16/12/2025
😞 Not a post I wanted to write this morning, but sadly I feel it’s something I need to address. First off, I want to apologise to each and every one of you wonderful people who rocked up to the Spindle last night and witnessed the debacle towards the end when I paused the game to challenge someone who repeatedly and aggressively kept calling me out for ‘cheating’.
For context, a few of my family and friends were there yesterday (as they are most months), and as luck would have it, their table happened to be on a winning streak. That’s just the way the cookie crumbles in music bingo, you can never predict who is going to win. In my opinion, if someone is paying to play, it doesn’t matter who they are and what connection they are to me, it’s a game of chance. I regularly have about thirty close friends rocking up to support me, they love me and want to spend time with me. The order of the songs on the bingos are scrambled, and the playlist for each game is randomised just before I start it, I cannot force a win. Each card has a unique number on it, the computer decides who wins, NOT me. I go out of my way to be as transparent as possible, I do not distribute the cards, I do not handle any money. If someone wants me to show them how the software works, all they have to do is ask. Last night my reputation and integrity was put on the line and to say I’m upset is an understatement.
I have decided not to book any dates at the Spindle for 2026 yet, and will instead focus on trying to fight my Stage 4 cancer, which returned in September. We are not entirely sure the new chemo mix is working yet (I still have three sessions still to go), so I am sure you will understand that’s it’s probably for the best that I focus on that instead. If all goes well, and they manage to get my cancer stable again, I hope I can come back stronger and wiser in the spring!
In the meantime, thank you to everyone who has enjoyed and participated in any of my music bingos or quizzes this year, it’s been an absolute pleasure hosting for you. They bring me so much joy and purpose. Oh and many congratulations to Lizzie who won the £600 jackpot last night, she must have been thrilled, what an amazing early Christmas present that must have been for her!
🎄Have a wonderful Christmas everyone!