Some people are surprised by my work and ask how I can do it. Of course I feel sadness for the family and friends that are bereaved, but the overwhelming emotion I feel when talking to them is their love and respect for their person. And that is beautiful.
I haven’t posted a reading recently, so here’s a lovely poem by EE Cummings. It’s called: I carry your heart with me (I carry it in my) Do you like it? Would you use it? ❤️🩵🧡💚 #melabrant #wiltshirecelebrant #salisburycelebrant #celebrantledceremony #celebrant #weddingideas #poetry #spokenwordpoetry
Did you know this? #CelebrationOfLife #funeralchoices #melabrant #salisburycelebrant #celebrantledceremony #celebrant #funeral #wiltshirecelebrant
Meanderings. Let me know your thoughts on this.
The F bomb was dropped by myself and Lily Allen in a ceremony. They suited the family and the deceased. I’m all for it, when it suits the mood and feelings. Thoughts on this? #melabrant #celebrantledceremony #funeralchoices #celebrationoflife #salisburycelebrant #funeral
A celebration of life today, followed by a committal at a beautiful and serene woodland burial ground. #melabrant #celebrantledceremony #funeralchoices #celebrant #celebrationoflife
Today is Thank you day and I’m sending out a big thanks to all the Funeral Directors and their teams that I work with. I have seen their dedication. I have seen their care. An extraordinary group of people that I am proud to call colleagues and friends.
The vast majority of funeral work I do is cremations. There are burials every now and then and I do natural burials as well. Why do you think this is? Is it the expense? (Burials can actually be cheaper than cremations) Is it the space? (Council cemeteries are filling up, but natural burial grounds are increasing) Is it the upkeep? Let me know your thoughts on what you would prefer and why. #funeralchoices #funeral #celebrant #melabrant #celebrantledceremony #celebrationoflife #salisburycelebrant #wiltshirecelebrant
Just giving a gentle nudge to do this…#askthequestion #lifestory #whatdidyoudo #familyquestions #melabrant #wiltshirecelebrant #ilovemyjob #walkingthedog #celebrantledceremony #funeralcelebrant #celebrationoflife #salisbury
So, it seems dog walks are when I process my day…#peoplearegood #melabrant #wiltshirecelebrant #funeralcelebrant #ilovemyjob #walkingthedog
Today’s ceremony. How should I take this?!?! 😂
I learn a lot when I talk to families about their person. Little gems of wisdom are bestowed upon me. The most important thing I’ve learned is not to waste time. What do you think about the views of this person? I’m the same and have been for a few years now and my life feels much better as the result of it. Maybe I’m wrong. What do you think? #melabrant #wiltshirecelebrant #celebrantledceremony #funeralcelebrant #dontwastetime #thisisnotarehearsal #behappy #banishnegativity
A funeral poem that you may be familiar with. ‘Do Not Stand at my Grave and Weep’ is a classic and beautiful poem that tells us that death is not the end. The soul, spirit and character of your lost loved one can still be felt in the world. #funeral #melabrant #wiltshirecelebrant #salisburycelebrant #funeralcelebrant #independentcelebrant #celebrationoflife #celebrantledceremony
Today I am reading a Buddhist funeral poem that I think is rather beautiful. It is called ‘Oneness’ and is by the poet Thich Nhat Hanh. #funeral #melabrant #wiltshirecelebrant #salisburycelebrant #celebrantledceremony #funeralcelebrant
A fab poem that is suitable for both a wedding or a funeral. Short, simple and to the point. Please forgive the background noise. It’s one of my dogs having a jolly good scratch! 😂💙💜💚
A perfect reading for a vow renewal ceremony. Are you ready to proclaim your love again? Let me create something magical for the occasion. DM or email to arrange a no obligation chat. [email protected] #wiltshirecelebrant #salisburycelebrant #bespokeceremony #celebrantledceremony #melabrant #independentcelebrant #vowrenewal #vowrenewalceremony
The Art of Marriage by Wilferd Peterson (yes, that is the correct spelling!) A good wedding ceremony reading. But do you agree? #salisburycelebrant #wiltshirecelebrant #bespokeceremony #celebrantledceremony #weddingreading #weddingceremony #theartofmarriage
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Many do, but do you?
Do you think talking more openly would lessen the fear of death and the process of funerals?
I'm really interested to know your thoughts. DM me if you prefer not to post publicly.