Victoria Storah Weddings & Events

18/11/2025

8 years married 🤍

Today, I’m taking a moment to celebrate our love story. Eight years ago, I said “yes” to my best friend, my partner, my biggest supporter.

As a wedding planner, I get to witness countless couples begin their journeys together. But being married myself reminds me that the best bits happen long after the wedding day - the laughter, the comfort, the everyday moments that quietly mean the most.

To my husband: the best husband, and the very best daddy to our little boy. Thank you for the love, the steadiness, and the little moments that matter most. Here’s to many more years of love, laughter, and adventures together!

To the couples I plan for, and to those who are engaged: remember that the little moments in your marriage can be just as meaningful as the big ones; your love story is yours to celebrate, both on your wedding day and beyond.
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16/11/2025

2026/2027 brides, this could be you!

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13/11/2025

Let’s clear up a common wedding myth…

No, suppliers don’t increase their prices just because you say the word wedding.

Pricing reflects years of experience, staffing, insurance, logistics, design expertise, emotional support, detailed coordination, early starts, late finishes, contingency planning - and delivering a once in a lifetime event with no second chances.

As a wedding planner, I help my clients:

• invest in the things that matter
• save where it actually makes sense
• choose suppliers they can trust
• ensure every detail runs smoothly
• feel supported, not stressed
• build a day that feels as good as it looks

Weddings are an investment, but with the right support you can feel in control, calm, and excited for your wedding day!

I’m Victoria, I plan flawless and stress-free weddings that feel as good as they look in Yorkshire, Derbyshire, Cheshire and surrounds. Follow me for more wedding planning tips and inspo!
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11/11/2025

Planning your timeline? This is one to keep in mind

Add 30 minutes to key parts of the day and aim to be ready 5 minutes before every big moment

The 30-5 minute rule helps you stay one step ahead - whether it’s getting ready, the ceremony, or the drinks reception. A little buffer goes a long way towards a smoother, more relaxed day.

If you’d prefer not to manage your timeline yourself, I’d love to help. As a professional wedding planner, I create clear, detailed timelines (with all the right buffers) which is shared with your full supplier team - making sure everything flows beautifully.

It’s all part of creating a seamless experience from start to finish, so you can truly enjoy your day without the stress.

If you would like to find out how I can support your wedding planning journey, get in touch via my website or DM to book a complimentary consultation call 🤍

I’m Victoria, I plan flawless and stress-free weddings that feel as good as they look in Yorkshire, Derbyshire, Cheshire and surrounds. Follow me for more wedding planning tips and inspo!
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09/11/2025

Want to save on your wedding without it showing?

Here are 5 smart ways my clients have saved money, without compromise:

1. Repurposed flowers – Ceremony flowers became beautiful centrepieces and statement displays later in the day. Moving arrangements between spaces means your florist’s work is seen (and appreciated!) all day long.

2. Focused on what mattered most – Instead of trying to have everything, they prioritised the few details that really meant something to them, whether that was incredible food, live music, or stunning floral arrangements.

3. Optimised the guest experience – Instead of reducing numbers, they focused on getting the most value for everyone attending. Thoughtful menu choices, smart bar options, and small thoughtful details made every guest feel special without overspending.

4. Booked multi-skilled suppliers – Think a band who can also DJ, or a photographer who can capture both photos and video. It saves both money and time while keeping the day seamless.

5. Invested in a planner early – It’s not just about spreadsheets and schedules. Having a planner on board from the start helps avoid expensive mistakes, find hidden savings, and make confident decisions.

You don’t have to cut corners to be clever with your budget - it’s about making thoughtful, intentional choices that still feel elevated.

Save this post to come back to when you start planning or share it with a friend who wants a beautiful day without the unnecessary spend.

I’m Victoria, I plan flawless and stress-free weddings that feel as good as they look in Yorkshire, Derbyshire, Cheshire and surrounds. Follow me for more wedding planning tips and inspo!

06/11/2025

Guest list stress? You don’t need to invite everyone!

One of the hardest parts of wedding planning is knowing who to invite to your wedding – and more importantly, who you don’t need to. Remember, this is your day, and your wedding guest list should reflect the people who bring love, joy, and support into your life. Here are 5 types of guests it’s completely ok to leave off your wedding guest list:

1. Plus-ones you don’t know
A common wedding guest list tip: you don’t have to give every guest a plus-one. If you’ve never met them and they won’t add to your day, it’s ok to politely say no.

2. Toxic family members
If someone makes you feel anxious, disrespects your wishes, or has a history of causing tension, it’s absolutely fine not to include them. Protecting your peace is more important.

3. Old colleagues or acquaintances
Just because you once worked together or were close years ago doesn’t mean they need a place on your wedding guest list. Prioritise people who are part of your life now.

4. Distant relatives you’ve lost touch with
If you haven’t spoken in years, don’t feel pressured to invite them. Focus on guests who are truly present in your life today.

5. People invited out of guilt or obligation
Whether it’s a family friend or someone who once invited you to their wedding, you’re not required to reciprocate. Your guest list should reflect your priorities, not other people’s expectations.

The best wedding guest lists are built around love, positivity, and genuine support, not guilt or pressure.

If you’re finding wedding guest list planning overwhelming, send me a message - I’d love to help you create a stress-free wedding day that feels true to you.

I’m Victoria, I plan flawless and stress-free weddings that feel as good as they look in Yorkshire, Derbyshire, Cheshire and surrounds. Follow me for more wedding planning tips and inspo!
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04/11/2025

Engaged and not sure where to start?

You’re definitely not alone - every couple feels that mix of excitement and overwhelm at the beginning. But before you dive into planning, here are a few things I really wish every couple knew first…

1. You don’t have to do what everyone else does.
There’s no rulebook for weddings, only what feels right for you. Choose traditions that mean something, and skip the ones that don’t.

2. Know roughly how many guests you’d like before viewing venues.
Your guest count affects your venue options, budget, and overall vibe. Having a ballpark figure makes those viewings far more productive.

3. Budgets aren’t boring, they’re empowering.
Knowing your numbers gives you control and peace of mind. It’s the key to enjoying the process without constant financial stress.

4. Plan your timeline with intention.
Some things really do need booking early - venues, photographers, and planners especially. Once those key suppliers are in place, you can relax a little and enjoy the rest of the process at your own pace.

5. The venue sets the tone (and often the budget!).
Once you secure your venue, everything else begins to fall into place.

6. Suppliers book up fast, especially the good ones.
If you’ve found someone whose work you love, don’t wait too long to enquire or book to avoid disappointment.

7. You don’t need to know everything before you start.
No couple does! The process is meant to be a learning curve, that’s part of the fun. Surround yourself with trusted experts who can guide you.

8. It’s your day - your opinions matter most.
Everyone will have advice, but your wedding should reflect you. Be kind but confident in your decisions.

9. Perfection isn’t the goal, presence is.
Things might not go exactly to plan, but when you’re surrounded by love, none of that will matter. Focus on the moments, not the minutiae.

10. A planner isn’t a luxury, they’re your calm in the chaos.
A good wedding planner saves you time, money, stress and sleepless nights, helping you enjoy the lead-up and the day itself.

Wedding planning should feel exciting, not overwhelming. Save this post for later and share it with someone newly engaged 💍

02/11/2025

Before you book your venue ask these questions…

Your venue is one of the biggest wedding decisions you’ll make, so it’s worth going into your first visit feeling prepared. These questions will help you get the clarity you need before signing on the dotted line:

1. Is our preferred date available?

2. How many guests can the space hold comfortably?

3. What’s included in the hire fee?

4. Do you have different options for ceremony + reception spaces?

5. What time can we access the venue on the day, and is access available the day before for setup?

6. What time do we need to finish by?

7. Are there any restrictions on styling or décor we should know about?

8. Is catering in-house or can we bring our own?

9. Can we bring our own suppliers (e.g. florist, stylist)?

10. Do you have a recommended supplier list?

11. Is there accommodation on-site or nearby?

12. What parking or transport options are available?

13. Do you have a backup plan for bad weather?

14. Are there any noise restrictions or sound limits?

15. What are your bar and drinks package options?

16. When would deposits + final payments be due?

17. Is the venue offered on an exclusive-use basis?

18. Do you work alongside independent wedding planners? (This is especially important if you know you’d like to hire your own planner, as some venues prefer couples to use their in-house coordinator. Clarifying this early on avoids any surprises and ensures your chosen planner can support you fully on the day.)

Asking the right questions means fewer surprises and a smoother planning journey.

Save this post for your venue visits so you’ve got the list ready to go!

And if you’d love expert help with venue visits and wedding planning, my DMs are always open!
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30/10/2025

28/10/2025

When venue ‘bonuses’ become limitations…

Venues love to add enticing bonuses to their packages, but when you dig deeper, some perks can actually restrict your style, flexibility, and how supported you feel.

Here are 5 common venue bonuses that aren’t always the win they appear to be:

1. Set catering packages with upgrades attached
A beautifully presented menu sounds ideal…until every tiny change incurs an extra charge. If you want a personalised culinary experience, rigid packages can quickly escalate costs.

2. Exclusive supplier contracts
Not just a recommendation list, a requirement. This can prevent you from hiring the floral designer whose work you adore or the entertainment that truly reflects your vibe.

3. “Inclusive” décor options
Centrepieces, signage, candles - great on paper, but often generic or overused. Couples usually end up bringing in custom details anyway, making the “inclusion” feel redundant.

4. Short hire/access periods
Half-day access or rushed turnover days put huge pressure on you and your suppliers. Great design takes time, and time should never be treated as a bonus.

5. On-site coordination framed as planning support
A venue coordinator is invaluable for venue logistics, but their responsibility is to the venue’s operations. A freelance planner (like me ✋) is there purely to protect your vision, manage your full supplier team, and prioritise your experience from start to finish.

Luxury is about freedom, not limitation. Before you sign, ask the right questions and make sure the features you’re falling in love with actually support the day you’re dreaming of.

👇 Which perk would you say “no thanks” to straight away? Let’s me know in the comments!

I’m Victoria, I plan flawless and stress-free weddings that feel as good as they look in Yorkshire, Derbyshire, Cheshire and surrounds. Follow me for more wedding planning tips and inspo!

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26/10/2025

Want to know the truth about your wedding day?

Here are 7 things I’d really tell you as your luxury wedding planner:

1. You can’t do it all yourself
Even with a spreadsheet and good intentions, it’s impossible to also be the bride/groom and the coordinator.

2. Pinterest isn’t a blueprint
It’s inspiration, not instruction. Your day should feel like you, not a collage of other people’s weddings.

3. If you don’t trust your suppliers, you’ll never relax
Choose people whose work and energy you love, then let them do their thing.

4. Details only matter if the experience does
Guests remember how your day felt - not the exact shade of your napkins.

5. Running late ruins more than the timeline
It adds stress you don’t need and steals time from the moments you’ll actually remember.

6. Your guests take their cues from you
If you’re calm, happy and present, they will be too.

7. You deserve to enjoy every second
You only get one wedding day - don’t manage it, experience it!

If you don’t want to spend your wedding day feeling stressed, pulled in every direction, or glued to a timeline, that’s exactly where a planner steps in. I take care of the logistics, so you can focus on soaking up every beautiful, joy-filled moment.

If this hit home, send me a message - I’d love to help you plan a day that feels effortless and unforgettable.
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23/10/2025

Here are 6 common seating mistakes that can totally throw things off, and how to avoid them. Of course, my couples get it right with a little expert guidance from me!

1. Phones out = moments missed

I get it - everyone wants that perfect shot. But phones in the aisle or held up mid-kiss ruin the photos and distract from the moment. Encourage an unplugged ceremony (either via signage or asking your celebrant/registrar to mention it or both!) so guests can be present, and your photographer can capture clean, beautiful shots.

2. Empty front rows = awkward energy

It might feel polite to sit further back, but those front row gaps look empty and disconnect guests from the moment. Ask your groomsmen to guide people to fill from the front - it creates a more intimate and balanced look for your photos.

3. Reserved signs are there for a reason

Make sure guests know which seats are saved for VIPs - and that those signs are clear. There’s nothing worse than a parent or grandparent left standing because someone didn’t realise the seat was reserved.

4. Splitting groups

Weddings are emotional and people want to share the moment with loved ones. Keeping families and friends seated together helps create warmth, laughter, and connection throughout the ceremony.

5. Late arrivals sneaking in

Few things distract more than guests shuffling in as the music starts. A gentle reminder on your invites or signage to arrive early makes a world of difference (and keeps your aisle walk stress-free!).

6. Accessibility forgotten

If anyone uses a wheelchair or has a pram, make sure they’re seated comfortably at the end of a row or with easy access. A little planning goes a long way in making everyone feel included and at ease.

Get the seating right, and you’ll set the tone for a beautiful, connected ceremony with stunning photos to match.

Which of these have you seen at a wedding before? Let me know below!

I’m Victoria, I plan flawless and stress-free weddings that feel as good as they look in Yorkshire, Derbyshire, Cheshire and surrounds. Follow me for more wedding planning tips and inspo!