The Hive

12/02/2024

Why is it that moms feel guilty for being sick? Like, guilt-guilty. Not just “oops, I ate the last cookie” guilt—but the heavy, soul-crushing kind KNOWING that I have 3 emails sitting in my inbox to respond to, an event contract and invoice to go out (that has been on my task list for far too long sorry .by.hands), I have a full week of social media posts to plan and reels to edit for 2 clients, my new appliances get delivered today, a zoom call to get on at 1:30 and I’m sure I’m missing something else.. FUUUCK

Meanwhile, we’ve all seen the memes about the man flu. Dads bundled in blankets, sipping soup, bingeing Netflix, and we laugh it off like it’s completely normal. And sure, dads work hard—mine is the most amazing husband and father. But why is it that when dads are sick, they get permission to tap out for the day, while moms are celebrated for pushing through like warriors? Why do we make that so normal? Honestly, it’s not fair—to moms or dads.

Here’s a wild fact: studies show that moms carry 60-70% of the mental load in most households. That’s the invisible checklist of everything—doctor’s appointments, school projects, remembering where the favorite toy was last seen (under the couch, btw). So when moms are sick, the guilt kicks in because the world we built feels like it might crumble without us.

But here’s the plot twist: if we don’t stop and rest, the world will crumble—ours. No one wins when mom’s running on fumes.

So I’ve been learning to do the unthinkable. To rest. To ask for help. To let things slide. And, yes, to remind my family that moms get sick too, and when we do, it’s not an invitation to play survival mode—it’s a chance to show the kids what grace, self-care, and delegation look like.

But hey, if you need me, I’ll be here, battling this stomach bug (or bad ceviche 🥴) like a warrior … from the comfort of my couch. And maybe ordering takeout, because today, I’m off duty (partially, s**t still has to get done lol).

What about you? How do you handle being sick when the guilt comes knocking? And let’s be honest—why do we keep normalizing this? Boss babe mamas let’s talk about it in the comments.

11/14/2024

Grief is a funny thing.. Yesterday it was eating me up and today has me feeling extra grateful.

The women in our Hive community may never fully know the impact they’ve had throughout this last year. In moments when the weight of grief felt too heavy, their kindness has been a lifeline. Sometimes, just knowing someone is there, ready to hold space and listen, makes all the difference. They’re the first to say, “What can I do to help?” or “I’m here for you. I see you. I love you. How can I support you?”

This isn’t just a coworking space; it’s a place where we lean on each other through life’s highs and lows, a family.

To the women who have shown up for me without even knowing the depth of their impact: I hope you feel that same love, light, and gratitude coming back to you. I’m forever grateful. ❤️

09/19/2024

Cue the nervous sweating! I’m speaking at my very first event, Womenpreneur Stories. Yes, ME! The person who’s been talking to herself in the shower, in the car, and to her dog for WEEKS with a whole lot of “who do I think I am owning a business?!” vibes. Anyone else know the feeling? 🙋‍♀️

This year has been the toughest of my life—both personally and professionally. We’re talking the kind of year that makes you question why you ever started this whole entrepreneurial thing in the first place. Imposter syndrome? Oh yeah, we’ve been hanging out a little too much. And let’s be real, the loneliness of being a solopreneur is no joke either.

But that’s why I’m so pumped (and let’s be honest, I’ll probably puke in the bathroom ahead of time) to share my journey at this event. Because if there’s one thing I’ve learned, it’s that you’re not alone in feeling all the feels, and we’ve got to talk about the real s**t.

If you’re down for a night of raw, real conversations, networking, and some much-needed relaxation, I’d love for you to join us! Let’s get through this together. Oh and did I mention is totally FREEEEE, food included!! Link is in the bio ❤

I would love it if I could see your beautiful face in the audience at I crutch across stage... Pretty please!!

08/06/2024

Hey loves, 🌸

Life’s been serving up a big ol’ dose of “slow down” lately, and let me tell you, it’s been quite the ride. Last week, I broke my foot, and with two upcoming surgeries and 10 weeks of not being able to walk, it feels like the universe decided it’s time for me to hit the brakes. 🙈

This year has really thrown some curveballs my way, and to say it’s been challenging is an understatement. But here’s the thing: sometimes, the universe has a funny way of making us stop, breathe, and take stock of what truly matters. 💫

I’m learning to embrace this pause, finding moments of stillness, and letting it teach me more about patience and resilience. 💪 It’s not easy, but I’m trying to see the silver linings and appreciate the journey, no matter how slow it feels.

I just wanted to let you all know that while I might be a bit slower to respond right now, your patience and support mean the world to me. Your messages and kindness are like little rays of sunshine on my cloudy days. ☀️

Thank you for being such incredible friends and for sticking with me through this. Your love and encouragement are everything, and they help me stay positive and hopeful. Here’s to finding grace in the slowdowns and knowing that we’re all in this together. ❤️

Sending you all lots of love and gratitude. 💕

07/03/2024

Summer is a fun and also a little chaotic (especially if you have kids lol), and we are looking forward to giving you a little something to help ease the chaos!
🎉 We love a good giveaway, and we are thrilled to be collaborating with one of our local mamas, offering you a chance to win a FREE website copy audit for you and your business!
Meet Maelyn,
a local Fairport mama and your conversational copywriter for your creative heart led business! The way we choose our words, our tones, and the delivery of our thoughts has always been something she has loved learning about and perfecting. With her bachelors in psychology - she loves incorporating psychology based techniques - which she likes to call “bringing the human BACK into marketing”
Giveaway Details
Have you ever wondered why your efforts aren’t translating into those dreamy Google rankings or scroll stopping customer engagement?
It’s possible your website is the culprit! And it just might need some love from an expert copywriter (hi, hello! 👋🏽 )
Your website is your storefront - it’s what people peep into when they’re first entering your world. It’s how they get to know you…BEFORE they *meet* you.
This is where this giveaway comes in!
If you’re….
✓ Wondering if your website is getting you in front of the people who need you most (Hello SEO)…
✓ Unsure if it’s clearly sharing what you do & how you do it in a way that speaks to your audience…
✓ Feeling like your DIY website copy and it’s ability to make you sales isn’t cutting it…
🎉 This is for you. 🎉
This audit ($500 value) will help you :
⁃ Understand where your copy might be falling short
⁃ Discover areas where you can improve your site for better SEO
⁃ Find research backed ways to connect with your audience and effectively meet them where they are
How to enter:
-Follow both accounts on Instagram: and
- Like this giveaway post
- Tag a friend in the comments below (each additional tag counts as more entries)
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🩷BONUS ENTRY OPPORTUNITIES🩷
👇 Check the comments below 👇

07/03/2024

Our Hive July Newsletter is out! - https://mailchi.mp/b0095e161191/hive-july-events-digest

We have some fun things planned for this month including a giveaway, Summer Special, and FUN EVENTS!!

Summer is a fun and also a little chaotic (especially if you have kids lol), and we are looking forward to giving you a little something to help ease the chaos!🎉 We love a good giveaway, and we are thrilled to be collaborating with one of our local mamas, offering you a chance to win a FREE websi...

06/22/2024

We had an incredible time this afternoon creating beautiful floral arrangements with the talented . These ladies did an amazing job, each walking away with flowers that perfectly matched their personalities 🩷 and the knowledge to keep creating at home!! Can you believe those beautiful arrangements came from $12.99 bouquets from Trader Joe’s?!?!

Thank you to everyone who joined us! If you missed this week's class, stay tuned for more opportunities!
Amanda Williams Brenda Elisabeth W**d Steffon Life Is Gingerful

06/10/2024

Are you ready to level up your gift-giving game with some swoon-worthy floral arrangements? Join us for a fun and empowering workshop where we’ll show you how to transform a simple grocery store bouquet into a stunning masterpiece.
Why Settle for Basic Blooms?
At The Hive, we believe in giving the gift of a finished product—not something that requires extra effort to make pretty! Let’s face it, no one wants to receive a bouquet that they need to “do work” on when they get home. So why not elevate your gifting game and give the gift of beauty, right from the start? It’s time to ditch the basic bare minimum and embrace the joy of giving with intention.
About the instructor:
“For over 20 years, I’ve dedicated myself to the floral industry, serving as a full-time florist. With the most recent 10 years, serving in managerial and instructional roles at Eli Zabar’s esteemed flagship, “Eli’s Manhattan Market” nestled in the affluent heart of the Upper East Side of Manhattan, NYC. Throughout my career, I’ve embraced each day with gratitude, cherishing the opportunity to immerse myself in the artistry of floral design and to work with the finest premium flowers sourced directly from the Dutch flower auctions.
Now, as I transition into a new chapter, living in Rochester, I am enthusiastic about sharing my expertise to inspire and mentor budding floral enthusiasts. My goal is to empower individuals to explore their own creative potential by demystifying design techniques and fostering an environment of learning and growth. With a commitment to excellence and a passion for sharing my craft, I am eager to embark on this journey of cultivating talent and igniting a love for floral design.” - Melissa Falcon

06/02/2024

A little look into my life ✨ My camera roll is a wild mix of gymnastics stunts, a boy causing mayhem, food pics, Hive snapshots, and the inevitable “who left this mess?” and “why is the toilet paper never replaced?” moments. What fills up your camera roll?

05/20/2024

Are you ready for a networking event that doesn’t involve awkward conversation?!? Join us for an unforgettable Women’s Networking Gathering where we’re ditching the usual small talk for meaningful connections and genuine conversations.
Picture this: a cozy venue, delightful drinks, tasty snacks, and a room filled with inspiring women just like you. No more awkwardly circling the room or feeling lost in generic conversations. We’re shaking things up with engaging icebreakers and table topics designed to spark real connections and laughter.
Mark your calendars and RSVP now for an evening of connection, laughter, and empowerment. Can’t wait to see you there!
🏠 The Hive Coworking Studio: 1387 Fairport Rd. Suite 1000D, Fairport, NY
📅 May 22, 2024
🕑 6:00pm - 8:30pm
💸 FREE for Hive Members, $10 for non-members

05/05/2024

Today we celebrate 🩷

05/01/2024

UPDATE: THIS EVENT HAS BEEN POSTPONED UNTIL JULY 18TH!

In this special workshop, we'll be delving into the beauty of personal handwriting, where every stroke tells a story. Guided by our talented instructor, you'll have the opportunity to create a wooden sign featuring the handwriting of someone you hold dear.

Why Handwriting?
There's something deeply personal and sentimental about handwritten notes and signatures—they capture the essence of a loved one in a way that printed text simply can't replicate. Whether it's the graceful curve of a letter or the unique flourish of a signature, each stroke carries a piece of their soul, making this workshop a truly heartwarming

Grab your ticket here: https://www.eventbrite.com/e/paint-night-at-the-hive-tickets-894438749377?utm-campaign=social&utm-content=attendeeshare&utm-medium=discovery&utm-term=listing&utm-source=cp&aff=ebdsshcopyurl

04/29/2024

I have 1 million other things to do right now, but this is heavy on my heart…

It's 7 PM on this Monday evening, and I'm here at The Hive, basking in its serene emptiness. Just wrapped up the most incredible, raw conversation with one of our members, and it hit me right in the feels. Building a business—it's a journey filled with highs and lows, rivaling the joys of motherhood and marriage. But let's be real, it's also one heck of a rollercoaster, filled with lonely stretches that can leave us feeling drained.

That's why The Hive exists—a space where we come together, share our struggles, and lift each other up. Whether it's grappling with business setbacks, supporting loved ones in need, or simply navigating the ups and downs of life, we've got each other's backs. And let me tell you, the magic I witness here every single day? It's beyond words.

You don’t have to do this life alone!!

The Hive is waaaay more than your typical come in, sit down, be quiet, coworking space… Dare I say it, we are family (but the kind you get to choose lol)

If you’ve read this far and you’re looking for a sign to do something a little differently, HERE IT IS🙌… Here’s your sign to book a tour and try us out for yourself! Fill up our calendar by clicking this link: https://calendly.com/thehiveroc/30min

If you are a member, have been a member, have stopped in for an event, or have experienced a touch of magic for yourself, would you mind sharing that down below? ❤️