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16/01/2024

How will I know you are in a dark place if whenever I ask you how you are doing, you say you are fine?

How will I look out for signs of you not doing well when you work so hard to mask those signs? 🙄

How will I know you need help if whenever I ask you how things are going, you say, "great"?

How will I give you support when you always let me believe you don't need it?

How will your family help you (if they can), when you constantly pretend to them that you are in the best place ever?

How will your friends rally round you when you constantly hide how things truly are?

Sometimes, we are too proud to let those who can help us actually help us; we don't want people to know we are in need, we are in trouble, we are in pain, we are weak, we are failing, we are dying inside. Sometimes, it's not pride, but a desire to not inconvenience others. If people love you, then your problems or difficulty must not be an inconvenience to them.

The truth is that we know those who care about us, and when we hide our difficulties from them, we are depriving them (and ourselves) the chance to be there for you. As long as I care about you, if you are fighting, then we are fighting, if you are in pain, then it's our pain, if you are shedding tears, those are our tears, you must not shed them alone. The point is for you not to stand alone. That's why we have people who love us.

Years ago, I read a survey of people who attempted su***de but survived. Besides those who had serious mental issues, EVERY one of the responded to said as soon as they took the action that would take their lives, THEY REGRETTED THE ACTION! And do you know why they regretted their action? Because they realized that death was not what they wanted; what they wanted was relief from the pain, the difficulty, the hardship. You don't want to die; it is help you need.

Don't stand alone. Don't fight alone. Don't hide your tears from those who truly care. We build communities, we build relationships so that we don't stand alone in the time of difficulty and doubt, and pain. If you ask for help, and you don't get it, you have asked the wrong people. Don't let that discourage you. There are people who will rally round you in the day of your tears.

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16/01/2024

BY AGE 35. YOU SHOULD BE SMART ENOUGH TO REALIZE THIS:

1. Someone makes 10x more than you do in a 9-5 job because they have more "leverage" with their work.

2. Distraction is the greatest killer of success. It stunts and destroys your brain.

3. You shouldn't take advice from people who are not where you want to be in life.

4. No one is coming to save your problems. Your life's 100% your responsibility.

5. You don't need 100 self-help books, all you need is action and self discipline.

6. Unless you went to college to learn a specific skill (ie. doctor, engineer, lawyer), you can make more money in the next 90 days just learning sales.

7. No one cares about you. So stop being shy, go out and create your chances.

8. If you find someone smarter than you, work with them, don't compete.

9. Smoking has 0 benefit in your life. This habit will only slow your thinking and lower your focus.

10. Comfort is the worst addiction and cheap ticket to depression.

11. Don't tell people more than they need to know, respect your privacy.

12. Avoid alcohol at all cost. Nothing worse than losing your senses and acting a fool.

13. Keep your standards high and don't settle for something because it's available.

14. The family you create is more important than the family you come from.

15. Train yourself to take nothing personally to save yourself from 99.99% of mental problems.

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16/01/2024

FACTS ABOUT WOMEN.

A woman will block you, delete your number and tell you never to call her again and still expect you to call her. Don't ask me how, it's only women can explain it better

In the midst of argument with her, don't bother exchanging words with her because it's not her that's speaking instead listen to her and let her continue vomiting. And when she's cool, embrace her and let her know how much you love her

Listen bro, a woman that truly love you will block you on Whatsp, Facebook and still use her friends Facebook account to see how you are holding up.

They may breath fire in front of you and break down in tears in a Conner their hearts are softer than a new born babys feet's HONESTLY

Until you realized and understand that most women speak in opposite meanings whenever they are mad and angry at you, then you will forever fall in same trap of counting your Ex's.

A woman that truly love you will have a fight with you sleep in the same bed with you and gave space for 10 people's in the middle and still be turning slowly to check if you turned your back at her or face her.

What am trying to say... Don't act upon angry women's words. Most of the times, that gender don't really mean what they say.

May God give our men more understanding
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16/01/2024

There is someone 💗 for you

There is someone out there who will make love feel like the easiest thing in the world.

There is someone out there who will hold all of you.

There is someone out there who will accept every part of you.

There is someone out there who will make you feel like the most obvious choice.

There is someone out there with whom you will build a life, and with whom a lifetime won't feel like enough.

There is always someone 💗

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16/01/2024

Cheating is a personal decision. Some people will never cheat no matter how hard things are; others will always cheat no matter how good they have it.

This is where true beauty comes in!

Beauty isn't about having a pretty face. It's about having a pretty mind, a pretty heart, and a pretty soul.

✨ if you played your part and loved someone with all your heart

✨ if you spoke on your feelings & tried to communicate

✨ if you waited for change & none came

it’s not your loss, it’s theirs. let go, heal, & move on to someone that deserves you.

You deserve someone who you were created for and who was created for you, to understand and love you properly.

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16/01/2024

No matter what happens in life,be good to people

15/01/2024

Staying in a relationship just because You love somebody is not worth it😒. Love is not all You need😒. Respect is what You need😒. Time is what You need😒. Reassurance is what You need😒. Happiness is what You need😒. A Bestfriend is what You need😒. You need that person who brings out the best in You😒, not someone who acts like he's doing You a favour by dating You🙄😒.💯👈🏼

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15/01/2024

Top 5 habits people won't tell you..

1. Single minute of procrastination can destroy a month of hard work and discipline.

2. Rich people don't use money to show off. Rich people use their money to make more money.

3. Earn money while sleeping is the ultimate flex.

4. Never show off keep winning in private. Not everyone wants to see you winning.

5. Like minded people who treat you to better is the real game changer.

STAY BLESSED ♥️

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15/01/2024

14 RULES THAT SHOULD GUIDE YOUR RELATIONSHIP

1. Never push a loyal woman to the point where she no longer cares

2. There is a difference between somebody who wants you and somebody who would do anything to keep you. Remember that.

3. Communication and trust are important if you want to secure your spot in someone’s heart.

4. Never fall in love with someone who left his girl for you because he might do the same and leave you for someone else.

5. A real man never gives up on the woman he loves with all his heart, no matter how much it hurts.

6. Don’t play with someone’s feelings just because you’re unsure of your own.

7. One of the worst mistakes you’ll make is walking away from the person who stood there and waited for you.

8. Just because one man treated you badly doesn’t mean all men will. Get this into your skull.

9. Be careful what you say. A girl remembers everything. They will never the good words have ever said to them but they will remember the bad ones you have ever spoken that is women.

10. When two people care about each other, they will always look for a way to make it work.

11. Love someone who loves you too.

12. So you better stop crying now.

13. Letting go isn’t a sign of weakness. It’s a sign that you’re strong enough to move on.

14. It’s better to be alone for the right reasons than to be with someone for the wrong reasons. I sincerely have found out that any person who always sees reasons to give flimsy excuses is a great liar, be far from such a person.

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15/01/2024

4 RELATIONSHIP DESTROYERS

1. Criticizing your partner every time by attacking, blaming, putting the fault on them, and throwing negative statements like " you can never do anything right"

2. Being so defensive and refusing to accept responsibility for anything and the response to feedback from your partner is always an attack.

3. Calling your partner names or making hurtful, sarcastic remarks.

4. Emotionally shutting down in the face of difficult discussions instead of openly addressing the issues.

If any of this is present in your relationship, please put in some work to destroy it before it completely destroys your relationship/marriage.

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15/01/2024

If She Is Not Your Choice Please Don't Undress Her & Impregnate Her. Don't Mess Up With Her Emotions & Dump Her After Sleeping With Her. The Same Advice Goes To You Ladies Also, If He Doesn't Have The Characteristics You Look For In A Man, Release Him. Don't Keep Withdrawing Money From Him & Using Him To Meet Your Needs When You Know Very Well That You Aren't Interested In Him.

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15/01/2024

Loving the wrong person.

So many people are suffering in relationships today because they refuse to let go of the person they are currently in a relationship with.

They know the relationship isn't working, but they refuse to leave because they feel they might be able to change the person.

They believe they are willing to go to any length to ensure that the person continues to "love them".

The hardest aspect is that they are doing everything in the hopes that the person would change, even when the person has no intention of changing in the first place.

If you're in a relationship right now where the person is causing you more grief than happiness, then it's time to let them go.

Accepting that things aren't working is the best approach to avoid getting hurt more in this type of relationship.

It's crucial to admit to yourself that the relationship is in disrepair.

I see so many people that are suffering in their current relationships because they refuse to face the reality of its true nature.

If your current relationship isn't working, do me a favor and don't force it, the more you force it, the more you will end up hurting yourself in the long run.

Nobody can take your happiness away if you don't want it taken away. Your happiness is in your hands; your happiness is dependent on you.

If you don't want others to continue to mistreat you......you have the power to stop them.

Take my advice and have the courage to leave the table when respect is no longer being served.

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15/01/2024

HOW TO BE ALWAYS HAPPY IN LIFE. READ THESE AWESOME LIFE TIPS.
1. Always remember that there is nobody on this earth that does not have problems. You are not the only one that has problems.
2. Challenges are part of life. It is only a dead man who has no challenges.
3. no problem has no solution. There are solutions to the pains you are going through.
4. The way you picture yourself in your mind can affect your happiness. Picture yourself as a valuable and beautiful person. Avoid low self-esteem and inferiority complex.
5. Do not mind about what people say about you. Some people are sadists. They can just say something just to make you feel sad.
6. Make friends with reasonable people who make you happy. Do not make friends with people who make jest of you or laugh at you over your challenges.
7. In your leisure time, keep yourself busy with your favourite hobbies like sports, games, watching movies, surfing the internet, playing computer games, etc.
8. Do not allow anyone to intimidate you with money and material things. A poor man today can become rich tomorrow. Change is constant.
9. No matter what you are going through today, do not give up. As long as there is life, there is hope.
10. Be very prayerful. Pray without ceasing. Prayer is a catalyst that can speed up your blessings to come to you on time.
11. Be courageous to go for what you want. Life is all about risk. If you don't take a risk, you will not get the desires of your heart.

Never change your originality for the sake of others. Because no one can play your role better than you.
You are the best. So be yourself...

HAVE A NICE LIFE.

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14/01/2024

TRAITS IN A MAN THAT ATTRACT A WOMAN

1. CLARITY
A man who is clear about his intention and role in a woman's life. Women don't like uncertainty; they invest their emotions, time and essence where it is clear she is the only one

2. VISION
A man who knows where he wants to go and is actively pursuing the vision, a man who is not just living for the here and now but has a long-term view of life; a legacy builder

3. DECISIVENESS
A man who is not afraid to make decisions and stand by them

4. HEALTHY PRIDE
A man who believes in himself and his worth. A man who takes pride in his name and the man he was been working on becoming; after all, the family will bear his name

6. HONESTY
A man who doesn't lie and is able to be real with the woman. Women can handle the truth

7. INTEREST AND CONCERN
A man who wants to search out the woman with care, a man who not only pays attention but also gives attention. Women love to be cared for

8. HUMOUR
A man who doesn't take life too seriously; he can be goofy, make memories, make her laugh, lighten a tough mood and make the children feel at ease. A woman cherishes laughter

9. CHARACTER
A man who has principles he lives by; a man who knows how to say no to what doesn't benefit his growth, a man with a firm identity

10. BALANCE
A man who is not just focusing on one aspect of his life. He is not working too much that he forgets his family, he is not bonding with his friends that he forgets his home, he is not too spiritual that he forgets to be romantic, he is not too much into money that he forgets the many things money cannot buy

11. STABILITY
A man who is dependable; who she can rely on. One who is committed and has a steady hand to navigate storms

Are you attractive to your wife?

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14/01/2024

𝐅𝐫𝐨𝐦 𝐚𝐠𝐞 𝟏𝟖-𝟓𝟓, 𝐲𝐨𝐮 𝐬𝐡𝐨𝐮𝐥𝐝 𝐛𝐞 𝐨𝐥𝐝 𝐞𝐧𝐨𝐮𝐠𝐡 𝐭𝐨 𝐤𝐧𝐨𝐰 𝐭𝐡𝐢𝐬…

1. Life doesn't wait for you to be okay. Get up everyday and keep pushing through.

2. Never force anyone to choose you. You'll learn the art to spend time alone

3. Master your emotions. A calm mind can handle any situation.

4. To avoid disappointment, you need to take people for who they're not for what you want them to be.

5. Everyone will show you who they're, just give them time

6. You're at peace with yourself when you mind your own business.

7. Ensure you take good care of yourself, if anything happens to you, the world will move on.

8. Nobody cares, work hard to get better everyday.

9. If you don't work to build your own dream, someone will hire you and give you a purpose.

10. Free yourself from the society's advice, most of them have no idea of what they're doing.

11. 30 years is too long to sit in an office being told what to do.

12. You shouldn't frequently take advice from people who're not where you want to be in life.

13. Life's is 100% better when no one know anything about you

14. You become 10x smarter when you quit the news and put politics out of your topics, unless it is your official occupation or it benefits you positively

15. You need to be smart enough to create your opportunities, don't wait for them to come to you.

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14/01/2024

How to differentiate between true love and fake love

FAKE LOVE/LUST

1.. The feeling arises from hormones

2.. Only felt as a gentile sensation

3.. Is primal instinct

4.. Only s*xual desire and physical attraction

5.. Focuses only on a persons looks and body

6.. You want s*x and not conversation

7.. You don't discuss feelings, just fantasy

8.. You say what they want to hear

9.. Silence is uncomfortable

TRUE LOVE

1.. Physical, emotional, spiritual and intellectual attraction

2.. The feeling arises from the heart and soul

3.. Is felt as a deep feeling of peace

4.. Is universal consciousness

5.. Focuses beyond the physical body and looks

6.. You explore deeply into one another

7.. You discuss and express feelings openly

8.. You listen to them intently

9.. Silence is understood
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13/01/2024

13/01/2024

20 Things to never do in life

1. Never neglect your health.

2. Never get married for s*x.

3. Never quit your dreams.

4. Never spend more than you earn.

5. Never ignore your parents.

6. Never be pessimistic.

7. Never forget who helped you in tough times.

8. Never please people.

9. Never put work over family.

10. Never let anyone control your life.

11. Never spend a day without a to-do list.

12. Never repeat a mistake.

13. Never discuss your secrets with anyone.

14. Never spend money spontaneously.

15. Never hesitate to ask.

16. Never text anyone back to back.

17. Never idealize celebrities.

18. Never remain friends with your Ex.

19. Never have high-interest debt.

20. NEVER GIVE UP.

28/08/2023

“He's 73 years old pensioner, who had worked all his life to raise his kids.

Deprived himself of life's pleasures to pay expensive school fees and living expenses for his kids both at home n abroad.

They are now well-off across the world, but his wife, 65, has relocated to live with her kids abroad, on the excuse of taking care of the their grandchildren.

He's alone back at home, while his children call him to say hello and send money for his upkeep.

He now has to start life all over as a bachelor, not minding his state of health, battling with high blood pressure and other old age ailments.

But the question is: How long more would he survive alone?

But this is the reality for most working class monogamous men.

Their old age is usually lonely and in many cases, Sad.

Try as you may, women love their kids more than their husbands, no matter how good the man is. The older he gets, the less use they have for him.

Tell me then, what do men benefit from marriage?

Men sacrifice so much but get little recognition for the hard work, rather the woman reaps all the benefits as the kids are often closer and more affectionate towards her when she becomes old.

Men, a word is enough for the wise, plan and take very good care of urself while working n plan for ur future.

No matter how caring you are as a husband and father, 97% of these women love their children and abandoned you when they are needed most.”

27/08/2023

A sheep was passing and saw a lion crying inside a cage trapped, the lion begged the sheep to rescue him with a promise not to kill and eat it, but the sheep refused.. After much persuasion and for the sheep's gullibility, it opened the cage for the lion._*
*_Now the lion was very hungry having stayed in the cage for days without food.. It quickly pounced on the sheep and was about to kill and eat it, but the sheep reminded him of his promise._*
*_They were still there arguing when other animals came passing and they sought to know what happened.. Both the lion and the sheep narrated their own side of the story, but because of fear and in trying to gain Favour in the sight of the lion, all the animals took side with the lion except the Tortoise who claimed not to understand the whole scenario._*
*_Now the Tortoise asked the lion to show them where exactly he was before the sheep rescued him, The lion pointed at the cage.. Tortoise asked again, "were you inside or outside when the sheep arrived"??... The lion replied, "I was inside"._*
*_The tortoise again asked, "Okay, enter and let’s see how difficult it could be inside bcoz I'm not getting the whole scenario".. The lion entered, and immediately, the tortoise locked the cage.. The lion was now trapped!!_*
*_In amazement, the other animals asked tortoise "why" and tortoise replied.. "If we allow him to eat the sheep today, He will still go hungry tomorrow and we don't know the next amongst us to be eaten tomorrow.!!_*
*MORAL OF THE TALE‼️*
*_DON'T SUPPORT EVIL TODAY BECAUSE IT DOESN'T AFFECT YOU DIRECTLY, TOMORROW IT COULD BE YOUR TURN.!!_*

23/08/2023

23/08/2023

A graduate in zoology was having difficulties in finding job......He saw an advert in one of the daily news paper for a job at a zoo.

At the interview, the manager told him that their gorilla which has been a tourists attraction has died, so they needed someone to dress and disguise as a gorilla since they have not been able to afford a new gorilla.

The graduate was embarrassed but since the salary was very okay and attractive, he accepted the job offer.

On the first day, he put on the gorilla skin and entered the cage, started jumping up and down, beating his chest while roaring like a gorilla.

The next day, he put on the gorilla skin and started moving around the zoo again and mistakenly entered another cage untill he found himself starring at a lion , the lion roared and started moving towards him.

The scared graduate forgot that he was a gorilla and started shouting like a human being "help! help!! help!!!". The lion leaped onto him, knocked him to the ground and whispered onto one of his ear; Rudent, it's me Brian your course mate, don't fear, bro there is no work in this country,.....Infact you see that crocodile inside that water ?, That is Antony your class rep.

01/07/2023

Lord God, Creator of all things. Thank You for this new month that You have given us.

May God specially attend to our situation this month, and our family’s too.

The doors of blessings shall be opened for us & our Family throughout this month, and forever. A happy new month to you all from us.

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