01/04/2023
TO ALL AFRICAN LADY
1. When you keep calm as a lady, you drive him crazy, keeping him thinking that there is some thing peculiar about you.
2. When he sends you abusive message, do not reply back with abusive word, if you must reply. Write "I'm sorry". Or thank you.
3. No man likes to be talked back to. If you must be a wife material, just shut up. When he is calm, talk things over.
4. Don't be arrogant, be humble .
5. Don't be carried away by your beauty.. Have you not seen beautiful ladies that are still single till date? Your character keep him.
6. Do not compare him with your EX. there are thousand of other ladies out there. Forget about the past, old things have passed away.
7 . Don't always be at the recieve end, buy him some thing, no matter how little it is, whether he has thousands of it, just buy it, yours is unique.
8. Be industrious, men like ladies with
industrious mind.
9. Respect him and his family members.
10. Be a good cook, learn how to cook something. Some ladies can only cook noodles.
11. Call him when you have credit, don't be a chronic flasher'. don't always wait for him to call.
12. Value yourself, and he will value you.
13. Because he doesn't have today does not make him poor, look at what drives Him.
14. Look out, if he is a time waster or he is for real.
15. Can he "fight" both physically and spiritually for you?
16. Where is He? In God's presence or on the other side.
17. If he stammers, when he is introducing you to friends and family member. Run!
18. What you can't change in him, now that you are dating, am sorry in marriage you won't be able to change it either, or you will spend the rest of your life trying to change him.
19. You are dating and he punches you at every slightest misunderstanding. Sorry, when you marry him, your bed room will be a "changing room" and your sitting-room a "boxing ring"
20. Every little time, he threatens to break up with you, Don't false him. what is meant to be yours is yours.