Angela Clark Consulting

01/25/2025

01/25/2025

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01/24/2025

The narcissist calls you crazy, insecure, jealous, and sensitive to keep you from the reality of: I lied to you, I cheated on you, I disrespected you, I abandoned you, I twisted every argument, I made you doubt yourself, I isolated you, I stole from you. They employ these tactics to distort your perception, to blur the lines between truth and falsehood, and to maintain their grip on your emotions.

By labeling you as crazy, they dismiss your legitimate concerns and feelings. By calling you insecure, they shift the focus to your perceived flaws, rather than their own actions. By accusing you of jealousy, they justify their infidelity and betrayal. And by calling you too sensitive, they minimize the harm they've caused and avoid accountability.

But the truth remains: their actions, not your emotions, are the problem. Their lies, cheating, disrespect, abandonment, manipulation, gaslighting, isolation, and theft are the reality. Don't let their words define your self-worth. You are not crazy, insecure, jealous, or too sensitive. You are a survivor, a warrior, and a strong individual who deserves truth, respect, and love.

01/23/2025

Cheating is not just physical...
it’s a slow, calculated betrayal of trust.
It’s not just the act of being unfaithful; it’s the mindset that allows you to prioritize your selfish desires over the person who loves you.

Texting someone your partner would feel uncomfortable about? That’s cheating. Hiding your phone, deleting messages, erasing your browsing history? That’s lying. Flirting with someone who isn’t your partner? That’s disrespect. Adding strangers on social media just because they’re attractive? That’s dishonorable.

These aren’t innocent actions. They’re deliberate. They erode the foundation of your relationship, one secret, one lie at a time. You’re not just betraying your partner; you’re betraying the promises you made, the love you claimed to have, and the integrity you were supposed to uphold.

The truth is, cheating starts in the small moments...moments where you entertain attention that doesn’t belong to you. And once that line is crossed, it only escalates. The relationship won’t survive if the behavior doesn’t stop. Love cannot grow in the shadows of lies, secrets, and selfishness.

If you’re in a relationship where this is happening; whether you’re the one doing it or it’s being done to you...it’s time to face reality. This isn’t love. This isn’t commitment. And it doesn’t just get better. You can’t build a life with someone who’s still entertaining the world like they’re single. You can’t create a future with someone who isn’t willing to leave the village behind and be loyal to the kingdom you’re trying to build.

It’s not a mistake; it’s a choice. And it’s a choice that destroys everything it touches.

01/23/2025

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01/22/2025

Learning💔❤️‍🩹

STRANGE BUT TRUTH

You didn’t lose the love of your life; you broke free from the chains of a predator who drained your joy, strength, and identity.

A narcissist isn’t your soul mate—they’re a master manipulator hiding behind a carefully crafted mask. The person you see at the end of the relationship, the one who discarded you without empathy, is who they’ve been all along.

Their charm, their “magic,” their love-bombing—all of it was a performance. False promises and shallow words disguised their real agenda: to control, exploit, and feed off your emotional energy while breaking down your confidence.

What you endured wasn’t love—it was a calculated game of power. Gaslighting, criticism, and emotional manipulation weren’t acts of affection but weapons used to keep you doubting yourself. Their betrayals weren’t mistakes; they were deliberate moves to hold you captive in their cycle of abuse.

But here’s the powerful truth: You didn’t lose a family member—you escaped a nightmare.

Walking away from that toxic cycle took unimaginable strength. Breaking free from someone who pretends to love but thrives on control isn’t easy, but you did it. And now, you’re standing in the light of freedom, no longer bound to their lies.

Healing begins when you accept this: you weren’t loved, you were used. But that does not define your worth or your future. You were created for real love, genuine connection, and a life filled with joy, authenticity, and peace.

You are worthy of being truly seen, deeply heard, and genuinely valued. Never settle for less than the love and respect you deserve. Real love isn’t a game or manipulation—it’s kind, patient, and true.

As you heal, remember this: the best is yet to come. You’ve reclaimed your life, and the right people, the right love, and the right future are waiting for you.