Don’t get me wrong… I am a huge fan of tradition. But watching these two dance to this ‘non-traditional’ song for their first dance last night was so them and I am even more into that!
Sophia and Adam are such fun humans… separately and together. It only made sense that they kicked off dancing with this kind of energy.
And trust me, they maintained it for the next 4 hours!
Also, it’s a yes to the Disco Ball for me… 💯 of the time.
Content Creator: @contentbyaudra
Photographer: @victoriabeardsleephoto
DJ: @djtonymuzzin of @norcalprosound
Venue: @treposti_events
Floral: @steele__designs
HMUA: @beauty_on_set
Coordination: @joyeuxevents @cesweddingsandevents
#weddingplanner #firstdance
Maybe it’s just me, but there seems to be this unspoken expectation that success in the wedding industry means ‘luxury’. I’ve been in this industry for 18 years and have made some amazing connections with vendors that service all markets.
Personally, I have felt so much pressure (mostly internal) to reach for success in the luxury market. The travel, the budgets, the people…it all seems so cool! And it probably is!
As I’ve spent the last few weeks out of the office for fun and remote work, I’ve really taken some time to think through this idea…and look internally to find my definition of success.
Just like in real estate, there are agents who work with luxury homes, those that work in the middle range, and those that sell/represent budget properties.
Agents can experience the same success in all 3 markets even though they look really different. I’ve never really thought anything different of that profession.
What I’ve come to recognize is that success isn’t about the biggest budgets or the most feature-able clients. It’s really about joy and satisfaction. For some vendors that is working with exclusive clients with larger budgets. For others, it’s about helping people stretch their dollar and get crafty. For me, it’s about partnering with couples who want to create an experience that is a reflection of who they are in the world. It’s about love, connection, beauty, celebration, and joy.
You see, I’m like the realtor that’s working with the family looking for their forever home. The one that gives you allllthefeels and that you see your future in. For me, that’s success.
If you’re a wedding vendor, is this something you have also struggled with? How do you define success for YOU?
Cover photo: @kelseaholderphoto - Happy (almost) Anniversary to two of my favorite clients ever. I love you Mayberry’s!
So often couples focus on the financial cost of vendors they are considering. I would invite you to focus on the total value. Not just the cost of their product or service, but the value they can add through their presence.
After almost 2 decades in this industry, we have worked with all kinds of personalities in all kinds of environments. You can literally feel the magic when your vendor team is connected and in sync, not just with each other, but with you! The energy is palpable. 😍
As professionals, your vendors (should) always deliver, but, if you take things a step further and consider how you will feel interacting with these people on one of the most important days of your life, that is a value that can’t be monetized.
You spend so much time thinking about the guests that you want there (or don’t want there)… I would consider it equally important to pick vendors who you will be excited to see. Vendors that make you feel heard, supported, and safe.
It’s not to say that your wedding won’t be fantastic if you focus more on generic criteria. But how amazing would it be to feel like everyone at your wedding is a friend. 👯♀️
This is my BTS video of @katekennedyweddings and her usual wedding day shenanigans.
Cover photo: @katekennedyweddings
#weddingplanner #weddingpro
Top 3 tips for planning a wedding or event ⬇️⬇️⬇️
1. Decide on your guest list and budget.
Don’t just talk about it, put pen to paper. Often, the numbers shift once you start really putting the work in.
2. Identify your top 2-3 priorities.
Planning large scale events require many choices and if you start the process with your top must haves, then it helps you make decisions along the way.
3. Consider your team.
Just like any industry, professionals make the process easier and often a more positive experience. From planners, to caterers, and even DJ’s/Bands, your money, and time, go further when you trust the people with expertise.
While hiring a planner used to be considered a luxury, I look at it like a realtor’s role in the house buying process. These are milestone events. Sure, you can read articles, watch videos, and probably purchase a house on your own, but would you really want to risk your time and financial investment?
Professional planners know the ins and outs of what events take, what vendors provide, and are experts in relationships and time management. They make the process more enjoyable and deliver a more polished end product. And just like a realtor, they become a trusted partner in the process.
#weddingplanner #protip
Often, people say to me, “I could never do what you do!” Whether it be because of the level of organization or detail, the emotions of the people invested in the day, the budgets, etc., to some, our job seems ‘overwhelming’.
The reality is it’s REALLY FREAKING FUN! And for me, this feels like a calling. I get to use my skills and talents to help make one of a lifetime events happen. How freakin cool is that. It is such an honor!
Yes, it is exhausting, often emotional, and we’re always dehydrated and likely hungry. Most of the time we haven’t gone to the bathroom in 8-10 hours. Yes, there are hard moments, and there are people that take a bit more energy than others…but it has never made me question if this is where I should be.
If you are getting married, you should look for vendors who LOVE what they do. After all, we are at a party…for our job! 🎉
Vendors - what do you think?!?
#weddingplanner #weddingindustry
PRO TIP: Occasionally we have clients who just want to get the engagement shoot done and out-of-the-way for the save the dates.
Our recommendation is that you spend a little time deciding on the Photographer that you want to shoot your wedding day and schedule an e-sesh with them.
Not only will you get a taste of how you look through their lens… But you’ll start creating a connection that will absolutely make a difference on your wedding day! You spend the most time with your photographer on your wedding day…make sure you like them!
#weddingplanner #weddingadvice
PRO TIP: Occasionally we have clients who just want to get the engagement shoot done and out-of-the-way for the save the dates.
Our recommendation is that you spend a little time deciding on the Photographer that you want to shoot your wedding day and schedule an e-sesh with them.
Not only will you get a taste of how you look through their lens… But you’ll start creating a connection that will absolutely make a difference on your wedding day! You spend the most time with your photographer on your wedding day…make sure you like them!
#weddingplanner #weddingadvice
Getting into the Christmas Spirit at the annual Avenue of Lights in Orland, CA. Such a sweet, small town tradition with my 3 favorite people! ❤️🎄✨
#smalltownchristmas #tistheseason #happyholidays #avenueoflights #christmaslights
Check out these moments of sweetness captured at yesterday's wedding by @musejuiceweddings!!!
CONGRATS again to Christine and Matt!!! xoxo
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Congratulations Mr. and Mrs. Freitas! It was such a beautiful day and a wonderful celebration!
Follow facebook.com/MuseJuiceMedia to watch Matt and Christine's wedding highlight film as soon as it's released!
Venue: @whiteranchevents
Wedding Coordinator: @cesweddingsandevents
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While we were up in the canyon...@alisha_cesevents and her team were at a beautiful backyard wedding in #chico!!! Check out this video of the father/daughter dance!!!
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This bride and her dad rocked their #fatherdaughterdance!
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