She Did That Events LLC

10/29/2024

Save the Date! The Purple Gala

Mark your calendars for the 10th Annual Purple Gala on October 4, 2025, and the impactful Purple Brunch on October 5, 2025!

This year's Purple Gala marks a decade of raising awareness about Domestic Violence and its impact on families, friends, communities, workplaces, and beyond. Join us as we prepare for an extraordinary, over-the-top black and purple affair to commemorate this milestone.

If you’re interested in joining the planning committee to help make this year’s event unforgettable, please email Tina Torres at [email protected] or call 803-814-5173.

Don’t miss out! The Purple Brunch will once again focus on teen and young adult dating violence, offering a safe space for learning, connection, and support.

Save the dates and be ready to join us in making a difference!

10/28/2024

ELOPEMENT MAGIC ALERT WITH The Red Head Officiant!

Are you dreaming of an intimate, unforgettable elopement? Look no further! With The Red Head Officiant by your side, you’ll have a ceremony that is uniquely you — authentic, warm, and crafted with love.

Here's why booking The Red Head Officiant is a must:

Personal Touch: Your ceremony is tailored to your story, filled with laughter, love, and unforgettable moments.

Nationwide Service: Wherever your love takes you, The Red Head Officiant is ready to travel with you, making your dream location a reality.

Passion & Expertise: With years of experience and a genuine love for officiating, The Red Head Officiant brings the perfect mix of professionalism and heartfelt dedication.

From mountaintops to beaches, let’s make your special day one for the books! Book now and start this incredible journey with an officiant who understands what makes love stories worth celebrating! www.shedidthatevents.com or call 803-814-5173

10/25/2024

This past Saturday, October 19th, I had the honor of officiating the beautiful Sanders wedding in Bamberg, SC. It was absolutely amazing, and I couldn't be more grateful to have been part of such a special day.

One thing about me: I create personalized vows that truly speak to the hearts of the couples I work with. It’s something I take great pride in because I believe your love story deserves to be told in the most meaningful way.

If you're looking for an officiant who values the significance of your day, genuinely loves love, and holds your special moment close to their heart, look no further. Choose The Red Head Officiant, and let’s make your wedding unforgettable! ❤️

10/21/2024

Food Banks:

2491 Emanuel Church Rd, West Columbia, SC 29170, USA 803-755-9857 https://elcwc.org/home [email protected] Food Pantry, 3rd Tue, 10am – 12pm EMMANUEL FOOD PANTRY The Food Pantry here at Emmanuel Lutheran is open on the third Tuesday of every month from 10:00 am to 12:00 pm. We are committed to servin...

10/21/2024

Food Banks:

Feeding the Carolinas is all over. See attached for a location near you:

10/21/2024

Food Bank:

PALSS
Food Pantry

PALSS maintains a Food Pantry to assist our consumers in emergency situations. The food pantry is stocked with nutritious fresh and canned foods, staples, snacks and beverages. Our food pantry features a large refrigerator and freezer to maintain perishable items.

Clients who are in active case management with PALSS can access the Food Pantry every 30 Days. The PALSS Food Pantry is open for services Monday thru Friday from 8:30am-4:30pm.

The Food Pantry is supported by generous donations from the AIDS Benefit Foundation, individual and corporate donations to the Terry Fund and other donations from the Community. We accept donations of perishable and nonperishable food items during regular business hours. Please contact our staff at 803.779.7257 or at [email protected] for more information or to schedule drop-off of contributions.

PALSS maintains a Food Pantry to assist our consumers in emergency situations. The food pantry is stocked with nutritious fresh and canned foods, staples,

10/21/2024

Food Bank:

Christian Life Church
Helping our Community Emergency Food Pantry

We believe that no one in our community should go hungry. Our church's food pantry is open every Monday from 12:30-3:30 p.m. All families that live in Richland and Lexington counties are welcome to come and pick up needed items every other week. Please bring a form of ID with you.

We believe that no one in our community should go hungry. Our church's food pantry is open every Monday from 12:30-3:30 p.m. All families that live in Richland and Lexington counties are welcome to come and pick up needed items every other week. Please bring a form of ID with you.

10/21/2024

Food Bank:

Northstar Center of Hope Food Pantry is open to the community:

Forest Acres Location
Thursdays
10:00 AM - 12:00 Noon
2nd Saturdays
10:00 AM - 12:00 Noon

Northeast Location
4th Saturdays
10:00 AM - 12:00 Noon

NorthStar Center of Hope offers a weekly food pantry to our community. We are a FoodShare location and provide fresh vegetables grown in our on location garden.

10/21/2024

Food Bank:

The Cooperative Ministry's Emergency Food Pantry

If you cannot get to a food bank providing bags of food, you may receive emergency food from The Cooperative Ministry, Monday-Thursday, 9 a.m. to 2 p.m. Please bring photo identification and a Social Security Card. Please come to the clothing bank entrance and ring the doorbell. Someone will assist you.

The Cooperative Ministry provides food vouchers to select area food banks and provides short-term emergency food items from its small pantry.

10/21/2024

Thanksgiving Drives:

There are several organizations doing different things during the holidays for families and individuals. This year, She Did That Community Advocate Foundation will donate, volunteer and share upcoming projects to assist with getting the word out.

The JoO Foundation is doing their annual turkey drive and giveaway. Follow their page for information. The goal is to feed at least 200 families as they have the past 7 years. Reach to Tee Owens to see how you are able to assist.

Pearlz of Excellence of Sigma Tau Sigma Sorority, Inc. is having a Thanksgiving Basket Food Drive. If you are able to donate non-perishable items to help create at least 100 baskets to give to families and individuals in need. Follow their page or reach out to Jacinda McDuffie or Bridgette D. Williams for more information on how you can help.

I will also post food banks as well to help anyone in need.

10/09/2024

Understanding the Impact of Childhood Trauma from Domestic Violence

Childhood trauma from witnessing domestic violence can have deep, long-lasting effects that reach far beyond childhood. When children witness violence between their parents, caregivers, or other adults, they are exposed to emotional, psychological, and sometimes physical harm. This trauma can significantly shape the way they perceive relationships, trust, and safety as they grow into adulthood.

Domestic violence has far-reaching effects, especially on the youngest and most vulnerable among us. However, by recognizing the signs of trauma, fostering open dialogue, and providing the necessary support, we can help children, teens, and adults heal. We can break the cycle and create a future where relationships are built on trust, respect, and love. Let's work together to guide our young people towards healthier, happier futures.

She Did That Community Advocate Foundation

10/09/2024

Special Shout....OUT:

How do you say thank you in a million ways to Kiwan N. Fitch Mba? I really wish I knew! She just dropped two new candles, and I’m still waiting to place my order. Kiwan is an absolutely amazing person with a heart so big and so pure. She cares deeply and always speaks her truth, even when it’s something you need to hear for your own good. Her creativity and fun approach to making things happen are unmatched—she’s truly phenomenal, and I’m beyond blessed that God saw fit to let me be the big kid who gets to bother her every day. She’s always there for the people, never lets anything rattle her, and keeps those closest to her from sweating the small stuff. I’m so grateful for her sistership! 💜

10/09/2024

The Red Head Mixer - Where Signature Drinks & Flairs Meet Fun!

Any place, any time, and any theme—you dream it, I'll mix it! With amazing flavors, smoked drinks, and crafty cocktails, let us take your party to the next level! Whether you're going for classic elegance or something wild and unique, The Red Head Mixer will serve up signature cocktails with a twist!

You're Busy Planning A Party... Let She Did That Events LLC Handle The Bar!
As an expert bartender, I am fully trained, certified, and covered by liquor and general liability insurance, ready to make your event unforgettable!

We provide everything for a full-service bar:
✅ Specialty Drink Design
✅ Alcohol Ordering or Support
✅ Portable Bar Setup
✅ Ice, Soda, Mixers, Garnish, Cups & Napkins
✅ Talented, Experienced Staff

Whether it’s a wedding, corporate event, or intimate gathering, we’ll craft the perfect cocktails to match your theme and taste.

Call 803-814-5173 and let The Red Head Mixer serve you something smooth today!

10/08/2024

Hey there, fabulous folks!

Allow me to reintroduce myself – I'm Tina D. Torres, the powerhouse behind the She Did That Community Foundation and the proud owner of She Did That Events. 💪 I wear many hats, including being a Wedding Officiant, Guardian Ad Litem for CASA Richland County, and a certified Mental Health First Aid Responder for Adults. Oh, and did I mention I'm also a Certified Empowerment and Transformation Coach? 🌈

I'm a Motivational Speaker specializing in Child and Teen Trauma, Domestic Violence, Sexual Assault, and Teen Pregnancy. 🎤 When it comes to stepping into impossible situations, just call me the Olivia Pope of my world – "It's handled!" 💼

I’m passionate about people, spreading love, and offering comforting hugs. And on top of all that? I'm also "The Red Head Mixer" – bringing the perfect cocktail mix to the table, shaking things up with style. 🍸

And yes, I’m in love with LOVE... as simple as that! 💖

Stay tuned for more updates and feel free to reach out if you need someone who’s got your back, mixing the perfect cocktail or a moment of support. 🌎✨

www.shedidthatevents.com
803-814-5173
[email protected]

10/08/2024

💜DOMESTIC VIOLENCE MYTHS VS TRUTH

Domestic violence is a complex issue, and there are several myths and misconceptions that surround it. These misconceptions can perpetuate harmful stereotypes and make it challenging for survivors to seek help. Here are some common domestic violence myths and the corresponding truths:

Myth 1: Domestic violence only involves physical abuse. Truth: Domestic violence includes various forms of abuse, such as emotional, psychological, financial, sexual, and even spiritual or cultural abuse. Physical violence is just one aspect of it.

Myth 2: Domestic violence only affects women. Truth: Domestic violence can affect people of any gender, including men. It's important to recognize that anyone can be a victim of domestic violence, and support services should be available to all survivors.

Myth 3: Domestic violence only happens in heterosexual relationships. Truth: Domestic violence occurs in all types of relationships, including same-sex relationships. It is not limited to heterosexual couples.

Myth 4: Victims of domestic violence can easily leave the abusive relationship. Truth: Leaving an abusive relationship is often a complex and dangerous process. Victims may face numerous obstacles, including financial dependence, fear of retaliation, and concerns about child custody.

Myth 5: Domestic violence is a private matter. Truth: Domestic violence is a crime, and it should not be treated as a private matter. It affects not only the individuals involved but also the community. It's essential to report and address it.

Myth 6: Victims of domestic violence provoke or deserve the abuse. Truth: No one ever deserves or provokes abuse. Blaming the victim is unfair and incorrect. The responsibility lies with the abuser.

Myth 7: Abusers are always visibly aggressive or violent. Truth: Abusers can be charming and manipulative, making it difficult for others to recognize the abuse. Not all abusers exhibit overt aggression.

Myth 8: Restraining orders are always effective in protecting victims. Truth: While restraining orders can provide some level of protection, they are not foolproof. Abusers may violate them, and victims still need other forms of support and safety measures.

Myth 9: Domestic violence only happens in low-income or uneducated households. Truth: Domestic violence occurs in households across all socio-economic backgrounds and education levels.

Myth 10: Domestic violence is always about physical violence. Truth: Domestic violence can be primarily non-physical, such as emotional or financial abuse. It's essential to recognize these other forms of abuse.

Challenging these myths and promoting accurate understanding of domestic violence is crucial to supporting survivors and working towards its prevention and intervention.

10/08/2024

Domestic violence has far-reaching effects, especially on the youngest and most vulnerable among us. However, by recognizing the signs of trauma, fostering open dialogue, and providing the necessary support, we can help children, teens, and adults heal. We can break the cycle and create a future where relationships are built on trust, respect, and love. Let's work together to guide our young people towards healthier, happier futures. 💜💜💜💜💜💜

10/07/2024

Thank You for Supporting The Purple Brunch!

This year's event was focused on raising awareness about the rising issue of dating violence among teens and young adults. We were honored to listen to their voices and learn how we can better support them while also exploring the steps to becoming effective advocates.

A huge thank you to our incredible speakers: Dorlisa Adams, Teia Burroughs, and her amazing daughter Nicole Weston. Your insight and courage made a tremendous impact.

Special thanks to Ursula Robinson and her talented drama students from South Carolina State University for their powerful enactment of a domestic violence scenario involving young adults. The performance touched hearts and reminded us how dating violence affects not only couples but also their families.

We were blessed to have delicious food from Tati’s Island Cuisine, luscious desserts from The Dessert Bar Boutique Bakery and Catering, and refreshing drinks from Mixxed Beverages' Hydration Station. Undying Xpressionz for those amazing photos we will see but your committment to always showing up! Chain of Events for the decor...AYE! Venue817 for hosting this year's brunch made it that much easier to help more teens and young adults. Christopher Hopkins for allowing us to use your PA system. Your contributions helped make this event memorable!

Thank you Kiwan N. Fitch Mba, Sierra Artemus, Dana Deveraux, Danielle Pink, Jessica Burton, Keri Myleka McKelvey, Bridgette D. Williams, Ladonna Jackson Bennett for all you did to make this happen!!!!

Gratitude also goes to Saint John Baptist Church, 3404 West Beltline Blvd.,Columbia SC for providing the valuable Teen Dating Violence pamphlet, which deepened our understanding of what is needed to protect and support our youth. And thank you to Friendly Atmosphere Mentoring - FAMr for being apart of the panel!

To the teens, young adults, parents, advocates, and supporters who attended—thank you for your energy, participation, and commitment. We hope to see you again next year on Sunday, October 5, 2025.

Let’s continue to raise our voices because domestic violence must stop, and it needs to stop now!

10/07/2024

Thank You for an Unforgettable Night at the 9th Annual Purple Gala

On Saturday, October 5th, we came together for an amazing night, and we want to express our heartfelt thanks to everyone who made the event a huge success! From the beautiful people in attendance to the incredible food and desserts by The Dessert Bar Boutique Bakery and Catering, and the perfect ambiance provided by Venue817, it was a night to remember. Special shout-out to Chain of Events for the stunning decor, and to Wicked Liquid Enterprise, LLC for the top-notch bar service. The Hydration Station was a refreshing addition, bringing an extra touch of excellence provided by Mixxed Beverages and Catering.

Of course, Christopher Hopkins and the Soul Sessions Band kept the energy high with music that had us dancing until we couldn’t dance anymore! A special thanks to our Emcees: Kiwan N. Fitch Mba, Co-Founder of the Purple Gala, and Kei'ona Kei'Yona Jordon from WACHFox 57, for their wonderful hosting.

We extend our deepest gratitude to our speakers: Sierra Artemus, Kawiana Young, Romelo Love, and Whitney Alexus Brià Weeks, for sharing their powerful words. We were also honored to have Ursula O. Robinson and her incredible drama students from South Carolina State University, who delivered a moving performance, reminding us of the deep impact domestic violence has on all generations. Unfortunately, Tangie Brickhouse-Beaty Playwright was unable to join only because she was sick. Otherwise she was Ready!

Thank you to Undying Xpressionz for capturing the most memorable moments of the night with stunning photography. We are also grateful to Saint John Baptist Church, 3404 West Beltline Blvd.,Columbia SC for their sponsorship and look forward to future partnerships! Thank you to Javar Juarez for the amazing article he created on The Purple Gala!

Special thanks to Kasha Kay of Pressed'bout'Me LLC and Roger Brasley for making sure the team looked fabulous, and to our Board of Directors and THE TEAM: Lanita Carson Jones, Jessica Burton, and Keri Myleka McKelvey—you all went above and beyond to make the night magical.

A heartfelt thank you to my daughters, family, and friends for their unwavering support. Your kind words, encouragement, and thoughtful gestures pushed me through the toughest moments and reminded me to never give up.

Thank you to our sponsors and supporters: The South Carolina Juneteenth Freedom Fest, Stephanie Jacobs and Family, A Voice for Jayy Sarah, Brazilian Wax and Spa by Claudia, Rosalind Chamberlain and The Casual Den, Mr.Seafood #1, and all the individuals who contributed to this cause. We also want to thank Zeta Phi Beta Sorority, Incorporated and Sigma Tau Sigma Sorority Inc., our Purple Gala Volunteer Ambassadors, for their outstanding help.

This event was about more than just celebrating—it was about raising awareness of domestic violence and empowering everyone to stand up, be a voice for the voiceless, and understand the costs and resources needed to support survivors.

Mark your calendars for next year: Saturday, October 4, 2025, for the 10th Annual Purple Gala! If you’re interested in becoming a sponsor, volunteer, or part of the planning committee, email Tina Torres at [email protected].

Together, we can continue to make a difference. 💜

10/03/2024

🎶 Live Entertainment Announcement 🎶

We are thrilled to announce that Christopher Hopkins and the Soul Session Band w/ Friends will be performing at the 9th Annual Purple Gala!

Get ready for an unforgettable night of sultry, fun, and high-energy music that will keep you dancing all night long. From timeless classics to today's hits, Chris Hopkins and his incredible bass flow will have everyone on their feet, moving and grooving.

Not only are they masters of music, but bringing awareness to domestic violence is one of their passions, and we truly appreciate their support over the years. The artistic and creative mind behind this band is nothing short of extraordinary, and we are honored to have them as our live entertainment for this special evening.

Let's come together for a night of amazing live music and a powerful cause! Join us on the dance floor and let’s celebrate for a purpose!

10/03/2024

Spotlight on the Purple Gala Logistics Team

We are truly grateful for everyone who steps up to ensure the 9th Annual Purple Gala runs smoothly, and for the last 7 years, these two incredible women have been at the helm, making things happen! Meet the amazing logistics team:

Jessica Burton – CEO and Founder of Friendly Atmosphere Mentoring (FAM)
Her Motto: "The only limitations in life are the ones you place on yourself and the ones you allow others to place on you."

Lanita Carson Jones – Owner of Designed Just Right Events, Inc.
Her Motto: “I've learned that people will forget what you said, people will forget what you did, but people will never forget how you made them feel." – Maya Angelou

These powerhouse women run the show, and I’m lucky to simply move out of their way. They are truly amazing, and we are blessed to have them back again this year, continuing their dedication to raising awareness for domestic violence. 💜

10/03/2024

Shoutout to Pressed'bout'Me LLC!

For the past 5 years, Kasha Kay and her team at Pressed'Bout Me have been a crucial part of The Purple Gala, ensuring that our team looks and feels their best. We are truly grateful for your unwavering support and the care you put into every transformation. Your ability to make everyone feel like they are the center of the world is unmatched.

We can’t wait to work with you again this year! 💜

"Hello! I am Ms. Kay, known to many as 'The Pressed MUA.' So, why should you trust me to enhance your beauty? I am a passionate beauty professional who specializes in makeup artistry, particularly known for my natural looks and signature brow creations. From everyday beauty to pageant queens, full glam, and bridal makeup, my services are designed to highlight and enhance your natural beauty, with useful tips to incorporate into your daily routine."

Thank you, Kasha, for being such a valued part of our journey! ✨

10/03/2024

Thank You to Our Host Venue!

To Venue817, we extend our deepest gratitude for your sponsorship and support in hosting this year's 9th Annual Purple Gala and Purple Brunch. Your partnership allows us to continue raising awareness about domestic violence and provide crucial support to survivors. We are honored to be part of your mission to deliver "Southern Hospitality" and look forward to many more events together!

Looking for the perfect venue? Venue817 has 5,000 sq. ft of space and can accommodate up to 505 guests. Located just 10 minutes from Downtown Columbia, it's easily accessible from I-20 and I-26 and close to local attractions like Riverbanks Zoo and Columbiana Mall!

Venue Features:

5,000 Sq. Ft.
8 Restrooms
200+ Parking Spaces
Max Capacity: 505 Standing / 380 Seated
$500 Booking Price to Hold Reservation
Liability Insurance Required
Security Required
In-House Bartending Service
Set-up and Break-down within rental hours
Don’t miss out on booking your next wedding, reception, conference, or party at Venue817!

10/03/2024

Sponsor Spotlight: Chain of Events

We are beyond thrilled to announce that@Chain of Events is our decor sponsor for both The Purple Gala events this year! 🎉

Melinda Roberson, the mastermind behind it all, is truly a genius when it comes to turning a blank space into something vibrant, heartwarming, and spectacular. Her creativity and attention to detail have once again blown us away, and we’re incredibly grateful that she has taken us under her wing this year. 💜

Chain of Events is a full-service Chair Cover and Linen Rental company located right here in Columbia, South Carolina. Whether it's a wedding, corporate event, or special engagement, they offer an extensive collection of high-quality specialty linen to make your event shine with elegance and class. Their team focuses on providing excellent customer service, creative consultations, and custom installations to ensure every detail fits your style and budget.

Thank you, Chain of Events, for bringing our vision to life with your stunning decor!

10/03/2024

We are thrilled to announce the dynamic duo leading this year's 9th Annual Purple Gala! 🎤

Emcee: Kiwan N. Fitch Mba
Kiwan is an entrepreneur, author/coauthor of 10 books, speaker, executive producer, playwright, coach, and mother with over 20 years of experience in nonprofit, social services, and business leadership. As the founder of J2P Global Institute LLC, she is a visionary leader, empowering individuals to reach their personal and professional goals. We are honored to have Kiwan as the Emcee of this prestigious event!

Co-Emcee: Kei'Yona Jordon
Born and raised in Columbia, SC, Kei'Yona is a proud graduate of Spring Valley High School and holds a Bachelor of Mass Communication from Francis Marion University. Starting as an intern at WACH Fox in 2020, she has since risen to become a senior reporter, MMJ, and occasional anchor. We are excited to have Kei'Yona bring her expertise and energy to the stage!

Join us for an unforgettable evening at the Purple Gala, where we raise awareness and support for domestic violence survivors. 💜

10/03/2024

The Power of the Village: A Foundation of Love, Hope, and Strength

There’s an unspoken beauty in the power of a village. It’s where love grows, hope is restored, and strength is shared. A village is more than just family—it’s those who show up when words aren’t spoken, when hearts are heavy, and when we’re too quiet to ask for help. It’s in these moments of vulnerability that the village becomes our backbone, our source of happiness, and our reason to press on.

We lean on each other, not just in times of celebration, but in moments of hurt. The village reminds us that we’re never alone, that together we can carry any burden, and that in every trial, hope remains. There’s a deep spiritual bond that comes from being there for one another, lifting each other up, and walking alongside each other through every storm.

No matter what we face, it’s the village that keeps us grounded, fills our hearts with love, and reminds us that we’re stronger together.