Day by Drachenberg

02/11/2024

“It was never that serious”

Planning your wedding Should be FUN!

Here are some sure fire ways to make it a more enjoyable and relaxed experience

✨ Hire a planner!
The more we plan the less you have to stress about, it’s just facts. Wether it’s full planning or event management having a professional on board takes a lot of the stress and load off you so you can enjoy the fun parts

✨ Mission statements! I know they can sound corny or canned from corporate but for your wedding this is a guiding light. Compare planning decisions and the time and effort you are putting into certain things to this statement. It makes it a lot easier to say no to what doesn’t align without getting swept up in wedding culture

✨ Say “no thank you”. It’s sweet that your friends and family want to help give you ideas, it’s also totally okay to say no to anything that doesn’t fit your vibe. You are not required to make them happy, they can have their own wedding.

✨ Don’t take it too seriously. I’m a fun and relaxed kind of gal, and I approach wedding planning with the same vibes. Remind yourself this isn’t the be all end all, and no one is going to remember your napkin fold in 10 years. They Will remember if they spent the whole night on the dance floor so put your energy where it matters to you.

12/24/2023

To be honest…

I get it. Most of these you aren’t doing intentionally!
Planning a wedding is Hard, and as your wedding planner I’m here to make that easier. So let’s get on the same page about a few things.

✨ CC me on vendor emails. For full planning clients please let me handle the emails, I will CC you I promise!
For month of event management you’ll have already been in contact with vendors. Once we’re up to speed let us take over and CC us in any direct communication so we can be in the know if changes.

✨ Feelings are making planner harder than it needs to be. Making decisions with facts and logistics in mind can be hard to do that as the couple getting married, that’s where I take over as an impartial planner.

✨ I’ve seen it before. The idea you’re thinking of has likely been part of a previous wedding or was taken out after some planning. The suggestions I’m making are based on seeing a lot of ideas go awry, head them.

✨ The limit Does exist. I’m sure there is a limit to the amount you can or want to spend on your wedding before it impacts your finances and I need you to be honest about it. Being vague or saying “the budget isn’t really set” sets us up for failure when we eventually hit that limit and causes you to be stressed and we’ll have to make some cuts.

Glad we’re on the same page!!

12/01/2021

Easy ways to save 💰

These are little things you can do to save costs and spend it on the things you really prioritize for your wedding!

✨ Date - peak season is more expensive, esp for fri & sat! So ask venues if they offer different pricing for certain days of the week or times of year.

✨ Food - skip the sit down, and you save on tables and linens, centre pieces and seating charts! Offering appies and dessert is more than enough for a wedding starting after 5/6pm.

✨ Paper - if they’re taking a plane to get to your wedding, they deserve a printed invite. If you spend money on an amazing seating chart you might be able to skip the es**rt cards.

Where are you planning to save?? Tell us below 👇🏼👇🏼

10/17/2021

We know every couple can plan the wedding of their dreams WITHIN their budget.

Need help finding vendors in your budget? Send us a DM!

09/10/2021

Why you need a design board ⬇️

Having a design board allows for cohesiveness throughout your wedding. It’s an easy visual for vendors to know what to expect and what they are trying to create for your day. They help you understand the style of your wedding and your colour palette for easy reference.
Use the board to determine elements for your day - the table runners, sign font, chair rental etc.
(And it’s also pretty fun to put together!)
Cut out photos and make a board or use whole photos to make a collage depending on what you want.

We create the design board for all of our full planning clients!

Do I have a design board?? Tell us what’s on it ⬇️⬇️

08/29/2021

The shoes you choose play a big part in your wedding day!

Your wedding shoes should reflect your personality so if the sparkly heels aren’t you, don’t wear ‘em!

But keep in mind you will also be on your feet for 8-10+ hours that day, so having some flats to switch out of those stilettos might be part of your game plan.

You can let your planner know you want switch out your shoes after portraits, dinner etc so they’re ready to go.

Which shoes are you picking?? Comment down below ⬇️⬇️

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08/22/2021

First looks don’t take away from your day!!

The can actually add to it! A first look can add a private moment with your soon to be spouse to soak in the memory, moment, and feelings of the day before they rush by.
You can get portraits done beforehand so you can go enjoy the cocktail hour!!
And trust us, they won’t make that walk down the aisle any less emotional, it’s your wedding day for crying out loud!

Are you doing a first look? Let us know below ⬇️

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08/15/2021

Planning your wedding at a winery?

Ask the venue about getting access to the vineyard and barrel room for portraits, it can make for some pretty gorgeous photos!

What unique elements will be photographed at your wedding?

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08/12/2021

08/12/2021

Having family contribute money towards your wedding is awesome. But... it isn't always clear that this money is a gift.
Being upfront when talking about monetary gifts and their contributions can help clarify this before you get into the thick of wedding planning.
Make it clear that you two greatly appreciate this gift, and may take some of their ideas and wishes into consideration. However, this money does not afford them the right to make decisions or be upset when you don't take their suggestions.
For some not accepting the money to avoid this grey area may be a better option.

08/12/2021

We love a winery wedding ✨ One of the things we love about getting married in the okanagan is all of the unique wineries to choose from for your dreamy day. And the vineyard photos make us swoon
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