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22/11/2024

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22/11/2024

Elmrad green and gold.. Bookings ongoing 💕

18/11/2024

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Ocean blue, Luminous green and red. Love 😍

18/11/2024

18/11/2024

Elmrad green and Gold

18/11/2024

Gold and Elmrad green..

09/10/2024

Happy customer week. We value your support. Thanks 🙏

03/10/2024

Men deserve soft love. Men deserve words of affirmation. Men deserve pampering. Men deserve a "just because" gift. Men deserve warm hugs. Men deserve thoughtful letters. Men deserve beautiful surprises. Don't be with him if you think he doesn't deserve this!!

01/10/2024

Let things fall in place naturally because it only makes sense that the right people in our lives would go all the way trying to stay in it and one never would question it.
Neena Gupta.
ⓒ Love Is An Emotion of Strong Affection

27/09/2024

When you marry a narcissistic man, you never get the chance to be a wife; instead, you take on the role of a mother because these grown adults behave like man-children. They go to work Monday through Friday and then spend their weekends sitting in front of a laptop, downloading music, playing video games, or creating messes for you to clean. You find yourself both single and a parent simultaneously, shouldering the weight of responsibilities without the support of a partner.
Narcissists don't marry for love or partnership; they marry because they want a maid, cook, secretary, banker, and a babysitter. They crave control, not connection. Their selfish desires consume them, leaving you to manage the household, raise the children, and cater to their every whim. Your dreams of a loving, equal relationship are shattered, replaced by the harsh reality of servitude.
As the days turn into weeks, and the weeks into years, you become a shadow of your former self. Your identity is erased, replaced by the exhausting duties of managing a narcissist's life. You're forced to sacrifice your own desires, interests, and friendships to accommodate their demands. The emotional labor is suffocating, leaving you drained, resentful, and wondering how you ended up in this nightmare.
You're not alone in this struggle. Many women have fallen prey to the charming facade of a narcissist, only to find themselves trapped in a loveless, thankless role. Remember, you deserve better. You deserve a partner who loves, supports, and respects you. Don't let the narcissist's gaslighting convince you otherwise. Break free from this toxic cycle and reclaim your life. You are more than a mother to a man-child; you are a strong, capable, and worthy individual who deserves to be loved and cherished.

20/09/2024

If your company culture is off, it will cost you.
The longer you wait, the harder it gets to fix.

A toxic culture hurts more than your team.

It drives customers away, too.

Bad culture leads to poor service. Customers feel it.

Employees leave. Profits drop.

No one stays where they feel undervalued. Not your team.

Not your clients.

The longer you wait to fix it, the harder it gets to recover.

Act now before your culture costs you your business.

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16/09/2024

To be intimate with someone isn’t about being physical with someone.

Intimacy doesn’t come from a place of physicality.

It’s about trusting someone because they make you feel safe.

It’s about sharing your deepest fears, insecurities, and vulnerabilities with someone who embraces who you are without judgement.

Someone who looks after your heart as though it’s a delicate flower.

It’s about being able to be open about your inner thoughts, your pain, your past, and your trauma to another person, knowing that they will listen with empathy and understanding.

It’s when you can reveal the broken pieces of your soul, and they respond with kindness, warmth, and love.

It’s a place where you can be your true authentic self without fear of judgement, abandonment, or rejection, because they make you feel safe…

It's a special person who will stand beside you through all of life’s highs and lows reminding you that you are never alone in this beautiful but sometimes difficult journey we call life.

Intimacy is really about feeling safe…

Because true intimacy comes from the heart and soul…

~ Mark Smith

10/09/2024

The right man will find you, love you and honor you as his wife 🌸🤲🏻

Bookings ongoing 💕

20/08/2024

Whenever you find yourself starting to miss someone you really loved…

But perhaps someone who just didn’t appreciate you.

Someone who just didn’t care about how you felt.

Someone who you loved so much, but someone who just treated you like an option.

Stop for a moment, and remember…

Remember the disrespect.

Remember all the times when your feelings didn’t matter and were invalidated.

Remember how your worth was completely disregarded.

Remember when your boundaries were ignored time and time again.

Remember what they deliberately and knowingly did to break your trust over and over again.

Remember all the times you begged them for the basics and you begged them to treat you as though they loved you, but they still refused.

Remember how it made you feel.

Remember just how much it hurt.

Remember how disappointed you felt.

Remember how betrayed you felt.

Because this was real.

This was how you really felt.

This was someone’s version of love for you...

It’s normal to miss someone who you once loved, especially if the love you felt for them was genuine and ran deep;

but it’s so important to remember all of the reasons why the relationship didn’t work out, instead of just remembering the good times and the happy memories.

Respect yourself by remembering how you really felt, because in doing so you’re honouring yourself and validating your emotions.

Use these memories that were your reality to reassess and reaffirm your boundaries, values, and what’s important to you in a relationship.

Remember that you deserve to be treated with respect.

You deserve to be treated with kindness.

You deserve to be heard with empathy, love, and understanding.

You deserve to have your feelings and needs cared about.

And you deserve to feel emotionally safe because you trust the person you love to look after your heart and do the right thing by you.

When you’re in a relationship, these things are NOT optional extras.

They are the non-negotiable basic foundations!

Don’t allow someone who won't give this to you to continue to treat you less than you deserve.

And don’t settle for a love, that’s less than the love you deserve…

~ Mark Smith

19/08/2024

I am often not the type to advise any close person to me be it a man or a woman, and especially a woman in a toxic relationship to leave because they never truly leave until they make the decision themselves.

A lot of people know how to bond with their affliction. They grow fonder of the person who treats them badly, entangling themselves in toxic and unhealthy love.

A few days ago, I saw a post from a man saying he’s been ignoring calls and messages from his supposed girlfriend because that’s how to make them obsessed and make them love you. I read through the comments and saw lots of men reinforcing this idea.

Some people believe that a relationship is only toxic if there is physical abuse, but what I described above is toxic at the highest level. It’s a tool of manipulation used by men and even women who are deeply wounded and have refused to heal. It’s a way to subdue you into celebrating and rejoicing over the bare minimum they offer.

They speak kindly to you once a month, and that’s the day you’ll sleep peacefully and be very happy. Then they switch the next day for the rest of the month and you’ll find yourself begging to be loved and treated right, you find yourself crying to sleep almost everyday, they are very aware of what they are doing, it’s a deliberate act.

There are some men and women who derive pleasure from being chased. They love it when you become obsessed and unbalanced about them. People of this nature should be avoided at all costs because they are operating from a wounded place. Don’t get yourself used to toxic and unhealthy love, because you are the one who will end up messed up.

Mature and pursue a relationship with a man or woman who truly wants to nurture you, someone who genuinely wants to love you. If they truly love you, they wouldn’t look for manipulative ways to get you obsessed. Look for a person who is genuine and isn’t strategic with you. Look for someone who wouldn’t toy with your heart and mind, someone who will communicate freely with you. Be with someone who wouldn’t go silent on you just to make you chase them. Be with someone with whom you can have a free flow of communication, openness, and friendship. You don’t want to be with someone who won’t call if you don’t, who won’t text if you don’t, and who will even ignore you when you do.

It’s better to be single and happy than to be with someone who will mess you up in this way you may never fully heal from it.

17/08/2024

When a man is gentle, soft, and consistently respects you, that's when your nervous system starts healing.

That's why some women have that special glow when they're being loved right in a relationship. It's not the love itself, it's the emotional safety.

📸 aichadram