31/07/2022
Cloe from talks with the Wedding Crashers Club about her wedding day. There's some sage advice below 👇 thanks Cloe!
🌸 When did you get married?
🍭 Sept 2003 - 19 years ago
🌸 What three words would you use to describe your wedding day?
🍭Exhausting
🍭 Exciting
🍭 Extravagant
🌸 What aspect of your wedding did your guests rave about?
🍭 Beach ceremony was beautiful, reception venue (Mills Reef) was huge and amazing, the DJ was awesome
🌸 What is your favourite memory of the day?
🍭 Everyone requesting their favourite song and having a good boogie, the funny speeches, being with those I love.
🌸 What would you do differently if you could?
🍭 Reduce the invite list, and have a smaller scale more intimate ceremony just with our favourite people
🍭 Spend more $ personally on things for me, my husband and special guests, not the masses.
🌸 What advice would you give to newly engaged couples?
🍭 Back when I got married it was about the big wedding, catering for everybody, making sure everyone has a place setting at the venue, the bigger the better, letting parents and family members help choose the guest list.
🍭 Our wedding was grand and the gesture was amazing and it was fun, it cost a lot to have everyone.
🍭 But if I did it all again and 20 years later I’d scale the size way down and make it intimate. A lot of money was forked out on meal plans and place settings as part of a venue package, we didn’t need it, that’s how weddings were done then.
🍭 Make your day special for just the two of you and bring your favourite people along, relax the vibe but still have the fancy dress, grazing food, and seats for people who want to sit occasionally.
🍭 Have fun paying for the exciting add ons like fireworks, dancers, singers, photobooth fun, more entertainment, the fancy frills for the couple, gifts and expense on the wedding night stay, the honeymoon etc. The wedding venue doesn’t need to be grand or expensive, just a gorgeous inviting space to host.
🍭Be creative with where and how you spend money and make it more about your tastes in a fun way, not ‘this is how a wedding should look’.