07/02/2025
♦️Where do I begin...my journey in the exciting world of B**M?
Everyone's journey is different. For some the spark to explore is ignited by a certain person while for some it is all about finding a safe sanctuary where to explore s*xuality and various dimensions of it together with like-minded members of kink community.
Well, we can tell your more about the second option! Riga is kinky! There are several kink communities and dungeons in Riga to visit & explore what each has to offer. But first, let’s talk in general.
♦️Open Hours/ Evenings at B**M Dungeons/ Studios
It is common all around the world for B**M dungeons/ studios to have an Open Hours evening when newcomers are welcome to make their possibly first step in the mysterious world of kink/ B**M- get acquainted with the place, learn about the rules, events happening there and meet the people running it, as well as kink community members. That's a great opportunity to watch, learn, observe, and ask questions.
♦️What happens there?
Let’s first clear what doesn’t happen there!
Sorry to disappoint you, but s*x & or**es sure doesn’t happen there, just in case you were wondering. Good to know: “S” in B**M doesn’t stand for S*x or Swingers.
Now, when that’s crystal clear, let’s talk about what to expect.
Some people come to Open Hours just to socialize, while some come to practice certain kinks/ engage in B**M activities. Spanking, bo***ge, sensory play, wax play, domination/ submission…
Every event has it's own vibe and might be different from previous ones, as these events has no program or entertainment planned, it is all about the people attending it.
If you are up for it, you can participate in activities/ play, however, please, keep in mind, that nobody is obligated to entertain you (or even worse, to be your kink dump), it is all about connection & personal agreement with certain person. Don't take "no" personally!
Also keep in mind, that some people come to Open Hours/ Evenings with their play partner & certain play plan, and might not want to do anything else. At any cost: NEVER disturb anyone having play/ B**M activities. If you are talking to someone while someone else is playing, please keep your voice down.
♦️Rules, rules, rules
B**M community loves the rules, Open Hours/ Evenings are no exception! Usually, upon arrival the Dungeon Master will explain the rules to you, and by entering the premises, you must follow them, otherwise, it might result in a ban from future attendance.
Can’t say this enough- B**M and changed state of consciousness caused by substances (drugs, alcohol) is NOT to be combined!
Arriving sober to Open Hours or any other event happening at Dungeon is mandatory! Please keep in mind, that alcohol is not being sold at any events (at least not in Riga). Usually, light alcohol is allowed in moderation (to be clear, a bottle of beer or 1-2 glasses of wine is OK), and you can bring it with you if you please. Sometimes light snacks are provided, and once again, you can bring your own as well (to be shared, of course).
♦️What to wear?
There is no special dress code for Open Hours/ evenings, anything from totally casual to kink/ fe**sh/ B**M accessories/ outfits are fine. Full nudity, however, is not allowed.
♦️Final thoughts
It is absolutely common to arrive on your own, even though, you don't know anyone. That’s the whole point- to meet like-minded people!
Consent is always the king, nobody will try to persuade you to participate at something, it is 100% your free will & decision. It is more than OK NOT to participate in anything at all and just watch. Open Hours/ Evenings is an INTRO into the theme to newcomers. And yes, you can absolutely leave any time, don’t worry!
♦️When & where?
As for now, there are two active kink/B**M communities/ Dungeons having Open Hours/ Evenings and organizing variety of events.
Every Tuesday from 19:00 to 22:00
HEL Dungeon Open Hours
Tērbatas 83, Riga
(Hel.venue)
Every Thursday from 18:00 to 23:00
KinkDevil Dungeon Evening
Jāņa 16/1, Riga
(KinkDevil DungeonRiga)
Open Hours/ Events are being published on www.Fetlife.com (under Events) and Telegram Channels
‼️ You have to be 18+ to attend !
*Please note: Open Hours are donation based events, bring some cash with you to contribute to dungeon's well-being.*
‼️ IMPORTANT! When attending for the first time, drop the host a message to get more detailed directions and info on how to get in.
See you there, if you dare! 😈
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