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16/01/2024

How will I know you are in a dark place if whenever I ask you how you are doing, you say you are fine?

How will I look out for signs of you not doing well when you work so hard to mask those signs? 🙄

How will I know you need help if whenever I ask you how things are going, you say, "great"?

How will I give you support when you always let me believe you don't need it?

How will your family help you (if they can), when you constantly pretend to them that you are in the best place ever?

How will your friends rally round you when you constantly hide how things truly are?

Sometimes, we are too proud to let those who can help us actually help us; we don't want people to know we are in need, we are in trouble, we are in pain, we are weak, we are failing, we are dying inside. Sometimes, it's not pride, but a desire to not inconvenience others. If people love you, then your problems or difficulty must not be an inconvenience to them.

The truth is that we know those who care about us, and when we hide our difficulties from them, we are depriving them (and ourselves) the chance to be there for you. As long as I care about you, if you are fighting, then we are fighting, if you are in pain, then it's our pain, if you are shedding tears, those are our tears, you must not shed them alone. The point is for you not to stand alone. That's why we have people who love us.

Years ago, I read a survey of people who attempted su***de but survived. Besides those who had serious mental issues, EVERY one of the responded to said as soon as they took the action that would take their lives, THEY REGRETTED THE ACTION! And do you know why they regretted their action? Because they realized that death was not what they wanted; what they wanted was relief from the pain, the difficulty, the hardship. You don't want to die; it is help you need.

Don't stand alone. Don't fight alone. Don't hide your tears from those who truly care. We build communities, we build relationships so that we don't stand alone in the time of difficulty and doubt, and pain. If you ask for help, and you don't get it, you have asked the wrong people. Don't let that discourage you. There are people who will rally round you in the day of your tears.

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16/01/2024

BY AGE 35. YOU SHOULD BE SMART ENOUGH TO REALIZE THIS:

1. Someone makes 10x more than you do in a 9-5 job because they have more "leverage" with their work.

2. Distraction is the greatest killer of success. It stunts and destroys your brain.

3. You shouldn't take advice from people who are not where you want to be in life.

4. No one is coming to save your problems. Your life's 100% your responsibility.

5. You don't need 100 self-help books, all you need is action and self discipline.

6. Unless you went to college to learn a specific skill (ie. doctor, engineer, lawyer), you can make more money in the next 90 days just learning sales.

7. No one cares about you. So stop being shy, go out and create your chances.

8. If you find someone smarter than you, work with them, don't compete.

9. Smoking has 0 benefit in your life. This habit will only slow your thinking and lower your focus.

10. Comfort is the worst addiction and cheap ticket to depression.

11. Don't tell people more than they need to know, respect your privacy.

12. Avoid alcohol at all cost. Nothing worse than losing your senses and acting a fool.

13. Keep your standards high and don't settle for something because it's available.

14. The family you create is more important than the family you come from.

15. Train yourself to take nothing personally to save yourself from 99.99% of mental problems.

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16/01/2024

FACTS ABOUT WOMEN.

A woman will block you, delete your number and tell you never to call her again and still expect you to call her. Don't ask me how, it's only women can explain it better

In the midst of argument with her, don't bother exchanging words with her because it's not her that's speaking instead listen to her and let her continue vomiting. And when she's cool, embrace her and let her know how much you love her

Listen bro, a woman that truly love you will block you on Whatsp, Facebook and still use her friends Facebook account to see how you are holding up.

They may breath fire in front of you and break down in tears in a Conner their hearts are softer than a new born babys feet's HONESTLY

Until you realized and understand that most women speak in opposite meanings whenever they are mad and angry at you, then you will forever fall in same trap of counting your Ex's.

A woman that truly love you will have a fight with you sleep in the same bed with you and gave space for 10 people's in the middle and still be turning slowly to check if you turned your back at her or face her.

What am trying to say... Don't act upon angry women's words. Most of the times, that gender don't really mean what they say.

May God give our men more understanding
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16/01/2024

There is someone 💗 for you

There is someone out there who will make love feel like the easiest thing in the world.

There is someone out there who will hold all of you.

There is someone out there who will accept every part of you.

There is someone out there who will make you feel like the most obvious choice.

There is someone out there with whom you will build a life, and with whom a lifetime won't feel like enough.

There is always someone 💗

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16/01/2024

Cheating is a personal decision. Some people will never cheat no matter how hard things are; others will always cheat no matter how good they have it.

This is where true beauty comes in!

Beauty isn't about having a pretty face. It's about having a pretty mind, a pretty heart, and a pretty soul.

✨ if you played your part and loved someone with all your heart

✨ if you spoke on your feelings & tried to communicate

✨ if you waited for change & none came

it’s not your loss, it’s theirs. let go, heal, & move on to someone that deserves you.

You deserve someone who you were created for and who was created for you, to understand and love you properly.

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16/01/2024

No matter what happens in life,be good to people

15/01/2024

Staying in a relationship just because You love somebody is not worth it😒. Love is not all You need😒. Respect is what You need😒. Time is what You need😒. Reassurance is what You need😒. Happiness is what You need😒. A Bestfriend is what You need😒. You need that person who brings out the best in You😒, not someone who acts like he's doing You a favour by dating You🙄😒.💯👈🏼

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15/01/2024

Top 5 habits people won't tell you..

1. Single minute of procrastination can destroy a month of hard work and discipline.

2. Rich people don't use money to show off. Rich people use their money to make more money.

3. Earn money while sleeping is the ultimate flex.

4. Never show off keep winning in private. Not everyone wants to see you winning.

5. Like minded people who treat you to better is the real game changer.

STAY BLESSED ♥️

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15/01/2024

14 RULES THAT SHOULD GUIDE YOUR RELATIONSHIP

1. Never push a loyal woman to the point where she no longer cares

2. There is a difference between somebody who wants you and somebody who would do anything to keep you. Remember that.

3. Communication and trust are important if you want to secure your spot in someone’s heart.

4. Never fall in love with someone who left his girl for you because he might do the same and leave you for someone else.

5. A real man never gives up on the woman he loves with all his heart, no matter how much it hurts.

6. Don’t play with someone’s feelings just because you’re unsure of your own.

7. One of the worst mistakes you’ll make is walking away from the person who stood there and waited for you.

8. Just because one man treated you badly doesn’t mean all men will. Get this into your skull.

9. Be careful what you say. A girl remembers everything. They will never the good words have ever said to them but they will remember the bad ones you have ever spoken that is women.

10. When two people care about each other, they will always look for a way to make it work.

11. Love someone who loves you too.

12. So you better stop crying now.

13. Letting go isn’t a sign of weakness. It’s a sign that you’re strong enough to move on.

14. It’s better to be alone for the right reasons than to be with someone for the wrong reasons. I sincerely have found out that any person who always sees reasons to give flimsy excuses is a great liar, be far from such a person.

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15/01/2024

4 RELATIONSHIP DESTROYERS

1. Criticizing your partner every time by attacking, blaming, putting the fault on them, and throwing negative statements like " you can never do anything right"

2. Being so defensive and refusing to accept responsibility for anything and the response to feedback from your partner is always an attack.

3. Calling your partner names or making hurtful, sarcastic remarks.

4. Emotionally shutting down in the face of difficult discussions instead of openly addressing the issues.

If any of this is present in your relationship, please put in some work to destroy it before it completely destroys your relationship/marriage.

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15/01/2024

If She Is Not Your Choice Please Don't Undress Her & Impregnate Her. Don't Mess Up With Her Emotions & Dump Her After Sleeping With Her. The Same Advice Goes To You Ladies Also, If He Doesn't Have The Characteristics You Look For In A Man, Release Him. Don't Keep Withdrawing Money From Him & Using Him To Meet Your Needs When You Know Very Well That You Aren't Interested In Him.

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