01/10/2024
Real talk.
I’ve been very out of tune with my social media lately (more on “lately” in a different post). It’s probably my least favorite part of this job, but that’s show biz baby. Right?
It’s not the only thing that’s going to help my business grow, but it sure as heck helps. Y’all know that. I know that.
My issue with Instagram hasn’t necessarily been the work I have to put into it, but this need I’ve created in my own brain to feel like I’m posting stuff that’s really creative, disruptive, or thought-provoking. It’s gotta be groundbreaking to be worth it. Everyone else is sharing content that’s jaw-dropping, everyone else is thriving in business while also being awesome mothers and wives and friends, and on and on and on and on.
It’s the constant need to feel like I’m posting to keep up with people. I need more content. I need to make reels so my work can be noticed with a wider audience. I need to show everyone how awesome I am both as a business owner and a mom and a wife and just a human in general 😂
Nah. What I NEED is to:
1. stop comparing myself to everyone else
2. show up and be authentic
We all know that so many people post all the sugary goodness that their lives are on social media. And honestly, GOOD FOR YOU. I mean that. If you’re rockin’ and living an A+ life and you are thriving and happy every dang day… I love that for you. But today I decided that seeing all that just makes me feel really crummy about myself. It shouldn’t, but it does 🤷🏼♀️ and that’s just the cold hard truth.
So, I’m starting to mute other business owners and even FRIENDS that I have found I unintentionally compare myself to. Not because I don’t like you or because I don’t love seeing your stuff, but literally so I can stop the stinking comparisons and just focus on being me and being real with myself and my audiences.
More to come from me in the near future that’s real, and raw both personally and professionally. If y’all don’t love it, that’s okay. You can mute me too, and we can still be friends 😘 I have a theory that real and relatable might be easier for couples to connect with anyhow… so let’s test it out, why don’t we?