31/05/2021
*Personal-ish post*
31st May, 2015.
6 years ago, we threw a surprise party for our parents’ 31st Wedding Anniversary - an intimate wedding and renewal of vows ceremony. Probably the biggest surprise we ever pulled and the reason why EFF was conceptualized.
Back when cross-country flights were easy to do, planning this surprise wedding was done in a 2-year time table. It was the hottest month of that year so we knew we had to make this happen in a relatively cooler place, but also only a drive away from Manila which is in Tagaytay and Batangas, and luckily, we got The Caluerga Church as the wedding venue for this event.💒
To start, a little white lie had to be said for them to be able to fly to Manila. We told them we’ve a planned a weekend road trip and a staycation. 🚘
Friday. Our Mom, together with kids number 2, 4 and 6, took a flight to Manila, while our Dad at the airport, ready to pick them up and go straight to our hotel in Tagaytay. Kids number 1, 3 and 5 were also on their way to the hotel with their cars loaded with wedding stuff. The plan was to get our parents already asleep so they wouldn’t see what other stuff would come.
Saturday (Wedding Day). Our dad already had an itinerary in his mind like places to check out, food to try and whatnot. But we all purposely overslept so we’d wake up lunch time already. We ordered takeouts which made our parents say “Nagpunta pa tayo ng Tagaytay para mag Jollibee at matulog”.
After lunch, our parents went inside their room to nap and that was our cue to set up the other room with their wedding needs - gowns and suits were put on the mannequins, flowers were assembled, shoes were lined up and so on.
When the photographers and videographers arrived, we woke both of our parents up, put a blindfold on them and directed them to the living room. Finally, they were given their wedding invitations. We asked them to read it out loud and… SURPRISE!!! - an invitation to their own wedding.
We decided to make the bridesmaids’ dresses pink and with the designs closely similar to a celebrity wedding in that same year, with 5 matching pairs of heels. (Any guesses? Clue: Politician X Showbiz 😆)
For the men, we had them in different stylings and colors - black, grey, neck tie, bow tie and no tie. We chose for our dad a very clean cut and classic white suit.
The bride’s Wedding gown was a simple beaded and laced muscle cut top A-line gown, complete with right size angle-cut veil. This was the first time our mom was going to wear a wedding gown so everything needed to be perfect for her.
Our wedding checklist also included flowers, invitations, wedding rings, photographers and videographers, officiating priest and a dinner reception.
We ended the night singing some of parents’ favorite songs and a look back to the 31 years of what was like for them, from dating during their Uni days to that very memorable night. Check out on instagram for more photos, and in the comment section, the photo slideshow SDE.
Happy 37th Wedding Anniversary to our loving parents, Vangie and Toto! forever and ever!!!
📸 by: Ram Marcelo