store, were too busy chatting amongst themselves to show any interest in me or my money. I simply went elsewhere and got exactly what I wanted and intend to return there tomorrow to pick up three more items. It was not that the 2nd store actually served me directly because it was a chain-store. But neither did they manage to annoy me with lack of service and respect. Now how does this relate to a wedding supplier? Well we have all read the website blurbs, the Ads etc. and they all tell you they actually care about you. You know the usual ‘I would “Love” to be a part of “Your” special day.” So it comes down to the usual criteria. Don’t tell me – SHOW ME ! This is where the role of the Celebrant has a distinct advantage over many of the other suppliers. We usually get to spend more time, in person, on the phone and through e-mails etc with our couples. We enquire about their story, their relationship, their hopes and dreams. Many times we are privy to family dynamics, we create their ceremony and incorporate their unique story into it. On the big day we direct proceedings and talk / walk them through it all. A good celebrant understands the privilege they are given. the trust bestowed upon them and that for the young couple in front of them it is the culmination of months, if not years, of planning, saving and selection. It is very likely the most important day of their lives till that point and will likely remain so till they have children. So to get back to the original idea of this posting… How do people know you care about them ? We do it by showing them. There is an old saying “Your actions speak so loudly, I cannot hear what you are saying” So let your actions speak loud and clear and with consistency and follow through on the promises – Not because they are easy, because often they are not; but because you said you would. Hold your suppliers to account… Don’t tell me – Show me ! I’d be delighted to chat to you regarding any aspect of the above, your ceremony or any area of the wedding you are having issues with. I’d also be honoured to be your celebrant. But I won’t just say so – I’ll show you.

Is Marriage good for the Soul ?I was listening to the news today (nearly always a bad idea – too depressing). When it wa...
16/12/2024

Is Marriage good for the Soul ?

I was listening to the news today (nearly always a bad idea – too depressing). When it was stated that a study showed married men are happier than single men and of course they live longer etc… Now, I’m in the marrying business and I wonder if at times the happiness is a result of having to be less selfish – That is to say more compromising, flexible, forgiving, understanding and the myriad of other human feelings one doesn’t “necessarily” have to embrace with such enthusiasm quite as strongly as you do once you have undergone the blissfulness of nuptials. Is it this new-found inner peacefulness that accounts for the rise in the happiness quotient? Happiness being in inverse proportion to our self-centeredness or is it something else? So is Marriage good for the soul ?

Those that are or have been married know by experience, both positive and negative, that you can no longer be the sole focus of your thoughts and actions. Not to realise that and more importantly act on that, is a recipe for disaster. The self-absorbed and self-centred do not last long at the coal-face of matrimony. So to answer my own question – Yes. It would seem that a truly functional marriage is good for the soul as it necessitates an outward focus and a desire to be a better person not for it’s own sake but to be worthy of the love and devotion of partner and kids and set an example for them of selflessness. And that has to be good for the soul doesn’t it ?

I welcome your thoughts on the above.

Ode to The Butterfly release.We opened up the box for Butterflies all around.…Imagine our disappointment, as they plumme...
16/12/2024

Ode to The Butterfly release.

We opened up the box for Butterflies all around.…Imagine our disappointment, as they plummeted to the ground. Their tiny little wings still covered with frost I looked at them and thought of the money I’d lost. Never again will I suggest a butterfly release It puts a damper on the show when they’re all deceased. Maybe I should have stuck to a dove – maybe two but then again as they fly off, you have to dodge poo. Oh why oh why did I go down this track It seems that I’ve made a rod for my back. So no more birds or butterflies to release to the skies as one may s…t upon your head and the other may well lay there dead So good luck to all that give it a try but for me no more damn butterflies. By Ron Gallagher

The Roller Coaster Ride.Marriage is not a 50 / 50 deal.If you enter into matrimony thinking that if you bring your half ...
16/12/2024

The Roller Coaster Ride.

Marriage is not a 50 / 50 deal.

If you enter into matrimony thinking that if you bring your half to the table and your partner brings their half all will be sweetness and light then you may well be in for a rude surprise down the track. I am not a qualified marriage counsellor but having said that, I have been around for awhile and have had hundreds of conversations with couples of all ages and in all states of relationship dynamics.

My simply observation is this – Marriage is a 100 / 100 deal. Each party needs to be “All-In” that is to say 100% behind the relationship regardless of where their partner is currently sitting on the commitment scales. So when things are in flux you still have a strong, viable connection and commitment that will allow you to bend, but not break. Travel, work and financial pressures, children, extended family and a myriad of other distractions all impact on the relationship we have with our partner; that is a given.

But when you say the words “In sickness and in health, for better or worse” or whatever your chosen vows are, there is no mention of half the time, or sometimes or when the mood takes me. If you bring your 100% to the table then the minimum commitment is still 100% and isn’t that what you want from your partner ?

Do not worry about the scales not always being in balance; marriage doesn’t work like that. Marriage is a roller coaster and roller coasters are not flat for a reason, so climb on board, buckle up, hold your partner tight and get ready for some ups and downs, dips and curves, plenty of laughing and possibly some screaming and when all else fails throw your hand in the air and enjoy the ride… together !

Wants and NeedsThere are billions of people on this planet of ours and yet there are, what many would generally categori...
16/12/2024

Wants and Needs

There are billions of people on this planet of ours and yet there are, what many would generally categorise as, a handful of types. Introverts-extraverts, Caring-uncaring, Self-centred vs outwardly focussed etc. As one gets older and hopefully wiser you gain insight into these types and your place in the World and in what camp/s you best fit, even if at times uncomfortably and or inconveniently.

For the sake of this article, which is primarily about the art and business of weddings, I will focus my attention on two dominant mind sets. Firstly let me paint a picture of a common scene when it comes to the nature of nuptials.

There are those for whom the ceremony, that is to say the actual act of both legally and emotionally being joined to another, is the centrepiece of the day. The true reason for celebration and the hours, days, weeks and months of preparation that have led to it. And there are those that think that the trappings, the hoopla, the photos, flowers and limos and the expensive dress is what it is all about. The ceremony serving to provide the rationale for all the above, not the other way around.

There is however a small, but important issue, some may say problem, with the second thought process; it is this… A couple may actually get married without much fuss or many of the trappings if they so choose. A legal wedding ceremony can be conducted with two witnesses and an authorised celebrant. It really could not get more fundamental and uncomplicated than that. Anything added to this is a bonus, but not a necessity.

Likewise you can get yourself a fabulous suit, an amazing dress, hire a limo and enjoy an expensive dinner with family and friends; have a professional photographer and videographer capture your day from early morning till late at night and you can do that any number of times in your lifetime, daily if you could afford to do so. But doing all that will not leave you married. At the end of the day only a wedding ceremony can do that. That is how “Unique” it truly is.

For most couples it is a once in a lifetime occasion and though some couples may succumb to the rigors and stresses of married life, the couple will in some way be legally connected to each other, as their legal marital status is forever changed. A party, a dress, a limo, flowers and a photo shoot simply cannot do that. If it did any high-school kid being asked to a prom would be putting a lot more thought into their choice of date. I do not say this because my area of expertise is ceremony, I say it because it is true.

So give the ceremony the time it deserves in the planning stages. Discuss with your officiant/celebrant your desire to make this the centrepiece of the day upon which the rest develops from. Do so and you may be rewarded with a truly memorable day from start to finish. A great ceremony can lead seamlessly into a fabulous reception; an ill-conceived ceremony can put a damper on things that will be hard to re-ignite.

Your family and friends did not accept your kind invitation to simply party with you, they could do that anytime and anywhere. They came to witness your promises of love and devotion; to take part in a ceremony and wish you and your beloved well. To celebrate your love for another and their love for you both.

Lets together create a ceremony that celebrates that love. One that will linger in the hearts and minds of all that witness it.

Want to know more ? Not sure where to start ? I offer a no-obligation meeting to discuss the ideas above, your wedding day and your desires to make it unique. Lets work together to make it all happen and regardless of whether it is a simply at home service or a huge and elaborate affair we can make it work for you, your fiance, your family and your guests.

The Truth behind RecommendationsIn many industries, business, and in life in general; when one asks for, or is offered a...
16/12/2024

The Truth behind Recommendations

In many industries, business, and in life in general; when one asks for, or is offered a “Recommendation” regarding a product or service, the response is most often based on personal experience and, or a working knowledge of the product or service they then recommend, given that they understand, either fully or to a fair degree, the wants, and importantly the needs, of the person seeking knowledge. To a very large extent that is what a review or a testimonial is; a somewhat objective and honest appraisal of something. The underlying motive is one of wanting to share a positive experience, or alternatively warn people and protect them from sub-par operators.

When an engaged couple naively asks one wedding professional for a recommendation they are somewhat unaware of the baggage, the obligations and personal Biases that may accompany that recommendation. Many wedding pros are a part of a “Group”, be it small or large, whose primary purpose is cross-promotional. These groups are not to be confused with various associations such as the A.I.P.P. for photographers or the A.C.M.C.V. for Victorian celebrants whose purposes are consultation, credibility, camaraderie, education, representation and they often serve as the public face and at times a sanctioning body for a particular group.

By contrast there are independent operators that pool their resources and cross-promote inter-group. Unfortunately for the enquiring couple the recommendations from these groups members “may not be” based on the best possible choice for the couple, on their needs and wants, but rather on the said groups somewhat incestuous nature of cross-pollination for mutual gain. One hand washing the other.

So how is a couple to know? How are they to get the best for themselves and trust in the recommendations of those they ask ? The answer is relatively simple.

Ask why are they recommending that person or business, what makes the particular person extraordinary and the best option for the couple. Have they personally worked with their recommendation over a period of time; not just shared a drink with them at the groups meetings. If relevant, who did they use in the category you are asking about when they got married and why. Ask straight out, “are commissions being paid for the recommendations?”

The safest course of action when choosing any wedding professional is to do your own research. Look at websites, not just large “Portals” necessarily, just go straight to the operators sites and do your due-diligence (Search engines are your friend when you are specific with your search terms, unfortunately large portals can swamp markets because they have the budget to do so) Create a short list for each category of wedding pro and look at their site, is it professional, up-to-date, does it tell you, and more importantly show you, their service. Look for “Genuine” reviews from real clients, actual couples. Some of the above mentioned groups review pages are peppered with reviews by it own members recommending other members and praising the group. The poor, unsuspecting couple is sadly unaware that the person leaving the review is likewise a member and as such the review is near worthless.

Look for real couples pictures, not stock photos, genuine reviews from real couples and videos that display the services on offer. Look to social media, but again, for real people, not involved with the industry or some group being “promoted” rather than honestly and openly reviewed.

So why do I care ? Because unlike recommending your mechanic brother-in-law to service a work associates car where the consequences of a bad job means they move onto someone else next time and do not ask your advice again. A wedding is very often an expensive one-off event. It is one thing to accept a couples invitation to provide your service for their big day. It is up to the couple to do their home-work and make an informed decision based on the interaction with oneself. It is an entirely different proposition altogether to promote another wedding supplier unless you truly believe they are the very best option for the couple from the hundreds available. And that is despite the fact that they may be in the same clique or group as yourself and may recommend you on a regular basis.

Please, wedding professionals, by all means promote your services, but be very open, honest, transparent and prudent in your recommendations. Couples deserve the very best “they” can find and afford. That may or may not be yourself, your friends or members of your group.

Couples, don’t ask “who” without digging deeper into the “Why” and never assume transparency. You owe that much to yourselves, each-other, your family, your guests and the wedding professionals that you do choose to work with. Good luck with your search, I wish you well; I hope that is obvious from the above.

Cultural Inclusions – Aussie WeddingsOver the past 80 years or so Australia has seem many people of different nationalit...
16/12/2024

Cultural Inclusions – Aussie Weddings

Over the past 80 years or so Australia has seem many people of different nationalities and cultures come to live in this great country. This had added immense diversity to many areas of Australian life.

The Anglo/European influx of the 50’s and 60’s has slowly been expanded to include many Asian, Islander and sub-continent countries, including our comrades from across the Tasman and more recently middle eastern and African nations. This has brought with it some issues of multi-culturalism and also assimilation. The diverse backgrounds of many of our visitors and migrants can however offer us an opportunity for cross-cultural exploration and celebration as no matter what country one comes from, most see marriage as an important rite-of-passage and the day itself as one of great importance.

At Your Celebrant we believe that although we conduct civil ceremonies according to Australian law, it is your choice if you would like to bring elements of your background, heritage, religion or culture to the ceremony.

These elements can take the form of readings, rituals, ceremonial dress, pre or post ceremony blessings by a family elder or any combination of these you may wish to include. At Your Celebrant we are proud of the flexibility the Australian marriage act and laws allow visitors and residents choosing to marry here. You can marry at virtually any time, any location and we are happy to make suggestions regarding venues if that is required. We are also available to marry anywhere in Australia, we are not limited to state regulations.

I am more than happy to incorporate any of your ideas that convey your thoughts and understanding of marriage, not withstanding the legal definition by Australian law and the marriage act of which we are subject when conducting a wedding ceremony in Australia and it’s territories.

In my 80+ page Your Celebrant resource folder I have a range of suggestions regarding how to include various cultural and religious elements into your ceremony; all of which I have personally researched and written. I would be delighted to share that information with you and discuss their inclusion on the big day, so do not be shy, reach out and ask me how we can make it all come together – the possibilities are near endless.

Compliment – Don’t Clash.When you are interviewing your wedding day suppliers, especially your wedding celebrant, it is ...
16/12/2024

Compliment – Don’t Clash.

When you are interviewing your wedding day suppliers, especially your wedding celebrant, it is vital to ask “What are you likely to wear?” Lets face facts, males in this regard do have an advantage in that complimenting the colour palette of the bridal party is relatively easy for them. A dark or complimentary coloured pin-striped suit and a tie that does not scream “I put no thought into this” is easy to get right. As can be seen in the attached photo my tie and pocket square compliment the lilac / purple tones that were Alex and Jess’s accent colours as shown in the bouquets. That is why I ask the colour palette couples are working with. If your suppliers do not ask, how can they make an effort to compliment rather than clash. Males are also less prone to radical hair colour changes or cuts and they do not get pregnant; three things you may want to consider.

You, your fiance, your families, and the bridal party have very likely spend hundreds, if not thousands on getting the look and colour right. Your photos, video and the ceremony should have a co-ordinated feel to them that, down the track, does not get you asking “What was he/she thinking?” Likewise with other wedding professionals. I see too many wedding photographers that look as though they are heading to a beach picnic rather than a wedding. I understand comfort, I get that it is a long day, but a uniform of sorts is not a big-ask considering the price-tag that customarily accompanies these services. So never assume – ask.

Likewise with the placement of sound equipment by musicians or the P.A. by the celebrant. These things are utilitarian in nature and generally not all that aesthetically pleasing. Where possible speaker boxes, wires, power cables and the like should not be on display. The same goes for bulky camera cases, they should located where easy access can be achieved for quick changes of gear which is often required but not in full view of guests.

The reason I prefer a fully covered signing table is so legs and shoes and any untidiness can be hidden. It simply makes for better photos and gives a far more finished and professional look. That is the reason I always carry a signing and a ritual table and their covers with me to my weddings. I want the total aesthetic to work for the photographer, the videographer and the couple.

Your insights and feedback regarding any of the above is welcome, and remember ask, do not assume.

Music and Ceremony.From ancient drums to communicate over long distances, to the modern streaming of spotify, music is a...
16/12/2024

Music and Ceremony.

From ancient drums to communicate over long distances, to the modern streaming of spotify, music is all around us and is an integral part of our everyday lives. You may not be a professional musician but many play an instrument or two and nearly all appreciate good music of one genre or another.

When formal weddings were the sole domain of the church; hymns and other forms of sacred music were the norm and even in so-called pagan ceremonies music played a significant role both as part of the ritual and the customary celebrations that followed.

Music is powerful. It has the ability to touch us on an emotional level. It has the power to evoke feelings of joy, of sadness, of melancholy and tap into our psyche on many levels. I venture to say that there are pieces of music from your past or present that elicit some kind of emotional response from you, such is the power and nature of music.

When it comes to one of the most important days of your life, the day you legally and ceremonially join your life to another; emotions are heightened and music of meaning often plays a significant role in the proceedings. Prior to the ceremony background music can be a means of setting the tone of what is to follow. It’s thoughtful selection will mean that older guests are not subjected to inappropriate lyrics or to lyrics that are not consistent with the occasion.

Processional Music: There are many ways that a bride or partner may make their entrance in regard to order. Here are three main options and there are of course variations on each of these.

The American: in which the groom or one partner is located at the front with his / their attendants and the bridesmaids enter in reverse order and simply mirror the other side. Any page-boys or flower-girls would be next followed by the bride / partner. The music for this style of processional can be just one piece or broken up into two sections, the bridal party entering to one piece and the bride to a second selection.

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The English: Generally the groom / partner and attendants are already at the front and the page-boys and flower-girls enter followed by the bride / partner and then the bridesmaids. You may recall this taking place at the recent royal weddings and it was the way brides processed down the aisle in Australia up until the 1950 when the American influence started to dominate such things. Think about the bridesmaids holding up the train as to make sure it was not soiled, you may have seen this taking place in pictures of weddings from the days where this style of processional was the standard entrance.

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The Scottish: Which is a processional style of entry in the true sense of the word. The highland piper leading the way, followed by the celebrant, the couple, the bridal party and at times the immediate family. This is in many ways similar to the Indian / Pakistani custom of the groom making his way, on horse back, to his fiance’s home, or the ceremony space, with his entourage following behind. The recessional can take place with similar grandeur as once again the piper leads the couple and the bridal party out of the chapel or wherever the ceremony is taking place.

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The other times that music is traditionally required is during the signing of the documents / paperwork. And finally;

The Recessional music as you exit / recess back down the aisle. This music is best loud and lively.

Live music, be it a harpist, a string quartet, a duo or an eight piece rock band always adds a special vibe visually as well as audibly. But that does not mean that a carefully selected array of recorded music cannot have impact. Often the venue will have an in-house sound system and the day-of planner will arrange the playing for you. If however you are having a garden, a beach or a remote ceremony and power is not available then I offer a second battery optioned P.A. system to allow whatever you have your music stored on, be it a phone, an ipod or ipad etc. to be played. So long as it has a 3.5mm headphone jack I can get it loud enough for ceremonial purposes.

I suggest carefully listening to the lyrics of your selection as at times what appears to be an excellent choice can upon scrutiny not be appropriate for the occasion. For that reason I suggest instrumentals are often a safer alternative.

I hope this has answered any concerns you may have had regarding music for the actual ceremony and also offers a few alternatives regarding the processional / recessional. When it comes to the processional and most other aspects of your big day, it is ultimately up to you when and how and in what order you want to make your entrances as there are no hard and fast rules you are obliged to follow. Practicality is often an excellent way to assess such things.

Unique Bouquet IdeaHere is a unique idea which one of my brides incorporated into her ceremony back in 2012.Jacinta aske...
16/12/2024

Unique Bouquet Idea

Here is a unique idea which one of my brides incorporated into her ceremony back in 2012.

Jacinta asked a number of special women in her life to bring a flower to the ceremony. No other requirements were given, just that they bring a flower of some sort.

The maid of honour then gathered the flowers and wrapped them with floral wire and ribbon and when the bride entered the guests area she was presented with the bouquet and Jacinta then proceeded down the aisle.

Whilst Jacinta was making her way to the ceremony space I mentioned what had, and was, happening so all guests were made aware of the unique nature and significance of the bouquet. Then, on the bride’s behalf, I thanked the ladies and the maid of honour for the role they had played in creating the beautiful bouquet and of course the roles they had played in the bride’s life. It was a lovely idea and one I think more brides should consider.

I have written a number of one-off rituals for couples, most recently a tree-planting ritual that a couple wanted incorporated into the proceedings. Writing a ritual from scratch is no easy task and takes a lot of research and time. I also have a selection of cultural inclusions that may be of interest. Having said that, when the couple come back to me and love what I have written for them the effort is soon forgotten.

What is going to make your ceremony memorable, unique, truly yours ?

A well crafted story that tells of your love for one another ? A ritual of meaning ?

Maybe the above idea of having your bouquet gifted to you by those people who have touched your life in some significant manner.

Unity Candle RitualA candelabra or three Lanterns if outside, holding three candles is set to one side of the bride and ...
16/12/2024

Unity Candle Ritual

A candelabra or three Lanterns if outside, holding three candles is set to one side of the bride and groom opposite signing table.

This can be done in one part or two – All pre Vows or part two after Vows)

Celebrant to all…

I now invite (The Mothers or Fathers) of our couple ____ and ____, to come forward and stand beside their sons / daughters.

The two side candles represent two individual families and ____ and ____ as part of those families.
In a moment I will ask you to light your family candles. Following that , ____ and ____ will take the flame from their family candles and together light the central candle.

Celebrant to Parents…

“____ and ____ would you please now light your family candles.”

Section two:

(Can be done either after the vows have been spoken or before-hand which is tidier)

The lighting of the central or unity candle as it is sometimes called is a ceremonial acknowledgement of the vows and commitments made here today.

Celebrant to the couple:

Symbolically it is a visual representation of this new relationship. it also represents the coming together of two families. “____ and ____, please take the flame from your family candles and together light the central candle.”

The light from the single central flame represents the fusion of two independent spirits into one. It signifies that marriage is the joining of two people who have chosen to share a life together rather than continue living individual ones. A new couple, a new union, a new beginning for them both.

This central candle will be given to ____ and ____ and if they wish they can on their anniversary re-light it, and re-live the excitement of this special day remembering those unique promises they have made to each other.

The main candles / lanterns will be left burning to one side as the ceremony continues. The Picture shows Daniel and Kellie lighting the central flame using the small tapers. The ribbons on the candles I add to co-ordinate with the colour pallette the couple have chosen.

I have a number of options regarding the unity candle ritual, a remembrance candle lighting and many other rituals that can be incorporated into your ceremony. I have also written a number of one-off rituals for couples, so lets discuss your ideas and how we can make them work in a seamless fashion to add a unique element to your wedding ceremony.

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If you are looking for an Award Winning Celebrant that understands how to make it all come together with the minimum of fuss. Who wants the very best for you and your fiance. Who will create for you a beautiful and unique ceremony that speaks directly to you and your guests. Then look no further. I am based in Narre Warren / Melbourne Victoria, but I often travel interstate to conduct ceremonies for couple who want what I have to offer and are not willing to compromise on their big day. Contact Ron for a no-obligation appointment to discuss your requirements and how he can of service. www.yourcelebrant.com.au