21/04/2024
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If you read anything or share anything today, then please make it this. It is NOT OK to ignore disabilities! They have as much of a place in this world as the rest of us! Teach children from a young age of disabilities to help them understand and then they will also accept those disabilities from a young age too and include them all 🫶
I wasn't going to post this, but today it made me quite emotional and I actually had a few tears roll down my cheeks. Now I'm used to this kind of thing happening, but it still hurts!
On entering the car park, 2 little children pointed to Louie in his wheelchair and said "oh look that little boys legs are broken" they were young, it was innocent and I just smiled as their adult carried on walking past us not saying anything.
Then as we walked around we said hello to a family with children who asked if they could stroke the dogs...we said yes, and then the little girl noticed Louie and walked up to him, got down to his level and said "hello" not going to lie, I felt like I needed to pick my heart up from every inch of the park! Louies little face lit up and he smiled, waved and said hello back. I thanked the little girl for her kind actions and told her parents they should be proud.
Now this is the hard part...
2 more children came along, again staring at Louie and loudly announcing that he's in a wheelchair, then again loudly asking "what's wrong with him mummy?" Louie by now is smiling and waving at them. Now this is what NOT to do!! I never mind children been inquisitive, it's innocent, they are young, and they are asking for a reason. As a parent, a carer, a teacher etc YOU at the very least should show them how to react, be polite, just say hello if you don't know what to say. I'm not expecting you to know his condition BUT do NOT tell them to shhhhh, do NOT tell them to ignore him and do NOT drag them away! That little boy is my world and what you have just done is soul destroying to me! How will children learn about inclusion and acceptance with adults like that!
How I held it together I'll never know, I was biting my tongue as tears rolled down my cheeks!
Just please, please educate yourselves then you can educate your children. The very least you can do is smile, but a wave or hello doesn't cost a thing either, and you could be making that childs day and his mamas too! Don't feel awkward, I for one encourage the questions, how else will our children learn, but whatever you do, I beg you please do not ignore them, they do have feelings and so do their parents!