11/23/2024
I haven't posted a "Thought of the Day" in a while and after a consult yesterday evening with a couple that's getting married in 2025 I thought this would be a perfect opportunity.
We met via zoom, and as we spoke and I asked several questions of them about how they met, what drew them to each other, how do their values align, and what they enjoy doing together - at one point I stopped them and said "Thank You" for their authenticity.
Authenticity means that you are true to your own personality, values, and spirit, regardless of the pressure that you're under to act otherwise.
You're honest with yourself and with others, and you take responsibility for your mistakes. Your values, ideals, and actions align - you're bringing your whole self to the table.
When I'm speaking with couples I'm not outwardly asking them to be authentic, but they are because they want me to see that authenticity just as I want them to see mine - I want them to feel comfortable. And I told this couple just that.
When I'm meeting with a new couple I'm a stranger to them, but if you know me you know that I don't like being strangers for more than maybe 10 seconds (LOL!) and would rather showcase my authenticity right away so they know that they can feel comfortable showcasing there's.