05/01/2026
Our relationship psychology doesn’t start in adulthood — it’s shaped in our formative years.
Boarding schools, rigid systems, and one-size-fits-all education models quietly teach attachment, distance, and survival.
Systems that don’t cater to everyone’s needs don’t just affect learning — they shape how we connect.
Our relationship psychology is formed long before dating begins.
In our formative years — through boarding schools, strict routines, and education systems designed for conformity — we learn how to survive structure, not always how to connect.
Systems that fail to cater to diverse emotional needs don’t just shape students; they shape future partners.