22/03/2021
It's hard to forgive someone who deeply hurt you --kailanman, lalo't hindi magiging madaling patawrin ang isang tao na hindi humingi ng kapatawaran kahit alam niyang intentional ka niyang sinaktan. Madalas, hindi na nag-sorry, jina-JUSTIFY pa yung maling ginawa!
Forgiveness is a decision you need to make for yourself so you can go forward. Forgiving someone who's never willing to admit that they wronged you makes it more difficult to forgive.
Forgiving someone without expressing a genuine apology doesn't mean it is not hurting --- forgiving someone who offended you doesn't mean that you are obliged for a reconnection.
Forgiveness happens by GRACE.
Forgiveness comes from JESUS.
To forgive is to allow yourself to move forward!
There might be important people or specific person who made you feel confused, complicated or even worthless -- they did nothing but they are in the business of consuming "the best" you can give. They are takers and they don't care what will cost you ---- but on their side hindi sila "willing mag-extend".
Habang binibigay mo yung best mo, tine-take advantage ka. Marahil hanggang ngayon iniisip mo na "baka, ikaw ang may mali",
baka sinisi mo yung sarili mo na "kasalanan mo, you might be too sensitive" kase sinusubukan mong i-reconcile yung relationship, you still want to believe them even if their words are not complimenting their actions.
BUT PLEASE, STOP BEING HARSH ON YOURSELF - it'll never be your fault na may issue sila sa commitment at faithfulness!
If you are still hurting at this time coz you need to let go of someone na naging malaking part ng buhay mo. It's okay to go through the process -- how you feel right now is VALID!
It is better to feel bad and uncomfortable when you let go, rather than holding on but you were not treated the way you supposed to be treated - walang respeto, puro frustrations, ang daming hesitations.
No pain is permanent. May panahon na kailangan mong mag-QUIT. Rather than pagsisihan mo ng habang buhay yung desisyon mo na nag-STAY ka (lifetime suffering yun at mas mahirap yun).
YOU MUST REMEMBER:
Pwede kang magkaroon ng PEACE kahit wounded ka.
Pinalaya ka ni Lord sa maling tao at i-LI-LEAD ka Niya sa taong magmamahal ng buo sa'yo.
YUNG TAONG IINGATAN YUNG PUSO MO,
YUNG TAONG HINDI SISIRAIN YUNG TESTIMONY MO.
YUNG TAONG HINDI I-DEDESTROY YUNG BUHAY MO.
Psalms 147:3
"He heals the brokenhearted and binds up their wounds."
*If there's some of you who are still hurting and not over yet, I really understand how if feels, I can make my inbox available to hear from you, feel free to pour out your heart, hindi ka magisa!
HUGS!