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Four Boys Flower Farm We grow gorgeous flowers on our farm, right here in Elora!

It felt so good to do a small harvest just for me today. This isn’t a typical spring palette but I love it: Brown Sugar,...
24/05/2022

It felt so good to do a small harvest just for me today. This isn’t a typical spring palette but I love it: Brown Sugar, Black Parrot and Angelique tulips. (See them up close in stories.) I’m flying to Amsterdam tomorrow and haven’t been able to reply to all your messages from yesterday’s post yet. Thank you for them!!

I’ll definitely have more to post while im away, including a trip to the world’s main flower exchange which should be quite an experience. Dennis is staying back with the two littlest, and I’m going with our ten- and eight-year old, my parents, and my grandma who will be visiting her sister. Four generations of us in the “mother land”! I had better start packing, but it was worth it to stop and enjoy these first.

Transitions! We are in the middle of building our house, and our boys are growing so fast. Our thousand baby peonies are...
24/05/2022

Transitions! We are in the middle of building our house, and our boys are growing so fast. Our thousand baby peonies are flourishing at the new place, too, and they look so good!!

Everything with our flower farm has been up in the air this year. We won’t be moving till November, but we need to transplant all our perennials, bulbs and shrubs—and greenhouse 😅— during the summer because our current flower field is getting turned into a gravel yard for farm equipment. Originally I planned to do a pared-down season anyway, but we decided not to hire any staff this year because of the uncertainty, so it’s just me right now. 😁 Add in all the house planning, and being mom to four awesome/energetic/wonderful/homeschooled boys, and weeding the acre of peonies & perennials we still have (I am so sore from hoeing!)… and we’ve decided to hold off on selling altogether this year to focus on the long game, getting our new farm set up in a way that is sustainable for both our lifestyle and the land we’ll be growing on.

I haven’t posted for ages because I wasn’t sure what the season would look like, but now that we’ve decided, I am so excited to turn our attention to our new-to-us land and see a new season begin to take shape.

Tomorrow I’ll be at the new house bright & early, and I’ll show you how far the peony field has come!

These days, it helps to recognize that we are all searching for a sense of belonging. There’s solidarity in banding toge...
10/02/2022

These days, it helps to recognize that we are all searching for a sense of belonging.

There’s solidarity in banding together. In the movies, the heroes are always the resistance pinned down by the army. I think we’re all feeling that sense of being under attack, in one way or another.

I’ve been asking myself for two years now: how is my community validating what I already think? How many people in my life have a different perspective (people who care about me in real life) who are willing to challenge me because they know I’ll really listen?

Or do I mostly have this conversation with my own people:
“I can’t believe anyone would __.”
“It doesn’t make sense. I don’t get it either.”

We all do this. All it gets us is an illusion; island communities, beautiful and supportive to those who inhabit them—on quicksand.

It’s hard to reach beyond our island because it feels like if we’re not 100% on board, we might not belong anywhere. Whoever wants to be a bridge will get walked on from both sides.

But I think we’re ready to build bridges. We’re ready for better questions.

I know why caring for a tiny plot of land is healing: it reminds me I am small, and the weight of the world is not mine ...
07/02/2022

I know why caring for a tiny plot of land is healing: it reminds me I am small, and the weight of the world is not mine to bear.

And somehow, becoming small makes us grow again, with capacity and maturity, right along with the flowers.

Do you think it’s possible for women to have it all? If not, what rises to the top? What do you let go?I can go full-thr...
21/01/2022

Do you think it’s possible for women to have it all? If not, what rises to the top? What do you let go?

I can go full-throttle for awhile but eventually come up hard against my own limitations. I have a new respect for all of you who wear many hats, often at the same time.

And I question whether I’ve contributed to the sales pitch that “you, too, can take on this ginormous project while juggling all the other precious parts of your life!”

Women have historically been producers, nurturing and supplying for the needs of their own family. That has changed in the last 150 years: now, we define each other by what we consume. Do we buy organic, or price match? Do our kids wear Old Navy or Zara? Which Etsy shop are we supporting? (Indigenous? Homemade? Friend from church? Apple or Android? Who are we boycotting?

Flowers are like people: you can’t force them to do what you want, you can only create the environment for them to flour...
20/01/2022

Flowers are like people: you can’t force them to do what you want, you can only create the environment for them to flourish.

Also, like people: they’re all different. No two types have the same needs, which makes it really tricky for them all to get along in the same space. Cosmos? Easy, let them do their own thing and don’t smother them with water, fertilizer or too many hugs. Sweet peas? Give them deep roots and let them reach for the skies.

These ranunculus? Well… whatever you’d do for the newborn baby of the family, just apply the flower equivalent:

womb pre-soak, not too hot and not too cold, preemie frost tunnel incubator, blanket at night, handle gently, watch for a myriad of possible illnesses, don’t let the head droop, liquids and supplements on schedule, encourage/cajole, celebrate the first bud/step… and, like a real baby, P**F they’re suddenly all grown up and stunning you with the person they’ve become. 😲

Hi, I’m back!!! I fell off Instagram mid-update, didn’t I?! Whew, we needed that more than I realized. I still feel like...
14/01/2022

Hi, I’m back!!! I fell off Instagram mid-update, didn’t I?! Whew, we needed that more than I realized. I still feel like I’m taking deep breaths, catching up on months of reading and family time.

This year is going to look different because we’re moving our farm (the house is being framed right now) and I have so much I want to share with you.

Bear with me while I respond to messages over the next week—and I have some gorgeous photos to repost from our florists!

Happy new year to you all, dear friends—good things are ahead and I’m really glad to be back. 💕🙏

*featuring the last of the Japanese anemones and dahlias: Rip City, Karma Chocolate, Hollyhill Black Widow, Ivanetti and Purple Haze

Update One : I think “balance” can also look like fully engaging with one season for awhile, then wrapping it up and ful...
28/10/2021

Update One : I think “balance” can also look like fully engaging with one season for awhile, then wrapping it up and fully engaging with another. Two weeks ago, we were on the shining Québec hillside in shorts and Tshirts, switched so thoroughly into post-flower mode that it’s taken me awhile to come back.

What I love about flower farming is that it’s a stream of beginnings and endings. I am not a person who enjoys routine—which is why my houseplants suffer!—but the excitement of seedlings & blooms balances out with the relief of cleaning it all up afterward.

Thanksgiving was our “hard stop” for flowers, and the very next day we packed up for eight days in Montréal, Québec and Ottawa. My heart is full—so full—of gratitude for all our florists and customers this season, for our team and community and family support, for Dennis, and for our kids who have been so patient and flexible while I was outside or answering messages for hours on end. This trip felt like a celebration and a promise: WE DID IT, it was an amazing season, and now we transition into fall & family.

And other than the constant sanitizing and masks on & off, this trip felt like a world nearly back to normal: restaurants, museums, families and couples and friends arm-in-arm wherever we went… so hopeful and joyous.

So yes, that’s where I’ve been recently, and I’ll update you on a few other things around here shortly!

If I had known we still wouldn’t have any frost in the forecast, we might not have planned a trip to Québec tomorrow. Bu...
08/10/2021

If I had known we still wouldn’t have any frost in the forecast, we might not have planned a trip to Québec tomorrow. But here we are, and I’m really glad we didn’t know. It’s a slow shutdown rather than a grand finale, this year. There’s not much left in the field, and I’m finally ready to let it go.

Everything will be looked after while we’re away, and then there are three major jobs left: finish cleanup, dig dahlias, and plant a thousand peonies. And THEN we rest!!

*waterlily dahlia “Apricot Desire”

We are very nearly at the end of our season, and I owe you a huge thank-you for your turnout at our bouquet sale this we...
28/09/2021

We are very nearly at the end of our season, and I owe you a huge thank-you for your turnout at our bouquet sale this weekend. 😭 What a way to finish off… ahh, it meant so much!!

What struck me most was how many of you have connected here through instagram. THANK YOU for your encouragement. Honestly, this is my favourite part and even though our field is almost finished, we have lots of photos to keep posting throughout the fall and winter.

Each person who came this weekend made me feel extra validated, supported and excited for whatever’s ahead for our little flower farm. I appreciate you all so very, very much and I hope you loved your flowers!!

I choose my vote today not for fear, but for what we can create: health and life, innovation, support for one another an...
20/09/2021

I choose my vote today not for fear, but for what we can create: health and life, innovation, support for one another and our beautiful world, and the hope that we can continue to find common ground with all the different perspectives we bring.

Whatever today brings, may we choose to walk forward together in diversity, rather than polarizing. I hope—I believe—we can do it. Because *that* is what truly makes us Canada.

‘HOORAY, IT’S FALL’ BOUQUET SALE // one week from tomorrow! I’ll post details here once I have them, but for now: if you...
17/09/2021

‘HOORAY, IT’S FALL’ BOUQUET SALE // one week from tomorrow!

I’ll post details here once I have them, but for now: if you’ve been waiting, thank you!!!—and please save next Saturday or Sunday morning (25/26th) for a lovely drive out to the farm!

I just had a little cry in Stories because as much as I look forward to frost and rest, letting go is really hard. 😭
17/09/2021

I just had a little cry in Stories because as much as I look forward to frost and rest, letting go is really hard. 😭

We recreated our photo from two years ago: when I promised they could destroy the flowers if I could please just take a ...
14/09/2021

We recreated our photo from two years ago: when I promised they could destroy the flowers if I could please just take a few photos first! 🤣🤞

BACK TO SCHOOL 🚀 looks a little different for us this year! Whatever you’re doing tomorrow, I hope it’s a good, fresh, h...
06/09/2021

BACK TO SCHOOL 🚀 looks a little different for us this year! Whatever you’re doing tomorrow, I hope it’s a good, fresh, hopeful new start.

As we head into a new season, let us walk with a quiet confidence…making the best decisions we know, finding the good in...
05/09/2021

As we head into a new season, let us walk with a quiet confidence…

making the best decisions we know, finding the good in each other…

knowing that true freedom is of the heart, laying down ‘our rights’ with compassion…

and trusting that we don’t walk alone in these crazy days. Sometimes the mess has to get a little worse before it gets better, right?

Maybe I’m too much of an optimist, but I can’t shake this feeling that we’re really, truly, on our way toward the light—if we can keep our minds receptive and our hearts open.

(… that is the epitome of confidence to me: being unafraid to weigh an opposing viewpoint thoroughly, even if it changes me, knowing love and truth will always steer straight.)

I couldn’t resist pulling out this order for a quick snap. These are the ingredients for ’s subscription bouquets, but m...
03/09/2021

I couldn’t resist pulling out this order for a quick snap. These are the ingredients for ’s subscription bouquets, but maybe we should start a colour-block bridal bouquet trend?!

I’ll post the varieties to Stories for those who like to know!



📷 by my nine-year-old who gamely stands and clicks the shutter wherever I direct him
;)

This is ONE STEM of lisianthus. We started this from an itty bitty seed all the way back in January. Honestly it didn’t ...
01/09/2021

This is ONE STEM of lisianthus.

We started this from an itty bitty seed all the way back in January. Honestly it didn’t even seem possible, but eight months later, here we are. 🤯

I know today’s not finished, but it feels safe to say we made it through August. 🙌🙏 This is my first year having success...
31/08/2021

I know today’s not finished, but it feels safe to say we made it through August. 🙌🙏

This is my first year having success with tweedia. It is so sweet for that “something blue” in bridal bouquets!

I have to admit he wore it better. 🤣☺️
27/08/2021

I have to admit he wore it better. 🤣☺️

26/08/2021

I want to give you a quick window into the floral world since we haven’t been able to make bouquets for you lately.

Most of the weddings that got postponed over the last 18 months are finally happening now. And the florists & vendors, who revised and re-planned all those weddings, are now triple-booked to fit everyone in.

That would have been fine since most of those were small, intimate weddings (eg. one bouquet & boutonnière)…

BUT with things opening up, most of those weddings have expanded to “five bouquets, ten centerpieces and a floral arch,” or something like that.

Multiply that for triple-booked weddings across the globe… and all our florists are absolutely swamped with crazy workloads AND flower shortages/cancellations. They’re telling me about long lines and empty coolers at the wholesalers.

So, that’s where all our flowers are going right now, to help fill the gap for all these couples who are *finally* able to have the wedding they’ve looked forward to for so long.

The wrinkles will smooth out eventually but for right now, that’s what we’re focusing on. Our team has worked SO hard this season and we’ve been able to fill every single order, which is an amazing feeling, but I really feel for all the vendors trying to make it happen with limited resources. Whew.

We have lots of dreams & plans in the works, but for now, this our reality and I’m really glad you’re here, whether or not we have fresh flowers for you! This really is the ‘long game’ and I look forward to what’s ahead once we emerge from these crazy days.

Thanks for this beautiful drone footage!

All the boys are out of the house and I’m scrolling through photos of last night. We had an impromptu ‘cut your own’ wit...
21/08/2021

All the boys are out of the house and I’m scrolling through photos of last night. We had an impromptu ‘cut your own’ with the aunts & girl cousins on my mom’s side, and it was wonderful. 😭 My mom brought pies, some brought babies, everyone brought a vase & clippers, and it was SO GOOD to catch up with family we haven’t seen in 18 months.

Dennis & I are supporting whatever is needed in order to get back to life like this. Ahh, we have missed this so much!

Once again, thanks to all of you who are waiting for message replies. I know you’re eager for flowers and I appreciate you being here. We can’t open up for pick-your-own on this farm (other than family), but it definitely is in the back of my mind as an option for our new place. Hmm!!

Early in the season, we pinched out the main growing tip on each strawflower plant. Rather than growing one fat stem, th...
20/08/2021

Early in the season, we pinched out the main growing tip on each strawflower plant. Rather than growing one fat stem, this caused it to push out lots of long side branches.

We’ve now cut all those stems hard (nearly down to the ground), and the plants are responding by sending up even more for another flush.

It won’t quit till frost, and neither shall we. 🌸

It’s so hot that we’re drinking iced capps in the shade every day, and we finally started irrigating again. Most of the ...
19/08/2021

It’s so hot that we’re drinking iced capps in the shade every day, and we finally started irrigating again. Most of the early-season flowers have gone dormant, but I’m so happy to see the dahlias taking off after last year’s abysmal bloom failure. Now if only the groundhogs would stop chowing them down!!

Look at our little field!! My uncle  took this at sundown, which disguises the colour next to the forest, but it’s so sa...
14/08/2021

Look at our little field!! My uncle took this at sundown, which disguises the colour next to the forest, but it’s so satisfying to see all those neat little rows. 😁

I can just barely see us way down there!

This is the same Uncle Jeff who printed our trailer logo through his other business 🙌

I know this is my account, but I hope you feel that it’s really about you, too. I think about the things we have in comm...
13/08/2021

I know this is my account, but I hope you feel that it’s really about you, too.

I think about the things we have in common a lot more than the things that could divide us.

I think about the goodness and beauty in the world and how it’s in you, too.

I think about the challenges of this past year, how we’re all doing the best we know how to do—sometimes failing, as my farming experiments prove! but always with the best intentions. I can see that in you, just like I hope you see that in me.

I’m growing flowers mostly for you, actually, right here in social media land. Partly because that’s the only way sometimes these days, but also because it feels like it matters somehow, you know?

Anyway, all that was to say I’m thinking of you, part individually and partly as a community of flower lovers who care deeply about all sorts of things in life.

Maybe that’s why we love flowers so much, because they connect us at a level deeper than words.

Hi from my sweet little cooler that is my second home these days!!

📷

12/08/2021

How’re you doing over there? 💕 Right around now, flower farmers everywhere are feeling the “whew” of a long season, which is such a parallel to life these days.

It would be so much easier if we had an end date. It’s hard to run a marathon when you have no idea where the finish line is.

(Bad analogy for me—I am most definitely not a runner!)

Our field does have an end date: Frost. Last year it came in the middle of September, but other years it holds off until late October. Either would be fine, but it would be really nice to know in advance!

Of course, we can’t know. And so we continue getting out of bed each morning, looking upward,

celebrating milestones in whatever ways we can, and trusting we’re on the path to finishing strong—whenever that may be.

‘Scabiosa stellata’ seed pods pictured here, holding each other up. 🌟

These foggy mornings are wet, but beautiful. I can just make out Michelle cutting globe thistle way in the back, with me...
28/07/2021

These foggy mornings are wet, but beautiful. I can just make out Michelle cutting globe thistle way in the back, with me hidden behind the sweet peas beyond.

Thanks for capturing this early-morning view for us!

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