04/05/2026
Recording your funeral wishes is one of the most thoughtful things you can do for your friends and family, giving them the freedom to celebrate your life instead of the stress and uncertainty of planning around your death without your input. Knowing that your funeral plans will be honoured when the time comes can also give peace of mind and be incredibly empowering.
'These Are My Wishes' aims to support individuals to start important discussions with loved ones and encourage more open conversations around death and our wishes after we die.
Our online form enables and encourages people at any stage of their life to record practical decisions about what they would like to happen after they die.
It’s designed to help you make your wishes known, easing the burden on your loved ones, and ensuring that your life is celebrated in the way you want it to be.
This week, we join communities across Scotland in observing Demystifying Death Week, an initiative by Good Life, Good Death, Good Grief which aims to encourage open conversations about death, dying, and bereavement, helping individuals feel more prepared and supported during these challenging times.
It's an opportunity to reflect on how we can best support each other through serious illness, death, and grief, and to consider the importance of planning ahead. By fostering open discussions, we can reduce the discomfort and uncertainty often associated with end-of-life matters.
Share your wishes and make a difference. Humanist Society Scotland's online form is free to access and will guide you through some questions, prompting you to create a plan that makes your wishes clear, and when you’ve finished completing the form, you can submit it and will be able to download a PDF copy of your answers that you can share with your solicitor and next of kin. Find it on Humanist Society Scotland's website or message me for the link.
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