Jill Csehi Celebrant

27/06/2023

13/06/2023

Devastating day for the people of Nottingham. My thoughts are with those affected by todays horrific events

20/05/2023

As a Celebrant in the Community, I am so honoured to be a part of important milestones for people. None more so than to be allowed to celebrate the life of a loved one when they die. Each family I meet share their memories of their loved one and allow me to bring all those memories together into a beautiful Eulogy and Ceremony that really celebrates who they were and what they meant.

29/04/2023

If I get dementia, I’d like my family to hang this wish list up on the wall where I live. I want them to remember these things.
1. If I get dementia, I want my friends and family to embrace my reality.
2. If I think my spouse is still alive, or if I think we’re visiting my parents for dinner, let me believe those things. I’ll be much happier for it.
3. If I get dementia, don’t argue with me about what is true for me versus what is true for you.
4. If I get dementia, and I am not sure who you are, do not take it personally. My timeline is confusing to me.
5. If I get dementia, and can no longer use utensils, do not start feeding me. Instead, switch me to a finger-food diet, and see if I can still feed myself.
6. If I get dementia, and I am sad or anxious, hold my hand and listen. Do not tell me that my feelings are unfounded.
7. If I get dementia, I don’t want to be treated like a child. Talk to me like the adult that I am.
8. If I get dementia, I still want to enjoy the things that I’ve always enjoyed. Help me find a way to exercise, read, and visit with friends.
9. If I get dementia, ask me to tell you a story from my past.
10. If I get dementia, and I become agitated, take the time to figure out what is bothering me.
11. If I get dementia, treat me the way that you would want to be treated.
12. If I get dementia, make sure that there are plenty of snacks for me in the house. Even now if I don’t eat I get angry, and if I have dementia, I may have trouble explaining what I need.
13. If I get dementia, don’t talk about me as if I’m not in the room.
14. If I get dementia, don’t feel guilty if you cannot care for me 24 hours a day, 7 days a week. It’s not your fault, and you’ve done your best. Find someone who can help you, or choose a great new place for me to live.
15. If I get dementia, and I live in a dementia care community, please visit me often.
16. If I get dementia, don’t act frustrated if I mix up names, events, or places. Take a deep breath. It’s not my fault.
17. If I get dementia, make sure I always have my favorite music playing within earshot.
18. If I get dementia, and I like to pick up items and carry them around, help me return those items to their original place.
19. If I get dementia, don’t exclude me from parties and family gatherings.
20. If I get dementia, know that I still like receiving hugs or handshakes.
21. If I get dementia, remember that I am still the person you know and love.”
ᴄᴏᴘʏ ᴀɴᴅ ᴘᴀsᴛᴇ in Honour of someone you know or knew who has dementia. In Honour of all those I know and love and lost who are fighting Dementia/Alzheimer’s.💕💔 xx

13/04/2023

13/04/2023

I offer a free initial meeting to discuss your dreams for your Wedding. Let me help you create the wedding of your dreams #

02/04/2023

02/04/2023

Today was amazing, the Naming Ceremony for two wonderful twin boys who were so well behaved. Highly recommended as a venue, it was beautiful.

01/04/2023

So excited for tomorrow - A Naming Ceremony for twin boys at the amazing Willow Tree Farm. They say never work with children or animals!

13/03/2023

I just think we need to take a moment to read this.
Bruce Willis just learned his illnesses are Frontotemporal Dementia (FTD) and Lewy's bodily Dementia - One of the hardest things to deal with is slow change in the one you love. Become a totally different person Everything changes.
Just so you know... 😢 it's called the long goodbye. The brain shrinks rapidly, that's how one doctor described it. As the patient's brain slowly dies, they physically change and eventually they forget who their loved ones are and become less themselves.
Patients can eventually become crippled, unable to move and unable to eat or drink or talk to their loved ones.
There will be people who will scroll past this post because dementia or Alzheimer's disease hasn't affected them. They may not know what it’s like to have a loved one who battled or is fighting a battle with dementia or Alzheimer’s disease.
In an effort to bring awareness to this cruel disease, I would like to see at least 5 of my friends put this on their timeline.
I'll settle for at least one......💔💔

11/03/2023

Reviews like this make my role as a Celebrant worth while. I am privileged to represent families at the most difficult time of their lives;
'Jill was recommended to us by our funeral director. I can highly recommend her myself now. She is lovely, sympathetic and caring. Everyone got to hear my wife's life story and in a small way get to know her like we (her family) did.'

19/02/2023

I am Dementia Friendly, please include your relatives in any meetings I am involved in.
This so informative. 😘 Alzheimer’s /Dementia
“𝐼𝒻 𝐼 𝑔𝑒𝓉 𝒹𝑒𝓂𝑒𝓃𝓉𝒾𝒶,
I’d like my family to hang this wish list up on the wall where I live. I want them to remember these things
𝐼𝒻 𝐼 𝑔𝑒𝓉 𝒹𝑒𝓂𝑒𝓃𝓉𝒾𝒶, I want my friends and family to embrace my reality. If I think my spouse is still alive, or if I think we’re visiting my parents for dinner, let me believe those things. I’ll be much happier for it.
𝐼𝒻 𝐼 𝑔𝑒𝓉 𝒹𝑒𝓂𝑒𝓃𝓉𝒾𝒶, don’t argue with me about what is true for me versus what is true for you.
𝐼𝒻 𝐼 𝑔𝑒𝓉 𝒹𝑒𝓂𝑒𝓃𝓉𝒾𝒶, and I am not sure who you are, do not take it personally. My timeline is confusing to me.
𝐼𝒻 𝐼 𝑔𝑒𝓉 𝒹𝑒𝓂𝑒𝓃𝓉𝒾𝒶, and can no longer use utensils, do not start feeding me. Instead, switch me to a finger-food diet, and see if I can still feed myself.
𝐼𝒻 𝐼 𝑔𝑒𝓉 𝒹𝑒𝓂𝑒𝓃𝓉𝒾𝒶, and I am sad or anxious, hold my hand and listen. Do not tell me that my feelings are unfounded.
𝐼𝒻 𝐼 𝑔𝑒𝓉 𝒹𝑒𝓂𝑒𝓃𝓉𝒾𝒶, I don’t want to be treated like a child. Talk to me like the adult that I am.
𝐼𝒻 𝐼 𝑔𝑒𝓉 𝒹𝑒𝓂𝑒𝓃𝓉𝒾𝒶, I still want to enjoy the things that I’ve always enjoyed. Help me find a way to exercise, read, and visit with friends.
𝐼𝒻 𝐼 𝑔𝑒𝓉 𝒹𝑒𝓂𝑒𝓃𝓉𝒾𝒶, ask me to tell you a story from my past.
𝐼𝒻 𝐼 𝑔𝑒𝓉 𝒹𝑒𝓂𝑒𝓃𝓉𝒾𝒶, and I become agitated, take the time to figure out what is bothering me.
𝐼𝒻 𝐼 𝑔𝑒𝓉 𝒹𝑒𝓂𝑒𝓃𝓉𝒾𝒶, treat me the way that you would want to be treated.
𝐼𝒻 𝐼 𝑔𝑒𝓉 𝒹𝑒𝓂𝑒𝓃𝓉𝒾𝒶, make sure that there are plenty of snacks for me in the house. Even now if I don’t eat I get angry, and if I have dementia, I may have trouble explaining what I need.
𝐼𝒻 𝐼 𝑔𝑒𝓉 𝒹𝑒𝓂𝑒𝓃𝓉𝒾𝒶, don’t talk about me as if I’m not in the room.
𝐼𝒻 𝐼 𝑔𝑒𝓉 𝒹𝑒𝓂𝑒𝓃𝓉𝒾𝒶, don’t feel guilty if you cannot care for me 24 hours a day, 7 days a week. It’s not your fault, and you’ve done your best. Find someone who can help you, or choose a great new place for me to live.
𝐼𝒻 𝐼 𝑔𝑒𝓉 𝒹𝑒𝓂𝑒𝓃𝓉𝒾𝒶, and I live in a dementia care community, please visit me often.
𝐼𝒻 𝐼 𝑔𝑒𝓉 𝒹𝑒𝓂𝑒𝓃𝓉𝒾𝒶, don’t act frustrated if I mix up names, events, or places. Take a deep breath. It’s not my fault.
𝐼𝒻 𝐼 𝑔𝑒𝓉 𝒹𝑒𝓂𝑒𝓃𝓉𝒾𝒶, make sure I always have my favorite music playing within earshot.
𝐼𝒻 𝐼 𝑔𝑒𝓉 𝒹𝑒𝓂𝑒𝓃𝓉𝒾𝒶, and I like to pick up items and carry them around, help me return those items to their original places.
𝐼𝒻 𝐼 𝑔𝑒𝓉 𝒹𝑒𝓂𝑒𝓃𝓉𝒾𝒶, don’t exclude me from parties and family gatherings.
𝐼𝒻 𝐼 𝑔𝑒𝓉 𝒹𝑒𝓂𝑒𝓃𝓉𝒾𝒶, know that I still like receiving hugs or handshakes.
𝐼𝒻 𝐼 𝑔𝑒𝓉 𝒹𝑒𝓂𝑒𝓃𝓉𝒾𝒶, remember that I am still the person you know and love.”❤️
ᴄᴏᴘʏ ᴀɴᴅ ᴘᴀsᴛᴇ in Honour of someone you know or knew who has dementia.
In Honour of all those I know and love fighting Dementia/Alzheimer’s.
❤️

14/02/2023

If Valentines day has delivered a proposal, or if it has just reminded you it's time to start planning your wedding - Give me a call to discuss how you can have a unique wedding ceremony personalised just for you and the one you love.

29/12/2022

Now that Christmas is over, plan something to look forward to, welcome your little one to the world. This is also an ideal ceremony for welcoming an adopted child into the family. Every ceremony is written uniquely for each occasion, contact me to discuss you celebration.

24/11/2022

Being given the honour of leading a Funeral Ceremony for an incredibly popular man, I feel humbled and even more so when the widow takes the time to thank me;
'I just wanted to thank you for everything today. Lots of the people who attended said to me what a wonderful tribute it had been to **** and that was down to your words.

I'm very grateful for everything you've done.'

03/11/2022

Thinking about Direct cremation?

19/10/2022

Book your Celebrant early, don't make do, have the wedding of your dreams. Contact me for a free no obligation first meeting

16/10/2022

Celebrate and welcome your new family member. New baby, adopting a child, that really is something to celebrate. I create and write a ceremony just for you, as individual as you are. Contact me for more information

12/10/2022

A lovely thank you card from the beautiful couple I had the honour of meeting and working with to create their dream Wedding Ceremony in August.

08/10/2022

Thank you NHS for my covid booster. Brackenhurst Southwell, very efficient