01/02/2026
There is a sign that hangs in my office. The sign says, โRiding a horse is not a gentle hobby to be picked up and put down. It is a grand passion. It seizes a person, and once it has done so, his life will be radically changed.โ I can see this each morning as I check emails and complete office tasks. What does it mean exactly? What does this passion and change look like?
This morning as I was checking my email, I came across a quote from James Clear. If any of you have ever heard of the book, Atomic Habits, he is the author. His inspiration comes to my inbox each week. Todays message was, โImprovements are only temporary, until they become part of who you are.โ He goes on to say, People should not have a goal to run a marathon; they should have a goal to become a runner. People should not learn to play an instrument; they should have a goal to become a musician. As I read, I thought of the many students I have had over the years and the ones I have now. They have dreams of showing, being in the NFR, and doing great things. I also think of the phone calls I get for lessons once a month on my horses. This means, they have not ridden for three weeks in between. This person wants to be a rider, yet they are taking lessons.
As I sat back and thought of the cold winters here in northeastern Pennsylvania, I thought about all the reasons people come up with not to ride. Some people were busy with the holidays, some do not have an arena, some hate the cold, and some just do not ride in the off season. I can relate to every excuse. That is what they are. Building a dream is not only about riding. Building a dream is about the passion it takes to get on your horse at 20 degrees and do some slow work. Building a dream is about being in the arena with your horse, when everyone else is sitting in front of a warm fire. This dream is not about taking riding lessons. This is about the time you are willing to put into riding in between the lessons. This is about becoming a rider.