Embrace, by Debs: The Celebrant in the Room

Embrace, by Debs: The Celebrant in the Room Each life tells a story & I encourage you to open up & share some of yours & celebrate it!
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My husband booked me a holiday for my birthday, a week in Menorca. It's my second home and my gift was to go and see my ...
02/02/2025

My husband booked me a holiday for my birthday, a week in Menorca.

It's my second home and my gift was to go and see my parents for some QT.

Managed to pack in some venue visits, some admin stuff, and a trip to the beach.

One of my highlights was joining the folks at Isla Del Rey where they volunteer on Sundays. Gardening, restoring and many hands helping to keep the famous Bloody Island in good enough nick for visitors throughout the year. It's a biosphere reserve and stunning.

So if you're planning a Menorca wedding I encourage you to suggest your guests visit the island, for a tour, lush wine and food, visit to and support the volunteers 🩷



Let's begin! 🩷
30/01/2025

Let's begin! 🩷

A venue is only as good as its staff...Hats off to  for featuring one of THE best team member I've ever had the privileg...
25/01/2025

A venue is only as good as its staff...

Hats off to for featuring one of THE best team member I've ever had the privilege to work with a number of times in last night.

Filippe has been working at the hotel since 1967 🩷

Not only does he know the business inside out, he's one of the nicest humans I've ever met and an absolute privilege to work with. He gets the clients needs and quirks, and has an awesome giggle.

Choose a venue where you click with the staff on the ground, you'll thank me for that advice after your wedding day!

The beginning of the year is always full on with meetings and writing. Which is fab and I 🩷 it.However it makes for real...
19/01/2025

The beginning of the year is always full on with meetings and writing. Which is fab and I 🩷 it.

However it makes for really boring photos for you lot 😂

As it's so busy with both jobs, it's really important to remember to step outside so here are some pics from outside spaces.

My new year's resolution is to be mindful of self care and not forgetting about myself. Leaving the office on time, working in bite sized chunks and getting fresh air and exercise.

Hope your resolutions are still standing strong!


When you book me as your celebrant, you don’t just get me; you get direct, instant access to my personal number via a sh...
10/01/2025

When you book me as your celebrant, you don’t just get me; you get direct, instant access to my personal number via a shiny new wedding group chat! 🥳

Because planning your big day is important, and I want to be there for the “OMG, can we add a unity shot of tequila?” moments and the “What time should Gran arrive for the confetti line?” questions.

But let’s be real for a sec… this isn’t your only wedding WhatsApp group, is it? ... What else is going on?!

💬 The OG Squad Chat: Your mates scheming hen/stag do shenanigans, probably with a side of inappropriate memes.
💬 Family Feud HQ: Where Aunt Karen and Mum are debating napkins like world peace depends on it.
💬 The Wedding Dream Team: A mildly chaotic mix of suppliers trying to figure out table setups and timelines.
💬 The Secret Secret Chat: That one your besties made to keep you from stressing about the things you don’t need to know (like Uncle Bob’s allergy to lilies).

It’s chat-central out here, isn’t it? But here’s the deal: My group chat is different. It’s fun, stress-free, and all about YOU. Need to vent? I’m here. Got a last-minute idea? Let’s make it happen. 💛

How many wedding group chats are YOU in right now?

Quick Group Chat Etiquette Reminder:
✔️ Swearing? Fine by me – this is a safe space for all your colourful vocab!
✔️ Urgent? Drop me a message anytime, but remember I also work a 9-5, walk the dog, and occasionally sleep. 🐾😴
✔️ Chat limit? Nah, there’s no such thing as TMI when it comes to your wedding plans – I love it all!

Last week, I traveled to Manchester to visit someone very special to me. I dsadly knew how significant the trip would be...
06/01/2025

Last week, I traveled to Manchester to visit someone very special to me. I d
sadly knew how significant the trip would become. Over the days, we shared stories, laughter, and tears, and together, we even began shaping a ceremony that will honour her life. It’s a privilege I will carry with me forever.

Life doesn’t always follow our plans, and sometimes it feels like everything happens all at once. I’ve been reminded of the importance of pausing, breathing, and embracing the moments that matter most.

This pretty little rainbow today felt like a little nudge to keep going—one step at a time.

Thank you to everyone who’s shown patience, kindness, and understanding. It means the world. 💛 I'm now back online and catching my tail 😊

Oh isn't heartbreak such a high price for love? 💔Although I have deep sorrow of having experienced  this week, I must sh...
03/01/2025

Oh isn't heartbreak such a high price for love? 💔

Although I have deep sorrow of having experienced this week, I must share how amazing they are.

From the moment they took care of S, they took the pressure and burden off of the shoulders of her loved ones.

They supported her with humour, dignity and compassion.

They made the experience of losing a loved one peaceful, calm and... well... as nice as it can be.

A BIG thank you to the team for looking after mumma and her cubs, you will always be appreciated.

(and fussing over the doggos!)

And yes... This booze trolley was from the hospice rounds, that meant people were not denied simple pleasures. (Yes there was a tea trolley, but who needs a picture of that 🤣)

Thank you all, you're wonderful 🩷

(PS to all, if I've not replied to your messages or emails, give me a few days please 😊)

Newly engaged? First of all, CONGRATULATIONS! 🥂You’re stepping into an amazing new chapter—and let me give you the great...
01/01/2025

Newly engaged? First of all, CONGRATULATIONS! 🥂

You’re stepping into an amazing new chapter—and let me give you the greatest piece of advice you’ll hear this year (and it’s only January 1st):

Take a breath. Enjoy this moment. Celebrate the deepening of your relationship before diving headfirst into wedding planning. This is your time to soak up the joy, the excitement, and yes, even the slightly awkward “show us the ring!” requests from every relative you’ve ever met.

Take stock of what makes you...well, you. What you love about each other, your quirks, your favorite snacks, your shared playlists, the fact that one of you always forgets to put the bins out. Those are the things that make your relationship unique. Hold onto them as you plan this new adventure.

Because while there’s a LOT to think about (venues! guests! cake! centerpieces! cake again!) the most important thing is this: Don’t lose sight of who you are, together and apart.

And if you need a celebrant who’ll keep you grounded, make you laugh, and remind you that your love story is the star of the show— well *cough cough* hellooooooo!

Enjoy! And if you want a copy of my "what next" document for perusal just let me know

Dx 💖

Merry Christmas from my heart to yours! 🎄Today’s all about love, connection, and celebration—the very same things I get ...
25/12/2024

Merry Christmas from my heart to yours! 🎄

Today’s all about love, connection, and celebration—the very same things I get to witness and celebrate as a celebrant. Whether you’re with family, friends, or having a quieter day, I hope it’s been a day filled with laughter, warmth, and a little festive magic.

This year has been incredible, filled with amazing couples, unforgettable ceremonies, and so much love. I’m so grateful for every single person who’s trusted me to be part of their special day—and I can’t wait to see what 2025 brings!

For now, I’m soaking up all the Christmas joy, (fizz) overindulging in cheese, and spending time with the people I love most over the next two days.

From me and my family to you and yours: Merry Christmas, and here’s to all the love in the world! ❤️

Christmas Eve... the night before magic happens. 🎄There’s a special kind of excitement in the air tonight—the kind that ...
24/12/2024

Christmas Eve... the night before magic happens. 🎄

There’s a special kind of excitement in the air tonight—the kind that reminds me of the night before a wedding.

That feeling of:
✨ Anticipation for what’s to come.
✨ Joy in celebrating with loved ones.
✨ The quiet, heartwarming moments of reflection before the big day.

Just like Christmas, a wedding is a celebration of love, hope, and togetherness—and I love being part of that magic.

And some of you have NO idea that you're about to start your own wedding journey!

Christmas and New Year are two of the most popular times of the year to get engaged! So don't snoop under the tree just in case you ruin a big surprise!

Wishing you all a Christmas Eve filled with love and joy, whether you are a more “silent night” vibe person or “party till midnight” tonight kinda human.


Tonight's night’s Irish gig got me thinking... ☘️There’s something magical about music bringing people together, isn’t t...
22/12/2024

Tonight's
night’s Irish gig got me thinking... ☘️

There’s something magical about music bringing people together, isn’t there? The laughter, the foot-tapping, the shared moments—it’s a perfect reminder of what makes a wedding so special.

Whether it’s:
🎶 A rousing sing-along to your favorite folk tune,
🎵 A live band that gets everyone on their feet, or
🎼 A carefully chosen song for your first dance,

Music is the heartbeat of a celebration, just like love is the heartbeat of a marriage.

As your celebrant, I’ll help weave those joyful, toe-tapping vibes into your ceremony, ensuring it’s as lively, heartfelt, or unique as you are.

The Solstice is a reminder of hope, renewal, and the promise of brighter days ahead—much like the commitments made in a ...
22/12/2024

The Solstice is a reminder of hope, renewal, and the promise of brighter days ahead—much like the commitments made in a wedding ceremony.

✨ Standing together through life’s seasons, dark and light.
✨ Nurturing each other’s growth and joy.
✨ Creating a future filled with love, hope, and shared dreams.

Moments like these remind us of the beauty of connection, whether in a ceremony or in everyday life.

As a celebrant, it’s my honor to craft ceremonies that reflect your journey—filled with the same light and love the Solstice symbolizes.

21/12/2024

Ever considered how the winter can inspire your ceremony:
✨ Candles and Lanterns: Representing the light you bring to each other’s lives.
✨ Seasonal Vows: Reflecting themes of growth, renewal, and everlasting love.
✨ Nature-Inspired Decor: Think evergreens, mistletoe, or even a starry-night theme.
✨ Cozy Atmosphere: Celebrate with loved ones in an intimate, magical setting.

A Winter wedding is perfect for couples who want a deeply meaningful ceremony filled with warmth, love, and a nod to nature’s beauty.

See you next year for it yeah? 😉

Personal Vows = Personal Magic 💕The moment you share your vows is pure magic—it’s where the tears, laughter, and connect...
18/12/2024

Personal Vows = Personal Magic 💕

The moment you share your vows is pure magic—it’s where the tears, laughter, and connection really hit home. But let’s be honest: writing those vows can feel daunting.

That’s where I come in. As your celebrant, I’ll guide you:
✨ Where to start
✨ How to make your words meaningful and manageable
✨ How to deliver them with confidence

You don’t have to be a poet. You just have to be you. And I’ll be there to help you every step of the way.

💌 Are you team personal vows or team traditional?

Why I Love Being a Celebrant 💖Every ceremony I create is like writing a love story—and I’ll never get tired of it.✨ I lo...
17/12/2024

Why I Love Being a Celebrant 💖

Every ceremony I create is like writing a love story—and I’ll never get tired of it.

✨ I love hearing your stories: how you met, what makes you laugh, and the quirks that make you you.
✨ I love weaving those moments into a ceremony that’s heartfelt, joyful, and unforgettable.
✨ I love standing beside you as you say, “I do,” knowing the words we’ve crafted together will stay with you forever.

Being shortlisted for the Wedding Industry Awards and the Kent Wedding Awards, and winning the Hitched Wedding Awards is the cherry on top of a job that already feels like a dream.

Thank you to all the couples who’ve trusted me to be part of their day—you’re the reason I do this. 🩷



💌 Ready to create your own unforgettable ceremony? Let’s chat—I’d love to bring your story to life!

“Can we really do that at our wedding?”The answer is almost always: YES! 🙌Your wedding is a reflection of you. Whether y...
17/12/2024

“Can we really do that at our wedding?”
The answer is almost always: YES! 🙌

Your wedding is a reflection of you. Whether you want to walk down the aisle to heavy metal, include your dog as ring bearer, or skip traditions altogether, I’m here for it.

As a celebrant, I help create a ceremony that feels true to who you are—whatever that looks like!

“untraditional” ideas? Go for it 😁

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