Weddings and Events by Ruth

07/19/2024

REFORM & CONSERVATIVE Jewish couples choose to do the circling tradition at the ceremony in a more EGALITARIAN way, where the bride circles the groom 3 times, the groom circles the bride 3 times and they both circle each other one time.

Ruth Spirer is a skilled and experienced Wedding Planner, specializing in planning Jewish weddings for 20+ years.
Contact Ruth to check availability and start planning your wedding.
972-672-3163 [email protected]


Hilton Dallas/ Rockwall Lakefront
Amy Herfurth Photography
Blooming Accents
HOOP Event Rentals
Designer Faces Makeup Artistry

07/19/2024

I love exploring new venues! Enjoyed a hard hat tour today at the HALL Park Autograph Collection Hotel in Frisco opening in September. It’s going to be a beautiful hotel!
Thank you Denia Clark for the tour today.

07/17/2024

Check out this article on Brides.com
A First Look at the Spring 2025 Bridal
Fashion Week Collections
A sneak peek of the dresses and styles you can see this season.
https://loom.ly/DkUQwKA is here to support you and guide you through your wedding planning process. Let us know how we can help you.

"Spring Summer 2025 bridal couture collection reflects our vision to go back in time when life was simply joyful—living life in a different way, our inspiration took back in time to the 18th Century royal gardens and feminine silhouettes of women in ball gowns walking down the Enchanting Gardens. Here is a link to the full article: https://loom.ly/VkRxTpA

Note: these images come from a few of the designers included in this article.

07/14/2024

What is your dance floor style?

The latest trend seems to be white and or checkered dance floors.

07/12/2024

WHAT IS THE VEILING OF THE BRIDE AT A JEWISH WEDDING?

The veil is a symbol of MODESTY according to the Jewish faith. It emphasizes that the inner qualities of the soul and character are more important than the outer beauty. Rebecca in the bible covered her face when she saw Jacob her groom.

The biblical story of Rachel and Jacob- Jacob worked 7 years for Rachel’s father to win Rachel’s hand in marriage. The father substituted his older daughter Leah for Rachel by covering her face. It took 7 more years for Jacob till he could marry Rachel, whom he loved.

This lovely wedding took place at @ Stone Crest Venue McKinney

Flowers provided by Holly Viles Design
Ashley Rutland Photography captured the scenes
Video by Knox Park Films
Makeup/Hair by Chi Ro Makeup and Hair

07/10/2024

Our Clients’ Vision

Sami and Scott wanted a wedding that said “Fun, romance, classy and elegant with a modern twist using Sapphire blue and gold”. They wanted everything to flow seamlessly and to have a PARTY! And that is what was delivered. The setting was The Westin Dallas Downtown Hotel. Lizzie Bee's Flower Shoppe provided the chuppah an décor and created the ambiance with beautiful all white flowers that included Hydrangea, Phalaenopsis Orchids, and Roses. Lawson Event Rentals EventRentals provided the white monogrammed white dance floor, linen and the white stage façade. Check out the creative and fun cakes designed by Fancy Cakes by Lauren.

*Photo credit: Amy Herfurth Photography

Ceremony music by Forte' Strings
Band IceHouse Band
Video and Photobooth by Harmland Visions, LLC
Invitations by Letter Art
Make Up by Elan Makeup Studio

Our Clients’ Review

Ruth is amazing!

Ruth is absolutely incredible! Her knowledge and advice alone is worth her cost. She knows all the venues, vendors, and most importantly, she's already negotiated prices for you. Saves you a ton of time, money, and allows you to focus on everything else. She helps you make decisions along the way. She really cares that your day is the best day and is a true professional. We highly recommend her.

Check out more pictures under the Gallery tab on our website.

Contact Ruth to check on her availability for your wedding. https://loom.ly/m45o8dE

07/07/2024

Let’s talk about tuxedos. What is your guy’s style, formal or casual?

07/05/2024

The rituals at a Jewish wedding ceremony don’t end with the recessional. The newly married couple retreats to a private room and spends a short time alone in” Yichud”, which means “together” in Hebrew. Then the couple proceeds to the wedding feast. The “Sheva Brachot” – seven blessings are repeated after dinner and optionally each night for a week at celebratory dinners with family and friends.

We are experts in planning Jewish weddings, and we can bring your vision to life. Schedule a consultation with us today 972-672-3163 [email protected]

Texas Discovery Gardens -venue
-catering
The Special Edition Band -music
Tiffany Hopwood Photography

Branching Out Floral and Event Design
Marquee Event Rentals -rentals
Lip Service Makeup

LeForce Entertainment -lighting
Susan Moss Cooper Paintings - painter
Letter Art -stationery

07/04/2024

Wishing everyone a wonderful and safe 4th of July!

*Photo credit: Amy Herfurth Photography

06/28/2024

The CHUPPAH

The bridal canopy is a multifaceted symbol: It is a home, a garment and a bed covering. Its openness recalls the tent of the biblical Abraham, a paragon of hospitality, who kept his tents open on all sides so that visitors would know they were welcome. The tabernacle built in the desert to house the presence of God is described as a bridal canopy. The huppah (also commonly spelled chuppah) is a symbol of God’s presence at a wedding and in the home being established under the canopy. It was said the divine Name hovers above it, sanctifying the space below.

Article: https://loom.ly/juRrFPY

06/26/2024

Thank you, Katy Bull with Plan It With Me and Christina MacMeeken with
The MacMaeeken Photography for hosting me at your Lifting The Veil podcast. I had fun talking with both of you, and I loved the opportunity to shed a light on Jewish weddings.

Listen to this podcast
https://podcasts.apple.com/us/podcast/lifting-the-veil/id1739002580?i=1000660175700

‎Show Lifting the Veil, Ep Episode 012: Jewish Weddings with Ruth Spirer - Jun 13, 2024

06/26/2024

Ariella and Harel described their vision as romantic, tasteful, classy, fun, and relaxed! They wanted to incorporate burgundy, light pink, tan, and champagne colors. They loved subtle decorations and wanted a unique wedding with “lots of character that Screams… it is OUR wedding!”

“We could not have made the wedding of our dreams for our daughter without Ruth’s help. Her commitment to our vision was complete and she was instrumental in picking fantastic vendors to help with so many aspects of the wedding, organizing our tasks, and keeping us on track.
On the wedding day, I didn’t worry about anything because I had Ruth and her team to ensure it went smoothly. We had a complicated event because we tied a whole weekend of events around the wedding, and Ruth helped us with all of them. But the actual wedding day I think was the day I appreciated Ruth the most! I enjoyed my daughter’s wedding and we heard from so many people that it was the best wedding they had ever been to. We could not have done it without Ruth. Thank you, Ruth!!! We have the most beautiful memories now - and your professionalism and work ethic made it all possible.”

Venue: The Fairmont Dallas
Photographer: f8studio
Florist: Lizzie Bee's Flower Shoppe
Staging, draping: AVSD Productions
Rentals: Lawson Event Rentals
Make-up: Erin Blair Makeup & Hair Design
Hair: WZ Beauty Studio

06/24/2024

Let’s eat cake, or maybe you want a dessert station?

06/21/2024

Traditional Judaism dictates the giving of the ring by the groom to the bride in the presence of two witnesses formalizing the marriage. Jewish law requires the ring to be precious metal, have some value, be unadorned by stones and not have any decorations cut out of it. At Conservative and Reform Jewish weddings both the bride and groom exchange rings in an egalitarian approach.

Venue: Fairmont Dallas Hotel
Photographer: Amy Herfurth Photography
Flowers: Belle Decor

06/20/2024

Since 2004, Weddings and Events by Ruth has been specializing in planning Jewish weddings, including supervised full Kosher weddings. With over 20 years of experience, owner and a certified wedding planner, Ruth Spirer is known for her expertise in planning Jewish weddings of all denominations and knowing the ins and outs of the Kosher events’ requirements.

"I am trying to plan a kosher wedding in Dallas. My fiancé and I live in Chicago and are struggling to understand the logistics of some of the places that do kosher catering.
I was planning on interviewing wedding planners after I picked a venue; however, my parents are the messengers between the venues and us and there is too much miscommunication, so we are shifting gears. I have heard raving reviews regarding your work , especially with kosher weddings and wanted to set up a call to understand your experiences with different venues and discuss potentially helping us get organized since we are remote"

We offer an initial complimentary consultation. Call us - 972-672-3163 so we can plan your memorable lifetime event!

A Taste of The World Catering

06/17/2024

Have you stopped to consider food stations, plated dinners, or buffets? They are all very different and depend on your menu. All options come with a different price point, but not to worry, we are here to help you make the best choice for your wedding and your budget. Call us to inquire how we can help you plan your memorable wedding - 972-672-3163.

06/14/2024

As interfaith weddings are becoming more common, cultural differences can add more stress to the occasion, especially if couples seek to honor both religious traditions.

Making your wedding ceremony inclusive and comfortable for your families, friends, and guests of all backgrounds is very important when planning Interfaith weddings. Involve, Explain Acknowledge, Be Sensitive…

Full Article https://loom.ly/xfY-v1U

Venue: Chapel at Palacios
Photography: Tiffany Hopwood Photography
Florist: Weddings by Lavenders
Chuppah: HOOP Event Rentals

06/12/2024

I like to be more “hands-on” with my clients’ weddings and provide a tailored approach to planning. You can expect a level of service that is detailed, creative, and unique to you. I only accept one event on a weekend so you can be my sole focus.

Here is a link to my blog for wedding tips. https://loom.ly/DV-vAj4

Call me for your initial COMPLIMENTARY consultation and let me help you create a memorable lifetime event! 972-672-3163

Amy Herfurth Photography

06/09/2024

Setting the table can be fun, I am here to help so it does not become stressful as costs add up. There are runners, chargers, different folds of napkins, and glassware to consider. We take time with you and we can have fun playing with some options.

06/07/2024

Ketubah Wording
While some ketubah are true works of art, the important part of the ketubah is what it says. As a couple, you will be signing this document so take the time to find a ketubah with text that reflects you as a couple and is also approved by your officiating Rabbi.

Here is a link from www.ketubah.com, where you’ll find 32 different choices of pre-written texts including an option to write your own.

06/05/2024

Simone and Aaron loved and envisioned mauve, dusty rose, navy blue, burgundy colors with gold accents. They wanted their wedding to be elegant, smooth, fun, and full of dancing.
See their wedding images in my website gallery https://loom.ly/DkUQwKA

“We loved Ruth! She was on top of everything, each and every detail about our wedding day! She and her team thought of everything from sending details each month to packaging everything together at the end of the night and made it a much smoother process. Thank you Ruth!”

Venue: Hilton Dallas/ Rockwall Lakefront
DJ, video, photo booth:
Photography: Amy Herfurth Photography
Florist: Blooming Accents
Chuppah: HOOP Event Rentals
Cakes: Butterfly Cakery
Makeup& Hair: Designer Faces Makeup Artistry

06/02/2024

It is time to consider table linen options and there are many. You can go with seat top or floor length, specialty overlays or different designs for different tables. Here are some images to give you something to think about.

05/31/2024

What happens before the Jewish Wedding Ceremony?
At more traditional Jewish weddings, the Kabbalat panim is a pre-ceremony where the bride and groom sit in different rooms or areas. They guests greet them and often enjoy some light — or not so light refreshments. Some brides and grooms who are more observant fast on their wedding day until after the ceremony.

As boutique wedding planner, I will be with you all the way from engagement to the end of your wedding day and I will guide you throughout the planning process.
Call or email me to inquire -972-672-3163 [email protected]

The Westin Dallas Downtown
Amy Herfurth Photography
Branching Out Floral and Event Design
HOOP Event Rentals
Lawson Event Rentals
AVSD Productions
Lip Service Makeup

05/29/2024

When you are a wedding industry professional, and you plan your own daughter’s wedding, the relationships you have with your trusted vendors are what makes the difference and the result magnificent! These images from my daughter’s wedding are with Jennifer Trotter owner of Lip Service Makeup and Katy with Branching Out Events presenting Yael with her bridal bouquet.

Amy Herfurth Photography
Branching Out Floral and Event Design
HOOP Event Rentals
Lawson Event Rentals
AVSD Productions
Lip Service Makeup

05/26/2024

Chuppahs come in many shapes and styles. They can be clear acrylic frames, wood frames, or metal frames. According to the Jewish tradition the top of the chuppah needs to be covered by fabric or you can use a family owned Talit, a prayer shawl. You can cover the posts with floral or fabric, and depending on time and location, the flowers can be repurposed to be used during the reception.

Check out Hoop Event Rentals for more ideas on what you can do for your wedding chuppah. https://loom.ly/2zHd20c

Call or email me to inquire -972-672-3163 [email protected]

05/24/2024

HAPPY 20th COMPANY ANNIVERSARY TO US!

We are beyond grateful for our clients, wedding and event industry partners, and our team of coordinators for helping us reach this incredible milestone!

We are celebrating a journey of 20 amazing years producing beautiful, memorable weddings and working alongside the most talented and best professionals in this industry.

Thank you to all our clients for trusting Weddings and Events by Ruth to accompany you from engagement to the last dance, and assisting you on such a special day in your lives! We feel honored to have had the opportunity to be part of your BIG DAY!

I have built a successful career because I am so passionate about event planning, and particularly I LOVE EVERYTHING WEDDINGS!
I love the details, aesthetics, creativity, music, food, and most of all, I LOVE PEOPLE!
I love the relationships I build both with my clients and with venues and vendors I work with. I feel so fortunate to DO what I LOVE and LOVE what I DO!

Cheers!

Weddings and Events by Ruth is a boutique wedding and event planning company
with a focus on personalized, high-level concierge style customer service. We
primarily plan weddings and have a specialty niche in Jewish, Multicultural, and Interfaith
weddings.

LET US TAKE CARE OF THE DETAILS SO YOU CAN RELAX AND ENJOY YOUR SPEIAL
DAY!
Contact us - [email protected]
Call or text us- 972-672-3163

05/24/2024

What to Wear to a Jewish Wedding?
Like most weddings, the dress code for a Jewish wedding can be influenced by location and time of day. At many Jewish weddings, men wear kippot (skullcaps), and they will most likely be provided at the wedding. In some circles, you may see women wearing kippot too. Women at more traditional Jewish weddings wear skirts or dresses that fall below the knee and they cover their shoulders or elbows, in even more traditional circles. Sometimes, women wear wraps or jackets that cover their shoulders just for the ceremony.

Chapel at Palacios
Tiffany Hopwood Photography
Weddings by Lavenders
HOOP Event Rentals

05/22/2024

This is the wedding of Ellie and Zach, food was a big factor, oh and the fun groom’s cake.

“Ruth is amazing!
There is only one word to describe our wedding: perfection; and it was all thanks to Ruth and her team. Being an out-of-town couple, it can be challenging to articulate what you want and visualize how every piece comes together. Ruth understood and captured every possible detail we imagined.

When it comes to planning a Jewish wedding, Ruth’s expertise and knowledge is unbeatable. We can't thank her enough for making our wedding weekend celebration a huge success!”

The Westin Dallas Downtown
A Taste of The World Catering
Amy Herfurth Photography

Lawson Event Rentals