31/12/2023
Wishing a happy, safe, healthy 2024 to all. 2023 has been an amazing year for me, as has each year as a Celebrant. To all my couples I've met and married this year, in previous years, and those I will be marrying in 2024 and beyond, thank you for entrusting me for the most significant day of your life.
Of the endless unforgettable moments in 2023, one still especially brings a tear. In June, I was asked to conduct the funeral ceremony for Richard, a wonderful man, a former flight Captain, who I had married just over 12 months prior, to his true friend and love, J. At the time of Richard and J's wedding, it was known to family and friends that Richard was unwell. Their wedding and reception in Kings Park, was so beautiful and fabulous! (I have tears reflecting upon it, as I'm typing this now.) To prepare for Richard's funeral, I was invited by Richard's husband, J, and family to meet with Richard and them at their home, just days before he passed. We sat at Richard's bedside, enjoying fine food, wine and music, as he so loved. In command until the end, when the Captain would take his final flight, we talked through exactly what Richard wanted for his funeral ceremony. Richard had a passion for opera, and his music choices were meticulous. Upon me leaving that evening, knowing it was the last time I would see Richard, I was emotional, unsure what to say. I leant to him, kissed his hand ... and said ... "Richard, I'm so very pleased and honoured to have been a part of your and J's wedding. The memories created will be cherished forever." Richard said straight back to me ... "Kylee, thank you. It was the best day of my life." ❤
Kylee Payne Celebrant
