31/10/2023
❤️ The Love Letter Ceremony ❤️
✉️ Love letters are date back to the 1700’s and were seen as an introduction to courting, whilst men were more forthcoming than women the idea was that once writing to one another courtship had begun and marriage was on the cards.
The love letter ceremony has Icelandic roots and entails the couple writing each other a love letter, below are some ideas to get your creative mind working.
· How you felt when you met.
· Your favourite adventure together.
· How much you have grown from then to now.
· Your feelings as you anticipate your wedding day.
· Your wishes for your future together.
· Your promise to him/her.
The parents or someone with a close relationship to the couple may also write a letter, these can then be sealed into a keepsake box, along with a bottle of wine if so desired. The idea is that the box remains sealed until an agreed date ie.. 1st, 5th,10th,25th wedding anniversary or if the couple face hard times it can be opened as reminder of the reasons they fell in love and decided to marry.
The letters are best written on acid free paper as this will last for longer. The letters and wine if chosen would be placed and sealed in the box as part of the ceremony, this can be with a lock or even nailing the box closed. A decorative box would be a nice keepsake that could be displayed as an ornament as a reminder of the couples special day.