03/27/2024
Why am I single? I get asked this all the time. Here is my answer.
I am single because I have had men to come into my life portraying to be something they are not. They say they are tired of playing and cheating, but still play and cheat. They say they want a faithful woman but can't handle the love and intensity that comes with it. They say they want a wife but don't know what wife material is. They don't want so and so, but still dealing with them. I'm tired of covering up lies, but still lie. I am tired of the bull.
I am tired of boys claiming to be a real man when they depend on their mother/ brother/ sister /father to handle everything in their life financially, physically & mentally except for s*x. I'm tired of males saying their independent when they are really looking to live free with a female with no real employment to help with the bills. I'm tired of hearing a male say they want to be with you but behind your back they are stealing $$/clothing etc... from you. I'm tired of males saying they don't do certain things like smoking anything, drink alcohol, or use any drugs but after spending time with them they do it all or some of it. I'm tired of a male saying they want / dont mind having a ready made family but in reality they don't I want any children nor do they take care of their own children.
I would rather be alone than to be tied down with bs and misery. No one is looking for love, they are looking for security and a good time. I know what I want and need in my life. I'm not settling for nothing less. I am looking for someone to assist in encouragement of making me a better person and my family Mentally, Physically, Spiritually, Financially & Emotionally and I do the same for them. That's why I'm single. I'm tired of healing broken men only to be left broken and have to heal myself. !!!!!!!
