Pure Romance by Myoshi

03/31/2024

I see you.
I honor you.
I love you.
I will fight for you.

03/25/2024

Thoughts....💗💕💖

You are WORTHY.
You are NEEDED.
You are LOVED.

Inbox open 💕💕💕

02/14/2024

Happy Valentine’s Day Lovers!!!


Did you know that there are four types of love? The Greeks call it Eros, Storge, Philia, and Agape- romantic love, family love, brotherly love, and divine love.


As a true hopeless romantic and a lover of LOVE (all kinds), Valentine’s Day has such a unique meaning to me. Yes, I get it’s a Hallmark “commercialized” holiday blah blah blah blah blah, however for me, it’s an extra day out of the year to just take time and reflect on all the types of love that you have in your life and to appreciate all the love that you receive and that you give. 


If you are single, you are not experiencing Eros's love, but are you blessed with Philia and Storge's love 💕?


I understand that this can be an extremely difficult time of year for some, seasonal depression, being single when wanting a loving romantic relationship, marriage proposals when you are longing for that commitment and security…. It’s incredibly painful and I see you.


However, the MOST IMPORTANT type of love is self-love. Your relationship with yourself is not only the MOST important but it’s the longest relationship you’ll ever have, so take the time to just love on yourself inside and out pour into yourself.

YOU DESERVE IT. 



P.S. If your having a hard time loving on yourself, just know that
I SEE YOU,
YOU ARE VALID, and
I LOVE YOU ♥️💖♥️💖♥️


Relationship Enhancement Specialist Myoshi
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02/11/2024

The phrase "Cake Walk”, like many other racist terms, is ubiquitous in American English. Cake Walks were originally done as entertainment for slave-owning whites. In a Cake Walk, the slave would be dressed in the master’s clothes and made to parade around as if they were members of high white society. The slaves who did the best impression of their masters, won the cake.

It was entertainment and a contest performed under duress and aided only in further humiliating people in bo***ge. Other words and phrases to reconsider: Master Bedroom, Peanut Gallery, Grandfathered In/out, Lynch Mob, blackball, sold down the river, Cup of Joe.

02/07/2024

Megan Roberts Pitts 💖 RomanceByMyoshi 💖

📅 FEB 17TH

Indulge in a celebration of self-love with our Empowered By Self-Love Bo***ir Event! 💫 Whether you’re treating yourself or a loved one, join us for an unforgettable experience that embraces your beauty, strength, and confidence.

📸 BO***IR MINI SESSION: $199

20 Minutes
20 Stunning Edits

♥️ CUSTOM FITTING + LINGERIE PACKAGE: $249

Personalized Fitting
Exclusive Lingerie Set
Luxurious Goodie Bag

🛍️ S*XY PRIVATE SHOPPING EXPERIENCE

🍇🥂 INCLUDES SNACKS, LIBATIONS, + GREAT VIBES

💌 It may be after Valentine’s Day, but you deserve to treat yourself all year long! 💖✨

📍 Exact location revealed to participants in Baltimore.

Secure your spot and celebrate your beautiful self! 🌹✨

***irEvent

02/02/2024

Today is International Sęx Education Day!


The history behind it: In 1919, pastors around the country designated February 2nd “National Social Hygiene Day” and preached about abstinence.


A century later, some sęx educators decided to take February 2nd for our own because we know that abstinence-only education doesn’t work and causes harm.


I got into this work because of my passion for reproductive justice and the lack of sëx education I had in my own upbringing. I truly believe that knowing how your own body works is everyone’s right, and is part of liberation. My work is dedicated to helping people live their most authentic lives and being a certified sëxuål wellness educator makes that work realized.


I’ve been in this field since I was very young and I’m PROUD to be a sęx educator. No amount of censorship, right-wing violence, or church bullshît is ever going to keep me from this work.


It is truly a dream come true to be self-employed and to have my business for the past 8 1/2 years. This work has given me so much beyond my dreams and I can’t wait to see what the future holds.


Thank you ALL for being here and for engaging with my work.

HAPPY SËX EDUCATION DAY!!!!




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02/01/2024

Welp, it's that time of year again:

Black History Month where people will incessantly bring up slavery so let me be the first Black person of 2024 to tell you:

1. BLACK HISTORY DID NOT START WITH SLAVERY.

2. BLACK PEOPLE WERE NOT "SLAVES", THEY WERE ENSLAVED PEOPLE.

3. BLACK HEROES DO NOT START AND END WITH MARTIN LUTHER KING JR AND ROSA PARKS.

Thank you for coming to my Ted Talk.
Happy Black History Month. ✊🏾

Pay Black People.
Venmo- Myoshi26

Relationship Enhancement Specialist Myoshi

01/31/2024

My face knowing that Love Month starts tomorrow and Valentine’s Day is only 2 weeks away and I’m sooooo excited because I’m a true hopeless romantic and Valentine’s Day is my FAVORITE holiday!!!

💖💖💖💖♥️♥️♥️♥️💝💝💝💝



If you know me, you know that I am a true lover of LOVE and I can’t wait to spoil you with amazing new products no matter if you’re a s*xy single or you are in blissful coupledom!!!

😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍



Remember the most important relationship that you’ll ever have is the one with yourself!







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01/25/2024

RELATIONSHIPS ARE BUILT NOT FOUND

As a Relationship Enhancement Specialist,
I teach my clients that intimacy starts as a fragile connection that requires mutual nurturing. Forming a connection with someone is one thing. Putting in the work to make that connection grow is another. ⁣
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We can have all sorts of connections with people - I can have an amazing connection with someone but the important part is - will that connection grow? Will we put in the time, effort, and energy to do the work?
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It’s interesting to hear people expect relationships to happen on the first date with a literal stranger. Most people want their relationships to start off with a bang - some may - but most simply don’t. Just as many start off as a nice connection - nothing earth-shattering - and it is the nurturing of that connection that creates the bang. If it is to grow, it requires many nutrients and a commitment to metaphorically watering it to create growth. ⁣
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Those nutrients are time spent together, curiosity, touch, s*x, shared-experiences, laughter, snuggles, and more verbal/nonverbal communications that say, “I’m interested and want to get to know you.” They may also communicate some version of a shared future. When people work to foster a connection - it grows - it’s actually quite simple. When people don’t put in the effort, are busy with work and friends - it will take a long time, and chances are - it will die off.⁣

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When we start to encounter confusing messages (or no messages) — regardless of the reason why — it’s likely that the connection (if it was even there to begin with) will not grow. It will fade. If we encounter major differences in long-term relationship goals (e.g. one person wants a relationship and the other wants to casually date) this can present major challenges. ⁣

-Relationship Enhancement Specialist Myoshi

01/22/2024

The real flex is healing yourself without becoming those who traumatized you.

- Relationship Enhancement Specialist Myoshi

01/11/2024

Please be kind, your reminder that people are fighting battles that you don’t know.

12/31/2023

As 2023 is coming to a close, I am so damn proud of myself. Whew! The emotional and mental growth that I have experienced this year is probably more than any other year. This year I chose to stand in my truth, I chose to not stay silent or be silenced, and I chose to be my most authentic, vulnerable, raw, version of myself. I chose to cut people out of my life that were dead vines that I was holding onto because of the memories. I chose not to let the fear of loneliness capture me and keep me its prisoner. I chose the harder roads.

There is such a freedom within my spirit and my body to live in such an authentic way, and not let the fear of being “canceled”, ostracized, or not liked control me. I only want to be surrounded by raw, real, transformative, passionate, devastating truth and light. My time and energy is sacred and it will no longer be consumed by people who are wishy-washy about me. I have no time or energy for people who need to “figure it out” about me. I have no time or energy for emotional, mental, and spiritual mosquitoes.

There’s strength in knowing exactly who I am and living that loudly and unapologetically. There’s strength in letting go of the people, thoughts, ideas, and emotions that no longer serve me. And that doesn’t mean that there isn’t a bit of fear, the fear of the unknown is there, but there’s also excitement in that! I’m making room within myself for new opportunities and possibilities.

My wish for you is that in 2024 you join me in the wild abandonment of fear and the chains that hold you down so you can truly LIVE and not just be alive. I pray you find peace within yourself so you can live life fully, passionately, authentically, and abundantly. I’ll pray for you and wish you well. Cheers 🥂

-Relationship Enhancement Specialist
Myoshi 🎉🍾

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12/28/2023

Over and over and over again. ♥️💕

-Relationship Enhancement Specialist
Myoshi

12/22/2023

If you are struggling this holiday season, I hope you know you are not alone 💕

Inbox open ♥️

12/17/2023

The mark of a great leader is to admit when you need help and use the talents of those around you to be a success.

Those that believe that they can do it all on their own will 100% fail at their own peril and arrogance.

That’s why there is a difference between a manager and a leader.

- Relationship Enhancement Specialist Myoshi 

12/06/2023

Holiday host etiquette: If you’re inviting someone to your home and they’re grieving, be sure you’re inviting their grief to attend, too. It will be there, anyway.

Don’t invite someone with the goal of cheering them up for the holidays. Don’t expect them to put on a happy face in your home. Don’t demand they fake it til they make it or do something they don’t want to do, either.

Invite them with the loving intention of offering cheer and companionship and unconditional care during the holidays. To do this, you will need to honor and be responsive to their needs and emotions.

You can do this by privately acknowledging their grief when you make the invitation:

“I know this season is extra hard and you’re heart is hurting. You and your grief are welcome in our home. Come as you are, we’d be honored to have you with us.”

It’s also incredibly loving to honor the reality that it’s often hard for grieving folks to know what they will want, need, be up for, or able to tolerate at the holidays.

Giving them an invite without the need for commitment and permission to change their mind is extra loving:

“You don’t have to decide right now. If it feels good to be with us, we will have plenty of food and love for you-just show up! I’ll check in again the day before to see if you’re feeling up to coming over and if there’s anything you’d like me to know about how we can support you.”

Your grieving friends and fam need attentive care and responsiveness at the holidays, not plans to keep them busy, distracted, and happy.

If they’re laughing, laugh with them.

If they’re weeping, ask if they’d like your company or your help finding a quiet place to snuggle up alone for awhile.

If they’re laughing while weeping, and this is more common than you’d think, stay with them - this is a precious moment of the human experience that is truly sacred.

We don’t need to protect ourselves or each other from grief at the holidays. In fact, the more we embrace grief as an honored holiday guest, the more healthy, happy, and whole our holidays will be. 🙏🏾

12/05/2023

A different kind of holiday cheer! Because building each other up is just as important as building your business.

PureRomance.com/MyoshiSmith

04/22/2023

💕💕💕💕⭐️⭐️⭐️⭐️

I reached a milestone in my business last night with my 60th 5 star ⭐️ review!!!

Being a small business owner is not easy however I love what I do, I love my customers, and I truly feel blessed. If you’ve ever left a review on my business page thank you so much I really appreciate you.

Reviews are CRITICAL to my business because it helps other people find me, it helps potential customers choose me, and it helps me to know what you love so I can continue to do that.

Thank you to my new customers, thank you to my repeat customers, and thank you to those who have referred me. I truly am so grateful 🥲 

04/13/2023

FYI: You DO NOT...I repeat...
YOU DO NOT have to spend money to support a friend promoting a business on social media (although who are we kidding business owners will take that too!

🌺 Know somebody sharing their business on Facebook?? 🌸

❌Don't be annoyed by their posts...

Instead:
• Hit 👍🏾
***Drop a comment as it helps soooooo much more than you may think!
• Ask a question 🤔?
• Maybe even share it 📲!
(DO NOT COPY AND PASTE HIT THE SHARE BUTTON!!!)

Even if you aren't interested, somebody you know might be.

We're all working our butts off for a number of reasons:

✅ Clearing debt 💳
✅ Saving for something BIG 🚗🏡🏖🦄
✅ Time Freedom 🕓🕘🕟
✅ Provide for their family 🚻🚺🚹🚼

We all appreciate the interaction as FB has a thing called algorithms (the more you like, share and comment, the more people see it) - and it helps us build and grow our business so thank you 🥰🥰🥰

Support, Support, Support!!
Thanks for helping my small business 🥰🥰🥰!!

http://www.pureromance.com/myoshismith

02/14/2023

Happy Valentine’s Day Lovers!!!

Did you know that there are four types of love? The Greeks call it Eros, Storge, Philia, and Agape- romantic love, family love, brotherly love, and divine love.


As a true hopeless romantic and a lover of LOVE (all kinds), Valentine’s Day has such a unique meaning to me. Yes, I get it’s a Hallmark “commercialized” holiday blah blah blah blah blah, however for me, it’s an extra day out of the year to just take time and reflect on all the types of love that you have in your life and to appreciate all the love that you receive and that you give. 



If you are single, you are not experiencing Eros's love, but are you blessed with Philia and Storge's love 💕?


I understand that this can be an extremely difficult time of year for some, seasonal depression, being single when wanting a loving romantic relationship, marriage proposals when you are longing for that commitment and security…. It’s incredibly painful and I see you.



However, the MOST IMPORTANT type of love is self-love. Your relationship with yourself is not only the MOST important but it’s the longest relationship you’ll ever have, so take the time to just love on yourself inside and out pour into yourself.

YOU DESERVE IT. 



P.S. If your having a hard time loving on yourself, just know that
I SEE YOU,
YOU ARE VALID, and
I LOVE YOU ♥️💖♥️💖♥️

Relationship Enhancement Specialist Myoshi 🌹🌹🌹

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02/02/2023

Today is International Sęx Education Day!


The history behind it: In 1919, pastors around the country designated February 2nd “National Social Hygiene Day” and preached about abstinence.


A century later, some sęx educators decided to take February 2nd for our own because we know that abstinence-only education doesn’t work and causes harm.


I got into this work because of my passion for reproductive justice and the lack of sëx education I had in my own upbringing. I truly believe that knowing how your own body works is everyone’s right, and is part of liberation. My work is dedicated to helping people live their most authentic lives and being a certified sëxuål wellness educator makes that work realized.


I’ve been in this field since I was very young and I’m PROUD to be a sęx educator. No amount of censorship, right-wing violence, or church bullshît is ever going to keep me from this work.


It is truly a dream come true to be self-employed and to have my business for the past 7 1/2 years. This work has given me so much beyond my dreams and I can’t wait to see what the future holds.


Thank you ALL for being here and for engaging with my work.

HAPPY SËX EDUCATION DAY!!!!




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01/31/2023

My face knowing that Love Month starts tomorrow and Valentine’s Day is only 2 weeks away and I’m sooooo excited because I’m a true hopeless romantic and Valentine’s Day is my FAVORITE holiday!!!

💖💖💖💖♥️♥️♥️♥️💝💝💝💝



If you know me, you know that I am a true lover of LOVE and I can’t wait to spoil you with amazing new products no matter if you’re a s*xy single or you are in blissful coupledom!!!

😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍😍



Remember the most important relationship that you’ll ever have is the one with yourself!






📸: Sparks
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01/21/2023

BMI is BU****IT!
It’s inaccurate, racist, s*xist, and fatphobic af.

“BMI (body mass index), which is based on the height and weight of a person, is an inaccurate measure of body fat content and does not take into account muscle mass, bone density, overall body composition, s*x, and racial differences,” say researchers from the Perelman School of Medicine, University of Pennsylvania.

It’s about time we move on from that so we can give accurate, appropriate and inclusive medical information.

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01/20/2023

“Treat yo’self!” It’s fun, over-the-top, and decadent. Who doesn’t love that?

But there is a big difference between treating yourself and being worthy of it.

You are already worthy. You always are. Nothing you do can ever make that more or less than you are right now.

Treats are wonderful! They bring joy, surprise, and pleasure. Treats are great however, do not confuse them with what you are worthy of ALL THE TIME!

You are always worthy to receive:
* Respect
* Kindness
* Love
* Care and compassion
* Your Dreams

You are inherently worthy of ALL this and more simply by being a human being alive on the planet.
You are kind, smart, and compassionate.

No dream, aspiration, or goal is too big (or too small). You’re worthy of it all. You’re not too old, too young, too stupid, too scared, too much, or too little. You don’t have to earn your worth or prove yourself.

Exactly as you are - you are worthy.

In the words of Lizzo: “In case nobody told you today, you’re special.”

Take a moment right now to feel that.

Now, what is it that you are dreaming about creating in the world? It’s time to start.
Right now.

Of course, there will be moments of hard work. Of course, there will be stumbles and failures. But you are worthy of your best life and it’s time to take a step towards that.

I believe in you. And you are so worthy of all your dreams so why not start now?

Relationship Enhancement Specialist Myoshi

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12/12/2022

As a Relationship Enhancement Specialist, I wish more people knew:

• Not everything is a trauma response.

• You’re not “so OCD” because you like organization, also this is offensive please stop saying this.

• Just because you think someone is terrible, doesn’t mean they’re a narcissist.

• Gaslighting and lying are NOT the same thing.

• You CAN heal from eating disorders.

• Just because you saw something on tiktok doesn’t mean it’s true.

• Mental illness is NOT an excuse for bigotry, racism, homophobia, antisemitism, xenophobia, etc.

• People with mental illness CAN fall in love, have families, maintain careers, & live fulfilling lives.

• You don’t have to be in crisis to go to therapy, it’s also preventative!

• Emotional maturity does NOT come with chronological age - it comes with self-awareness & the ability to self-reflect.

• Someone actively in therapy IS a green flag.

• Learning to apologize properly is one of the best skills you can ever learn.

• Boundaries make relationships better.

• Your energy and time are some of your most precious assets.

• Therapists are human (with lots of fu**ed up s**t of their own), too.

I’m currently accepting new clients who are eager to move forward with their growth, healing, and living a fully authentic life. Message me today if that sounds like you.

- Myoshi

12/01/2022

S*X WORK IS WORK!!!!

We need to stop the discrimination of s*x workers and we need to decriminalize s*x work!!!!

11/21/2022

Happy Monday Lovers!!!

Who is ready to knock out these few days and then get to the eating, drinking, shopping, and partying??? 🙋🏾‍♀️🙋🏾‍♀️🙋🏾‍♀️

11/19/2022

The next time you go in for your s*xual health and wellness visit, remember this checklist from .ashleytownes!


11/16/2022

It's almost time for Pink Wednesday the BIGGEST event of the year!!! Very Limited Doorbusters starting bright and early at 7 am!!! You do not want to miss it.

11/12/2022

Hey Lovers,

I talk to so many of you about self-care and mental health. Sadly, many of us do not take the time to really take care of our mental health (especially those of us that are mothers, wives, business owners, caring for the sick or elderly…) We tend to put everything and EVERYONE before our own wellbeing, thus draining us and leaving an empty cup we try to continuously pour out from. 


Every Saturday will be our self-care Saturday where I will talk about mental health and as always this is a JUDGEMENT FREE ZONE! Know that my inbox is ALWAYS open and I love you! You MATTER!



On November 19th International Men’s Day celebrates worldwide the positive value men bring to the world, their families, and communities. I am so grateful and proud of my male clientele who continue to break the stigma that men can’t seek help. Men make up about 40% of my clients!!!

Just a friendly reminder that men can:

★ have a mental illness
★ have an eating disorder
★ have an addiction
★ feel insecure
★ be bullied
★ feel emotion
★ cry

These things are NOT limited to women.

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11/07/2022

My name is Myoshi Smith and I am a Relationship Enhancement Specialist, Sëxpert, Sensuality Healer, and Sëx Coach. In my practice, I specialize in communication skills, conflict resolution, human sëxuality, the effects of purity culture, kink/ B*D*S*M, and confidence coaching.

There’s A LOT of misconceptions about me and MANY people THINK that they know me, so I thought it would be fun to give 5 fun facts about me that may just surprise you! ☺️😏

1💖. I am a HUGE political nerd 🤓!!! I watch out average anywhere between 3 to 5 hours of political news EVERY SINGLE DAY!!!! I call myself a political ju**ie, the news is my political p**n, and I am FULLY ADDICTED.

2💖. Most people assume that I wear so little clothes because of my sëxuality, however it’s because I’m a nudist. I’ve been a nudist ever since I was about eight or nine. As much as I love fashion, I’d rather be naked ☺️.

3💖. I’m a performance artist. I have been singing dancing and acting since the age of three. As I got older I started writing short stories and poetry.

4💖. My favorite meal is a succulent bone in medium rare rib-eye.

5💖. I have apotemnophobia. I have had a fear of loosing BOTH arms since I was in elementary school, so I started learning how to do many things with my feet to prepare me for a life with no arms.

Which fun fact surprised you most???

- Relationship Enhancement Specialist Myoshi

10/27/2022

To love someone long-term is to attend a thousand funerals of the people they used to be. ✨


The people they are too exhausted to be any longer. The people they don’t recognize inside themselves anymore. The people they grew out of, the people that they never ended up growing into. ✨


We so badly want the people we love to get their spark back when it burns out; to become speedily found when they are lost. ✨


It is not our job to hold anyone accountable to the people they used to be. It is our job to travel with them between each version and to honor what emerges along the way. It’s our job to love them through that journey to hold their hand even if they get lost along the way. ✨


Sometimes it will be an even more luminescent flame. Sometimes it will be a flicker that disappears and temporality floods the room with perfect and necessary darkness. ✨

10/14/2022

October is National Month!
💗💖💕
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Early detection of breast/chest cancer includes doing monthly breast self-exams and scheduling regular clinical breast/chest exams. Learn more about how you can do a self-exam and be the breast you can be below!


I love you & you and your bo***es matter to me!!!





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10/11/2022

It’s National Coming Out Day!!!
🌈 ♥️💙💜💖💛💚🧡

Coming out is not a singular event, nor is it a uniform experience. It can be a long conversation with a loved one or a quick assessment of whether or not to show one’s true self to a stranger. It can be about freedom, and it can be about safety. Coming out is an everyday event—and allyship must be, too.





To my straight friends, neighbors, and allies:

Many of you may know that today is a very special day for those of us in the q***r communities. Today is a day of celebration, others a day of reflection, and for most all of us, a day of solidarity.


Here are a few suggestions in case you’re lucky enough to have someone come out to YOU today. You see, aside from just remembering and celebrating our coming out stories, today is a day when many people begin to come out!


First, congratulations. If you’re someone that a person feels that they can come out to, you’ve clearly done your job of letting those around you know that you’ve got strong convictions and solid values and that those include support - or at least consideration - for LGBTQ people. Thank you!


Secondly, you’re not expected to know anything more about LGBTQ people than you did before this person came out to you. In fact, you may even learn that what you did know wasn’t exactly correct either. It’s okay! Really.


Just take it slow, take time to listen with an open heart, and keep in mind that none of us was immune to bullying, peer pressure, or insecurity. So be prepared to help a friend when they may need you most.





It's also important for us to remember our + loved ones are valid whether they:


🌈 Are out only to themselves.
🌈 Come out only to family and/or friends.
🌈 Come out once, twice, or many times in their lives.
🌈 Come out because they're safe and choose to do so.
🌈 Aren't able to come out, or choose not to, for any reason.


No matter where you're at in your coming out journey, know that I love you and this is a safe space for you.









🌈 *xuals