
04/11/2025
Let’s talk about cultural inclusion in a wedding for a moment. ..
In today’s modern world, so many of us (myself included) don’t live in their country of origin. Either we or our ancestors moved to a different country at some point for a variety of reasons.
We then get assimilated into the country and cultures we now live, and often (although not always) also marry outside of our country of origin.
And, I love this diversity!
But, the pull of our roots is strong, so it’s natural (in fact, very encouraged by me!) to bring elements of that part of you into one of the most important days of your life.
Here are a few easy ideas to weave those roots into your wedding day:
✨Ceremony
- whether is the full start to finish ritual or just small elements to honour one or both of you
✨Attire
- this is one of my favorites! While so much of the world is used to a white dress and tux, in many parts of the world, that isn’t the norm for weddings, so why not do an outfit change at some point in the day to showcase both fashions?
✨Food & Drink
- we come together through food and in many areas of the world, outside of North America, food is so deeply engrained in who we are. Why not mix and match more “basic” food with cultural option, even if it’s just dessert? Or perhaps you bring out a special beverage that’s associated with your country or culture? In my case it’s Sljivovica and it’s deadly!
✨ Music & Dance
- another deeply meaningful part of many societies. This is SO easy to incorporate and adds a fun and touching personal element for not just your families but also guests who may be experiencing this for the first time.
✨Traditions
- from special entries and money dances, to tea ceremonies or pre-event gatherings or.. “wrestling” between the families, these are wonderful ways to honour your roots and infuse where you came from.
So, do you have a favourite? Or did you do something special for your wedding? I’d love to know!