23/07/2024
A personal post for me, but I would like to share with you all, the things that were important to us on our wedding day, I hope it helps. Best go grab a brew / glass of something and put the feet up...☕️🍺🍷
There will always be different elements that take priority for couples, and how they wish their day to be.
For us, these bits and pieces took priority on our day:
1. Ensuring suppliers at our venue were ok setting up, and dropping our overnight luggage to the hotel (while the girls got dolled up).
I got my groom-to-be to do this one, looking back now he was a 'me' aka 'THE WEDDING PA'😉 - while using our own car, as we had one that could be mistaken for a rental😉
2. Artificial bridal bouquets - something to always keep for the future, and not give me hayfever that day, I used to suffer really bad. I did take my Clarityn that day thankfully!
The church and reception flowers were real though and stunning. Plenty of roses and colour got a good look in that day.
Bigger cheques were written for this one, as I love flowers.
(P.S offer them to your guests to take home, lay on family graves or bring to local nursing homes, rather than leave at the venue).
3. Having a survival kit for the 'you never know moments' as seen in the photograph below. I got stung by a bee/wasp, after a sit down pose by a tree, somehow he got under the hoop skirt and stung me - maybe he didn't like weddings or my dress😆
Thankfully I am not severley affected, it could have been worse.
4. Having my mam walk me down the church aisle, as my father passed away when I was very young. This meant a lot to her, it was emotional for sure, but aren't weddings ok for that.. ?🥰
5. Lighting a personal memorial candle at mass for those passed away, and always with us in spirit.
6. Me doing a speech: yes, I was nervous, but felt I may regret it later if I didn't take the chance (the fizz helped here a bit)🥂
7. Creating our own stationery and favours - yes, it saved us money, but also put our personal touch on things, and found we actually enjoyed spending the evenings working on this little production line going on, with some vino to accompany the task of course🍷
8. Keeping the bridal party small. Budget aside, we didn't personally want a large bridal party. We choose 2 on each side and only had 80 guests too (it was on a Thursday as weekends were restricted to higher numbers), but everyone came along too, which was brilliant.
9. Choosing close friends and family to be by our sides in our bridal party and support us on the day.
10. A variety of food and drink to offer our guests - this was a big deal for us to factor in and allocate more pennies to, I think our cheque book got filled pretty quickly!
We had a 5 course meal, with 3 starters, 1 sorbet, 1 soup, 3 mains and 3 desserts - guests had a good choice with generous portion sizes too, and not to be stingy with the gravy boats either 😆. Nothing worse than small portions, or not enough sides to accompany the meal (been to weddings as a guest and gone to the chipper on the way home - was still hungry, not good!!)
Love Angela
The Wedding PA ###