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20/11/2024

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“Men Only Correct the Women They Love” – A Harsh Truth

Listen up, men. If you’re letting a woman spiral into chaos without stepping in, you don’t love her—you’re just playing along for your own convenience. Real love isn’t about passive acceptance; it’s about stepping up, holding her accountable, and guiding her toward becoming her best self. If you can’t do that, you’re either afraid or uninterested in her future.

A man who has no long-term plans for a woman will let her “do anyhow.” He’ll let her dress half-naked, smoke, drink recklessly, and act wild because he doesn’t care about her future—he’s just there for the short-term thrill. He’s not investing in her as a partner; he’s exploiting her. And the worst part? Many women prefer this. They mistake his silence for love, not realizing that a man who doesn’t correct them doesn’t respect them.

Contrast this with a man who truly loves a woman. He won’t sit back and let her ruin herself. He’ll tell her the hard truths, even if it stings. If she’s dressing inappropriately or engaging in self-destructive habits, he’ll confront her because he cares. He’s not controlling her—he’s protecting her. Real love involves discipline and correction because he sees her potential and wants to build a future together.

But here’s the problem: many women can’t handle being corrected. They’d rather soak in their emotions, complain to friends, and hear lies like, “You deserve better, babe.” They confuse guidance with control, rejecting the very men who care enough to hold them accountable. Meanwhile, they cling to men who let them do whatever they want—men who don’t care about their future. The cycle is predictable, and the outcome is always the same: regret.

Men, stop enabling chaos. If a woman rejects correction, she’s not worth your time. A woman who truly values you will respect your guidance, not resent it. Correction isn’t about control—it’s an act of love. If you love her, you want her to be the best version of herself. But if she can’t handle accountability, she’s not ready for a real relationship.

And women, understand this: a man who corrects you isn’t your enemy—he’s your ally. The man who stays silent doesn’t care about you; he’s just passing time. The one who calls you out is investing in your future. Don’t confuse his discipline with criticism. He’s building you up, not tearing you down.

The bottom line? Real love isn’t about letting someone “do whatever they want.” It’s about setting standards, holding each other accountable, and building a solid future together. If you’re not willing to correct the woman you’re with, you don’t truly love her. And if she can’t handle correction, she doesn’t love or respect you either.

Stay strong, stay sharp, and demand accountability in every relationship. A woman worth keeping will value your guidance and respect your leadership. Anything less is a waste of time.

20/09/2024

If your company culture is off, it will cost you.
The longer you wait, the harder it gets to fix.

A toxic culture hurts more than your team.

It drives customers away, too.

Bad culture leads to poor service. Customers feel it.

Employees leave. Profits drop.

No one stays where they feel undervalued. Not your team.

Not your clients.

The longer you wait to fix it, the harder it gets to recover.

Act now before your culture costs you your business.

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04/08/2024

Consider the fact that maybe the closed door is there because you’re worthy of so much more.

13/07/2024

Having multiple partners doesn't define your masculinity, just as having many admirers doesn't determine your beauty.
Material possessions only attract shallow individuals, while time passes, taking youth and superficial beauty with it. What truly matters is character. Women and men are not defined by their attire but by the richness of their minds, the depth of their spirits, and the strength of their character. True elegance lies in knowing one's desires and carrying oneself with grace.
Let's not squander life on fleeting and superficial emotions.
We must teach our children that success isn't measured by possessions, and simplicity isn't a sign of poverty. - Robert De Niro

11/07/2024

"Green flags often go unnoticed these days."

They say healthy relationships are boring. But imagine someone who makes you feel comfortable and secure, remembers the little details about you, including your favorites, and gives you assurance without being asked. Someone with whom you can be vulnerable, be yourself, and be genuine without feeling disrespected. Someone who has clear and vivid plans for your relationship.

Imagine someone who respects your time and boundaries and understands that you have other people in your life. Someone who makes time for you cares for you, and sees your flaws as opportunities for growth. Someone who never lets you sleep with a heavy heart and never takes advantage of you. Someone who communicates their thoughts because they care about your relationship, understanding that disagreements are part of it and wanting it to be healthy.

Imagine having someone who is good for your heart.

We are often blinded by red flags because they are represented by the color of love. We think we can change them; that they'll soon realize their mistakes; that they will take the initiative to fix themselves. We hope that the love we give will be enough for them to become better. Or, we crave plot twists, thrills, and excitement, forgetting about peace.

We forget the love we deserve.
We deserve a love that keeps us sane.
We deserve green flags. 🖤

10/07/2024

Love and our relationships teach us lessons in so many different ways.

Some lessons come as a blessing at exactly the right time.

Some come from hard lessons learnt.

And some lessons come from connecting the dots and coming to realisations later on.

But with all lessons good or bad, comes new found wisdom.

Sometimes it takes a broken heart to learn these lessons, or sometimes it's just by being with the right soul.

Whichever the case may be, there are a many number of tiny little lessons that make themselves available to us.

It's just up to us to learn from them and realise...

Your relationship doesn’t need the approval of anyone else, it just needs to make you and your partner happy.

It's more about how someone makes you feel rather than how much you feel about someone because love is reflective.

Without communication there's no trust, and without trust there's no respect.

No amount of love can ever replace the absence of trust and respect.

It’s okay to have different values and beliefs, just so long as you continue to respect what your partners values and beliefs are.

When someone shows you who they really are, don’t ignore who they really are by trying to repaint them in different colours.

Never ignore the red flags early on, because they’ll be the reason that the relationship ends later.

If you’re not prepared to make time for your partner, you’re not really ready to be in a relationship.

There's no point fighting to try and save a relationship when you're the only one fighting for it.

Sometimes you have to let love go and set it free, if it’s meant for you it will come back.

It’s okay to give love a second chance, but only if two people are prepared to work on the foundations that need to be stronger.

Having healthy boundaries makes a relationship stronger, not weaker.

Loneliness is the wrong reason to enter a relationship.

If you’ve still got healing to do, finish healing first before entering another relationship.

Being single is not a curse, because it allows you to learn to love yourself again.

Relationships aren’t about two people wanting to grow, it’s about two people wanting to grow but grow together.

Arguments are going to happen; it’s not what you fight about but how you fight the problem together.

Times will get hard at some point, love that is real doesn’t give up just because it rains.

The hardest times can bring you closer together, and make you stronger.

The right person will show you they love you, and care about how they make you feel all of the time, not just when the conditions are right.

Love doesn’t make you happy if your partner doesn’t care about the way they make you feel.

If someone won’t give you the bare minimum basics being their time, their communication, and their affection; you don’t really have a relationship.

Actions must match words spoken.

Always listen to your instincts because if you feel like you deserve better, it’s because you do.

Love is about all the little tiny moments that happen every single day.

Compliments and showing appreciation are cheat codes.

Love and relationships change, it’s up to you and your partner to grow together through that change, and not grow apart.

Always allow someone to just be themselves, don’t try to change them.

Allow yourself to love with an open and vulnerable heart, don’t give only part of you to someone who’s trying to give you all of them.

Always make time to just be with one another, no matter how busy life gets; because your relationship is bigger than anything else.

Love is more about being the right person, than it is about trying to find the right person...

~ Mark

10/07/2024

If a man goes from texting you all the time, takes you out consistently,
calling you, buying you gifts and visiting you ...
But suddenly...boom!
He's too busy.
Right?
He doesn't call you.
He doesn't text you.
No gifts.
No sweet visits...
Doesn't take you out as much.
Let me just say it.
His feelings have changed. Period!
Tell you what.
Nobody is too busy to call or to see someone ever...
Right?
If they love or like you, they will find a way to be with you.
This may push a lot of us Brothers to make excuses like the hustle got real, pressure at work increased, we going through hell with life...naaa.
Pas vrai!
A man who cares will still find time for a peek, a glimpse, a call, a wink, a smile and a voice note.
It may not be much but there will always be time for a little bit of small things if they care.
I'm sorry but this I say is hard truth.
Many of you will not like to hear this and yes many folks will not love me for this but...
If I tell you say Love you?
My body... My money na your own ...
I will call, text...I will find time.
Sorry 😞

18/06/2024

Never again will she be the "low maintenance" girlfriend‼️

She refuses to keep up that image just so a man feels he can do the bare minimum and still keep her around.

She loves receiving flowers without asking, enjoying dates she doesn't have to plan, feeling reassured, and getting letters, notes, and long texts. She appreciates acts of service and small surprises.

She's tired of pretending otherwise just because this generation of men doesn't want to put in more effort.

She deserves better, and she knows it. 👑

14/06/2024

MARRIED MEN AND WOMEMN THOUGH 🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣🤣

What do you call a married man dating a married woman?
Isn't this total madness?

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Married

14/06/2024

WHAT INSPIRES FAITHFULNESS ?

1. VISION
Vision gives one a reason to stay committed. When you have a vision of the kind of marriage you want to have and the kind of spouse you are working to become, you stay true even when it gets tough

2. FEAR
When you value what you have with your spouse and all you two have built and invested in all these years, you will fear doing something that might destroy it

3. LOVE
When you love your spouse, you will be careful not to do an anything to hurt your spouse, but also, your greatest desire will be to enjoy special moments with no other but your spouse

4. HUMILITY
Humility will remind you not to be too confident in yourself that you play with temptation. Humility will also allow you to be receptive to warnings when your spouse cautions you about someone you are getting close to

5. FREQUENT WARM COMMUNICATION
When you both take time to have silly, deep, serious, difficult and naughty conversations with each other, be it face to face, online, on phone calls or video calls even when you are in a long distance marriage;

it will make faithulness easier to practice. The danger is when you get used to communicating frequently with another. Frequent communication keeps you both connected. Emotional faithfulness leads to sexual faithfulness

6. VALUES
Your values determine your lifestyle and this determines what you give time to, who you give time to, the environments you take yourself to and what consumes your thoughts. If you don't have nurtured values as an individual, you will easily fall

7. RIGHT COMPANY
When you surround yourself with friends who encourage and celebrate your faithfulness and who are also faithful to their spouses, you will challenge each other to focus on your marriage. Check your circle, are you surrounded by cheats?

8. A HEALTHY CONSCIENCE
Don't numb your conscience, your conscience is what flags you when you are doing wrong. It is your link to God to remind you of your actions and consequences. If you numb your conscience, you will do wrong with no remorse

9. GOOD TREATMENT AT HOME
When you both treat each other well at home, it is so easy to be faithful. You are happy at home, why mess it? When the home is full of fights, arguments, coldness and drama; it gives temptations power

10. TRANSPARENCY
Telling your spouse who you are with and where you are without being asked will make you accountable and prevent you from slipping. Affairs thrive in secrecy

11. OBJECTIVITY
When you start to see yourself enjoying another person's company not your spouse and be rational about it, you will realize it is not worth it. So you will have a wonderful time with this new person, and then what? Your future is still with your spouse, and that temporary good time is not worth risking it all for

12. SOBERNESS
Alcohol tends to make many married people misbehave, sometimes to the point they don't remember their bad behaviour. When you remain sober you will make better judgements

13. PURITY OF MIND
When you are mindful of what you feed your mind, you will guard your ways. S*x starts in the mind

14. BOUNDARIES
When you make it clear to colleagues, friends and even online contacts that you have boundaries because you respect your marriage, others will respect your marriage too

15. SELF-CONTROL
When you have the strength to stop yourself when you notice you are getting too attached to another person or getting turned on by them; you will take yourself out of danger

16. GREAT S*X AT HOME
When you are being made love to well at home, why go anywhere else? A sexually satisfied spouse tends to remain faithful

Relationship Talks For Both Married And Singles With Mayowa Joseph

13/06/2024

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03/05/2024

This generation doesn't understand.

Most men in this generation doesn't understand its not about giving her the world, but it's actually about making her feel like she's a priority in yours.

It's about surprising her with a sweet text throughout the day to remind her you're thinking about her.

It's about coming home from work and asking about her day because you genuinely care about the answer.

It's about going to the refrigerator to get yourself a drink, and you get her one without even asking.

It's about driving down a backroad and you pull off to the side to pick her some beautiful wild flowers.

It's about cuddling on the couch in sweatpants and binge watching your favorite show on Netflix together.

It's about taking her to her favorite restaurant unannounced.

It's about slow dancing with her in the rain to a song that was written by George Strait.

It's about calling her randomly and asking how she is doing because you care about her mental health.

It's about laying her favorite dress on the bed with a note that says "put this on and be ready by 7pm".

It's about knowing the smallest details about her, like the way she likes her coffee in the morning, or her favorite smell, or what movies make her cry.

It's about going to a local ice cream parlor on a Saturday afternoon to talk about your life goals together over a couple hot fudge sundaes.

Take my advice and remember...... it doesn't always have to cost much money, it just needs to catch her off guard.

~ Cody Bret

19/04/2024

18/04/2024

If you can see it, You can have it..

18/04/2024

Canopy for cake.

18/04/2024

Elevate your event with stunning table set-up that's perfect for creating unforgettable memories.