Sober Sisters Events

11/27/2024

Something to look forward to:

✨ Sober Girls Supper Club - Coming in 2025!✨

Sober Sisters Events would love to meet you ladies at a fun dinner to break some bread. In addition to our other events, we will be meeting for a delicious meal once a month to connect, eat yummy grub, and treat ourselves. We deserve it!

Keep an eye out for the first one - We will announce the location/date/time early every month here and in our newsletter (sign up in my Linktree today!) Please only RSVP if you are able to attend, as reservations will be made based upon headcount received.

Note: You will be responsible for the cost of your meal. We provide the laughs and new friends!

Tag your favorite local dinner spots & places that would love to host our group in the comments below. 👇

Can't wait for a night out with you! ❤️ 🍽️

#2025

11/23/2024

I'll never stop saying it - Connection is the key to this sobriety thing. When you are navigating something this big, you need someone to walk beside you. If you're really lucky, you'll find a few good people to call yours along the way.

On the good days, they celebrate with you. On the bad days, they are there to lift you up and remind you that you can do hard things. This time of the year is really special but can also be tough, and I'm more grateful than ever for my friends who are more like family.

This is your reminder: Put yourself out there and find someone to laugh with, to cry to, and to navigate all the in between beside. You can't do this alone but you aren't meant to. 🤍

Happy Friendsgiving, friends.

11/16/2024

Do you ever feel like an imposter? Like you’re hiding behind this sober facade and you don’t actually belong here? Sometimes, I feel like I’m going to be found out soon.

The truth is, I never thought I would live a sober lifestyle. I never thought I could exist without alcohol as a crutch. My whole identity was wrapped up in that party girl persona.

But I finally did it. I'm doing it. I'm living this beautiful sober lifestyle and I feel the best I ever have. I feel like me again. It just keeps getting better.

When you are feeling out of place, remember this. We are all exactly where we should be. I belong here. You belong here too. Keep going. 🫶

11/12/2024

Did you miss our last volunteer event? Well, you're in luck because we have another one coming up - right in time for the holidays! Giving back makes us feel good. In this way, being of service to others can serve as self-care and a means of relapse prevention for those in recovery.

So, what are we doing? We will be getting busy in the warehouse packing up food items for supply boxes at Nourish Up (formerly Loaves & Fishes) on Saturday, Dec 14th from 9-11am and we need your help! Grab a ticket below or through my Linktree so I know you're joining the squad! We can't wait to get together and make a difference in our community. ❤️‍🩹

https://www.eventbrite.com/e/nourish-up-volunteer-event-tickets-1077652651089?utm-campaign=social&utm-content=attendeeshare&utm-medium=discovery&utm-term=listing&utm-source=cp&aff=ebdsshcopyurl

11/01/2024

Sometimes, I feel like I need to write something profound about sobriety to prove its value. The truth is, sobriety speaks for itself. Who I am today versus who I was when I was drinking are two vastly different individuals. That is a fact.

Since I stopped drinking, I'm more energetic, motivated, confident, patient, and present. My mind is clear and my body is healthy. I am so much stronger. I trust myself and the decisions I'm making because I know I'm doing so rationally, without clouded judgement. I sleep like a baby and wake up feeling rested most every day.

I keep my promises. I honor my boundaries. My emotions are felt deeply and I allow space for all of them. I know this journey isn't linear and I'm forever a work in progress. I'm leaning into the growth, as scary as it may be. I'm an all around better human these days.

I am the living proof. Heavy emphasis on the LIVING. 🙌🏼 If you need more convincing, you'll just have to try it out for yourself. I promise you'll never regret a single sober day. I dare you to prove me wrong. ❤️

10/18/2024

What do you see when you look at this picture? I'll go first. I spy three badass women with one common goal. We are all out here representing the sober and recovery community, creating safe spaces, inclusive to all. We are shattering negative stigmas about addiction and having fun while doing it.

If you are on this journey and craving connection, we are your people. Whether you are into sound baths and yoga OR roller skating and cooking classes are more your thing, we've all got something for you. Step outside of your comfort zone and try something new! You have nothing to lose and lots of new friends to gain.

⭐️ If you are in the Pittsburgh, PA area, you can follow along with Teetotal Initiative to stay up to date on their awesome events.

⭐️ If you live in the Charlotte, NC area, follow along with Beyond Sober and come back here often for updates too - We've got you covered!

This transformative journey is not to be traveled solo & people need people. Come find yours - Can't wait to see you soon! ❤️

10/15/2024

Absolutely loved getting to chat with Shelby John about all the things - We discuss sobriety and the many ways that plays into parenting such as creating boundaries, healthy coping mechanisms, and breaking generational trauma. I'm proud to be a part of this community alongside other strong women who aren't afraid to share their truth. Give it a listen when you have a chance! 🎙️

https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/confident-sober-women/id1537118591?i=1000673151972

Podcast Episode · Confident Sober Women · 10/15/2024 · 57m

10/07/2024

Times are tough right now and we are all feeling it. This week, we have some opportunities to connect, recharge, and give back to our community in a positive way. It's okay to take a break for yourself. We need each other now, more than ever. I hope to see you out there! ❤️

10/01/2024

This month, dubbed “Sober October,” is a chance to take a break from alcohol much like many people do during “Dry January.” It’s a time to reset and refresh your mind, body, and spirit, without all the spirits. If you are sober curious or just feel like taking a breather would be nice, you should give it a try! You have nothing to lose but will gain so much in the process.

🍁 You will witness the changing of the leaves AND your energy levels all at once.
🍁 Inhaling the crisp morning air without a hangover is the best way to start your day.
🍁Fireside hangs are always a good time and made even better with delicious NA beer, hot chocolate, cider, or some relaxing nighttime tea.  
🍁You can visit pumpkin patches, go apple picking, and check out all the haunted houses (if you dare) while being present and remembering every moment of it.

The season is changing and so are you. Embrace it- what a beautiful thing!

09/24/2024

SO pumped for this next collab event with the insanely talented Lauren Nixon! Come join us for some blacklight Chakti Yoga on Thursday, October 10th at 6:30pm. You can expect a dynamic movement practice, connection through asana & rhythm, and a feeling of total empowerment! 💪🏼

Body paint, glow sticks, and complimentary refreshments including delicious Lenny Boy Brewing Co. kombucha will be provided. Bring your yoga mat and arrive as early as 6:00pm to mingle with the other yogis!

Direct link is in my bio and below- Use the discount code SOBERSISTERS for $10 off your ticket!

https://app.arketa.co/chakti/checkout/kIeEZ7Szogxy3lYQ9uNG

I cannot wait to see you there! 🧘‍♀️ 💃 🎨 💥

09/23/2024

Alcohol is an abusive partner. The ultimate stage five clinger.

No matter how many times I told him to go away, he would always find me. We would have one great night together and I would think to myself that maybe he had changed. Okay, fine. Let's give it another shot. Just like that, he was back in my life. He never gave up. His persistence was unmatched.

He was wild, unpredictable, yet there was something comforting about him that always lured me back in. That comfort always led to chaos and the nice guy act was all a facade. That relationship was the definition of insanity and until I cut ties with him for good, it always would be.

Alcohol left me bruised and broken at times. It left me feeling worthless and filled with regret. It made me feel like I was the crazy one. As it turns out, it was the alcohol all along. Every bad thing that happened could be traced right back to him. The idea that I could ever change someone so toxic, that was truly crazy.

The break up stung at first. I missed him. I thought I needed him to be a complete person. What would life be like without him? Was he really all that bad? I was terrified. I questioned myself constantly but I always circled back to the facts. The truth is, he took away so many beautiful pieces of me.

It is only now that I am becoming whole again, regaining everything I lost along the way and putting the pieces back together one by one. The more time I spend away from him, the stronger I feel. Hindsight is 20/20 and my vision is no longer blurry. I don't have to look over my shoulder because he no longer holds the power. I do. And I'm never, ever giving it back.

09/14/2024

We celebrate sobriety over here every single day but today, let's make it official. September 14th is National Sober Day, a day to support, encourage, reflect, and inspire. Sobriety is hands down the best gift I have ever given myself. It's the greatest act of self-love out there. The ultimate life hack.

It may feel like it's out of reach, but I promise you, it isn't. If I can do this, so can you. If you are struggling, please know that there is light at the end of the tunnel and there are helpful resources available to you. All you have to do is ask. 🫶

09/12/2024

I hope that sharing my story helps at least one of you realize you are not alone in this. Keep going. ❤️

Why did my drinking become problematic when others can take it or leave it? To find  the answer, I needed to start from the beginning. Speaking with my therapist recently, I  traced my trauma back multiple generations. I could not have avoided addiction even if I  had trie

09/11/2024

It's fall (regardless of the weather) and that means it's time to cozy up and drink delicious coffee! Why not do that with some new friends? Join SSE at our next event for a coffee tasting on Saturday, September 28th at 1pm! We'll be at Biggby Coffee in Pineville, NC sipping on four fall inspired beverages along with some tasty treats to grub on. Come as you are and let's connect over a flight of delicious coffee! Tickets are available now on Eventbrite, in Linktree, and posted below. 🍁 ☕️

https://www.eventbrite.com/e/coffee-connection-with-sober-sisters-events-tickets-1005379776977?utm-campaign=social&utm-content=attendeeshare&utm-medium=discovery&utm-term=listing&utm-source=cp&aff=ebdsshcopyurl

09/03/2024

Check these out this week! ❤️

Join us ✨THIS WEEK✨ for several free sobriety support meetings. If you’re curious what happens at a meeting we’ve got 4 going on this week, starting today!

✨Tuesday Sept. 3 with Jamie Armstrong

✨Weds Sept. 4 with Janell Sklapsky

✨Thursday Sept. 5

✨Friday Sept. 6 with

Share with any family or friends who could use the support.

Registration is required, though the meetings are all free. Link in bio and stories. 🔗

See you there!

08/30/2024

My therapist recently asked "What is considered fun anymore?" It got me thinking. I used to think alcohol was the fun factor. I could be anywhere, doing any old thing, as long as alcohol was involved. Most of the time, I wasn't actually doing anything at all. I prided myself on being "down for whatever" but in reality, I was just down for the booze. I didn't get it. Now I do. ALCOHOL DOESN'T MAKE IT FUN. The fun makes it fun. The real stuff.

The people you're with.
The activity you're doing.
The laughs you're sharing.
The conversations you're having.
And all the little moments in between.

Friday facts: If it's not fun without the alcohol, then it's probably just not fun at all.

08/28/2024

So here for this! And super proud that someone is using their platform to bring awareness and make this space more inclusive! 👏

https://people.com/summer-house-carl-radke-opens-up-about-his-upcoming-non-alcoholic-bar-exclusive-8701705?

'Summer House' star Carl Radke tell PEOPLE about Soft Bar + Café, a new business that will offer non-alcoholic drinks for 'mindful consumption.' It is expected to open in January 2025.